FabSwingers.com forum: Husbands who wish their wife would!

By *estraining_Cpl OP Couple
9 weeks ago

CROWBOROUGH

From: Mr Restrainer, A long time fab member and adorer of wifesharing, and bi-sub play.

This thread is for a conversation about wanting to share your wife BUT, you either have no idea how to ask are or she has firmly said no.... but you would give anything to experience it ... the frustration is eating you up and you really have nowhere and no-one to talk to...

I know there are many married guys out there with Single Male profiles or couple profiles where the wife is completely uninterested or has said a firm no!

Your sexual relationship maybe great, but you'd like a bit more, it maybe once a month or less, or anything in between. You wake up most days wishing and wondering...

I have been incredible fortunate to share my wife I can't deny that

but yes I would like it to happen more. I also must acknowledge that we only discuss 3 or 4 experiences that we have truly enjoyed. The other times were anywhere from unenjoyable, which I/we regret or kinda just ok and we wouldn't meet that person again.

Please share you're own desires or experiences...

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By *arksidedMan
9 weeks ago

Blaenau gwent

Sorry, you can't send private mail to this user

Why? User only wants messages from people who have photos on their profile

so no

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By *ettpairCouple
9 weeks ago

Kettering

For us it seems that it's either one or the other has simply just lost the mojo...of course we'd like to play more but sometimes everyday life just gets in the way.... doesn't help working long & different hours either....we live in hope

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By *estraining_Cpl OP Couple
9 weeks ago

CROWBOROUGH

Thamks for the feedback. I'll change that

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By *randmrsfuntobehadCouple
9 weeks ago

manchester

"From: Mr Restrainer, A long time fab member and adorer of wifesharing, and bi-sub play.

I know there are many married guys out there with Single Male profiles or couple profiles where the wife is completely uninterested or has said a firm no!

Your sexual relationship maybe great, but you'd like a bit more, it maybe once a month or less, or anything in between. You wake up most days wishing and wondering...

I have been incredible fortunate to share my wife I can't deny that

Please share you're own desires or experiences...

I’d love for more as we currently do 2 or 3 times a year but watching her with other men is amazing. She has zero stage fright when a big dicks inside her

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By *estraining_Cpl OP Couple
9 weeks ago

CROWBOROUGH

Yes I/we can relate to that. wanting it and feeling it are definitely two different things. More often than not the stars just don't align and for us I know we are each aroused very differently. Sat we had a connection together and it was lush, sun was no different, just us, but that vibe just wasn't there even though we both hoped it might be... That's Life I guess

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By *hil153Man
9 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Id love mine to play

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By *enbobjimMan
9 weeks ago

Wallasey

Me in a nutshell love mine to bits but she’s quite reserved now love us to be involved in bi play together. Hot showing her off to other hubby’s and wanking together over our wives. Wish could do for real

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By *insBadMan
9 weeks ago

& around

I'll be coming back to this thread

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By *entlemanrogueMan
9 weeks ago

Motherwell

"I'll be coming back to this thread

likewise.

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By *oldturkeyCouple
9 weeks ago

taunton

Be even naughtier

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By *hhyouMan
9 weeks ago

York

Yes although occasionally get to fuck her in a window in the hope someone sees

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

"For us it seems that it's either one or the other has simply just lost the mojo...of course we'd like to play more but sometimes everyday life just gets in the way.... doesn't help working long & different hours either....we live in hope "

Similar issue for me and Mrs, we haven't met anyone else together since before COVID

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By *ieandteaseMan
9 weeks ago

Wiltshire

My fb gets a very occasional text from a well endowed ex. Once a year or so.

She always replies and tells me about it. I've always told her she should invite him over.

I'd love to see him and her together.

She never does though.

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By *dswingersCouple
9 weeks ago

chelmsford

in the same boat… the thought of watching my wife enjoying another cock fills with with such enjoyment and pleasure… we’re get there one day 🤞

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By *ornyperv100Man
9 weeks ago

Tunbridge wells

Me and my wife used to enjoy having others join use for sexy time, but over the years she put a stop to it.

Now I wish I could get her to agree to it again.

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By *hornleeMan
9 weeks ago

Stockton on Tees

My wive when she was healthy would play about quiet a bit, but as her health has got worse she dosent anymore, but I'm hoping she will for one man who she says she would take no problem just a shame he lives in Denmark. The thrill of knowing your wive is fucking another man is beautiful.

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By *ansduoCouple
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

Might be worth forming a group of sorts to make those wives feel comfortable to start or to just watch and never start.

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By *cotsman269Man
9 weeks ago

Falkirk

Sounds like a good idea

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By *erkshireguy4uMan
9 weeks ago

newbury

Defo fall into this category! Would love to share my wife with others. She’s aware but I don’t think she knows how much of a turn on it is for me.

