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By *tsgreatfun OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Essex, Kent, M25

Or is it my age ha ha

Seems to be more difficult to arrange meets, clubs seem not to be as busy these days.

Could be my age, my looks etc…..what to do next

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By *aomilatteCouple
9 weeks ago

Midlands

When we go to clubs they're very busy. None of us can stop the age clock unfortunately.

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Northampton

Try a different club / night

We were at Libs on Saturday and it was packed

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By *otsossieMan
9 weeks ago

Chesterfield

I do feel Tinder has probably taken a lot of the traffic.

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By *oiluvfunMan
9 weeks ago

Penrith


"Try a different club / night

We were at Libs on Saturday and it was packed"

Are single guys allowed in Libs on a Saturday night?

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By *he Silver FuxMan
9 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Or is it my age ha ha

Seems to be more difficult to arrange meets, clubs seem not to be as busy these days.

Could be my age, my looks etc…..what to do next "

Saga river cruises mate 😂

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Northampton


"Try a different club / night

We were at Libs on Saturday and it was packed

Are single guys allowed in Libs on a Saturday night?"

Good point. Might be Friday and Sunday for single guys

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By *tsgreatfun OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Essex, Kent, M25

I think the midlands to the north is definitely better than to the south

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By *oiluvfunMan
9 weeks ago

Penrith


"Try a different club / night

We were at Libs on Saturday and it was packed

Are single guys allowed in Libs on a Saturday night?

Good point. Might be Friday and Sunday for single guys "

The OP will need to find a female to experience a packed Liberty Elite on a Saturday then

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Northampton


"I think the midlands to the north is definitely better than to the south "

We are lucky in this area as loads of clubs. Within an hour we have VA, Libs, Penthouse, Jaydees not much further and Attic, Annex, Le Boudoir

We’ve done a few Fridays at VA (with single guys allowed) and always been well attended. MILF club on Wednesday afternoons we hear is always well attended

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By *carlettxWoman
9 weeks ago

Essex


"Or is it my age ha ha

Seems to be more difficult to arrange meets, clubs seem not to be as busy these days.

Could be my age, my looks etc…..what to do next "

Clubs are really busy every time I’ve been

Maybe you aren’t picking the right ones / events ?

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By *rincebusterMan
9 weeks ago

Wokingham

It ebbs and flows, such is life!

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

The club nights we have been to have been very well attended.

Perhaps a change of scenery OP? Try a different place?

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By *oiluvfunMan
9 weeks ago

Penrith


"Or is it my age ha ha

Seems to be more difficult to arrange meets, clubs seem not to be as busy these days.

Could be my age, my looks etc…..what to do next

Saga river cruises mate 😂"

This isn't a bad shout, even though it was meant in jest! I met a lovely woman from Cambridge on a Norwegian fjords cruise in July. She told me she had also been on a singles holiday a couple of months earlier, which had 23 ladies, and..........ONE man on it! Imagine a holiday with a 'reverse Fab' ratio.....

I've also 'pulled' on a 22 minute train journey from Kendal to Penrith after a night out, and just last weekend, at a gig in Kendal. I would just get out there in the 'normal' world OP. There are far more single ladies out there than you will find in Fab, and definitely more than any club!

Just be yourself mate, all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Or is it my age ha ha

Seems to be more difficult to arrange meets, clubs seem not to be as busy these days.

Could be my age, my looks etc…..what to do next "

Luckily I have the 'wise woman' here with me...

She says 'ye' have but three 'cunning plans':-

1). Build a time-machine and go back in time.

2). Take a magic potion that makes you younger.

3). Make clubs busier through sly marketing ploys and through strategic manipulation somehow make it less difficult to arrange meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Ohh wait... The wise-woman has another cunning plan...

She says:

4. Turn gay; cunningly marketing yourself as an older: 'sugar-daddy' - thereby increasing your chances of meets by up to a cock-whopping 98% more.

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By *avexxMan
9 weeks ago

cheshire


"Or is it my age ha ha

Seems to be more difficult to arrange meets, clubs seem not to be as busy these days.

Could be my age, my looks etc…..what to do next

Luckily I have the 'wise woman' here with me...

She says 'ye' have but three 'cunning plans':-

1). Build a time-machine and go back in time.

2). Take a magic potion that makes you younger.

3). Make clubs busier through sly marketing ploys and through strategic manipulation somehow make it less difficult to arrange meets."
,,, i have the magic potion

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Or is it my age ha ha

Seems to be more difficult to arrange meets, clubs seem not to be as busy these days.

Could be my age, my looks etc…..what to do next

Luckily I have the 'wise woman' here with me...

She says 'ye' have but three 'cunning plans':-

1). Build a time-machine and go back in time.

2). Take a magic potion that makes you younger.

3). Make clubs busier through sly marketing ploys and through strategic manipulation somehow make it less difficult to arrange meets.,,, i have the magic potion "

See?! There's kind Dave there offering you a magic potion.

Dave, what does he have to do to attain a: 'drink' of some of this potion?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
9 weeks ago

Sheffield

Chams was packed yesterday! Couples, single men and single women.

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By *uzzleMan
9 weeks ago

Hastings

Just adopt my strategy.

Have a wank, its far easier and no effort messaging or chatting up etc.

It doesn't matter how you get there, when you cum the release is the same.

Job done!

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By *exxyyDy11Man
9 weeks ago

Darwen

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By *exxyyDy11Man
9 weeks ago

Darwen


"Chams was packed yesterday! Couples, single men and single women."

Never been to Chams yet. On my to do list though

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I can't meet anyone...

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By *sianpearlWoman
9 weeks ago

swindon

yes it has changed, I dont do clubs so have no idea about them, its much harder to get a meet these days, predominately more fantasist now who message and then dont show up to agreed meets. A lot more ghosting.

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By *oiluvfunMan
9 weeks ago

Penrith


"yes it has changed, I dont do clubs so have no idea about them, its much harder to get a meet these days, predominately more fantasist now who message and then dont show up to agreed meets. A lot more ghosting."

Clubs are just like Fab in one building; 50% couples, 45% single males, 5% single females. You’ll have a riot with plenty to choose from

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

Fab has only changed slightly in that new features have been introduced. The members have though. Some are new and some got older.

Nothing ever remains the same so we need to adjust our approach accordingly

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By *neeyedwillieMan
9 weeks ago

Darlington

The club I frequent is busier than ever with first timers coming every week

As for age..there's older than me go and younger than me go.

Age is inevitable. What you do with it though is up to you.

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