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By *ewbootsandpanties99Man
9 weeks ago

Darkest South East Surrey

Same here, when she was interested in sex she used to love me talking dirty to her about my fantasy of seeing her with another man. She'd make enough noise for the people at the end of the road to hear! However she'd never take the final step saying it was all a fantasy, something I have to accept. She knows I'm on here so accepts I still have those fantasies but sadly I can't see it ever happening. I can but dream.

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By *urious_male1982Man
9 weeks ago

aylesbury

Sharing her is a massive turn on for both of us and we’ve shared her with a couple of guys more than once but she often lacks confidence about herself or doesn’t always feel sexy enough to do it and sometimes real life often gets in the way but I’d love to do it more. Seeing her with another guy is amazing though and we are trying to arrange dates with a guy we’ve met before at the moment

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By *J coupleCouple
9 weeks ago

stone

We occasionally meet others but it takes someone quite special to get MrsJ in the playful mood.

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By *estraining_Cpl OP Couple
4 weeks ago

CROWBOROUGH

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By *estraining_Cpl OP Couple
4 weeks ago

CROWBOROUGH

That feels like my holy quest...finding that someone special....

"We occasionally meet others but it takes someone quite special to get MrsJ in the playful mood. "

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By *ellinever70Woman
4 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I don't think I'd like to be the wife of someone who spent so much time wishing I was fucking others or always wanting to talk about it.

I'd end up probably not wanting to have sex at all

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By *estraining_Cpl OP Couple
4 weeks ago

CROWBOROUGH

I hope that goes well for you both. That perceptoon of ones self as having a lack of confidence is not easy to shake off. Its something that you can support your wife with in other areas of life. But i totally agree with the flame sharing her lights in you.

"Sharing her is a massive turn on for both of us and we’ve shared her with a couple of guys more than once but she often lacks confidence about herself or doesn’t always feel sexy enough to do it and sometimes real life often gets in the way but I’d love to do it more. Seeing her with another guy is amazing though and we are trying to arrange dates with a guy we’ve met before at the moment "

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By *omeday1955Couple
4 weeks ago

taunton

"I don't think I'd like to be the wife of someone who spent so much time wishing I was fucking others or always wanting to talk about it.

I'd end up probably not wanting to have sex at all"

This may be very accurate.

My wife flirts like mad, is sexy and suggestive with others, we teased our friend years ago, and she did have sex with him,I encouraged and I listened, she felt guilty, says it will never happen again but gets so wet when we chat about it and goes along with the idea for then.

Cams and chats on phone...for my pleasure but I still have this desire to see her enjoying her bodily sensations and not feel its wrong to feel horny, which she says is being easy and a tart!!

Sex life has reduced dramatically and it's me that struggles keeping her happy.

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By *otguy555Man
4 weeks ago

Bristol

My wife used to be totally against the idea. I have always wanted a 3 some with her and another. One night she surprised me with a night of sex and fun with her and her best friend. It was amazing. She was really enjoying it and so was I. We were both wanting more after and we talked about it and decided to meet a guy. We have met lots now and love it

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By *obyorksMan
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I have been brave and mentioned a threesome with my wife and she has said no. However I think it’s due to lack of confidence that a hot guy would fancy her etc. I know there will be guys who would love to fuck her. Maybe on a night out it may happen.

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By *londie and BaldyCouple
4 weeks ago

Halesowen

It is all about confidence.

My wife is shy and won’t have meets but we have done some club nights when she’s had a drink and we had a good time.

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By *amon.dMan
4 weeks ago

antrim

Iv told my wife I'd love to watch her pleasured by another guy. She's not up for it at the minute but I'm not ruling it out. It started from a stay in a hotel she booked a massage and when there they asked if she had any issue with a male masseuse. She was unsure but I said go for it. She loved it, I told her it turned me on and we had the best sex that night. Ever since then Iv fantasised about an mmf. Starting with a nice massage.

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple
4 weeks ago

Stafford

We’ve shared each other but it’s only been bisexual and normally on naturist beaches same sex sharing feels kind of less risky for our feelings. We discussed swapping with other couples met a few socially but never felt the spark. We are devoted and in love which kind of stop us going any further than this xx

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By *t112Man
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

Wife chat on WhatsApp or snap ??

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Totally relate to this

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By *orth_south99Couple
4 weeks ago

Yorkshire

I finally told my wife all my fantasies last year so she agreed to come on here. She likes exhibitionism but was a bit hesitant of anything more. We got some rare time child free in July last year so we went to Amsterdam and visited SamePlace. We both loved it and we each came about 4 or 5 times but didn’t join in with others.

M is starting to come round to the idea. We’re going to visit a club one night when we can get childcare.

We’ve cammed a few times. Need to get ourselves down to Pandoras.

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