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"That's what puts me off most couples x" Single guy's too.. Those with verifications, definitely have more than a variety of angles of their penis we note.. 🤔 Honest critique of our representation here? DM if you prefer x | |||
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"We're only looking for M MM & TV, to play with me, for gb, gg ect. So not really much need for pics of Mr needed on our account. " An utterly valid reason for your dynamic 👍 | |||
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"Yes, we find the same. Unless it’s only the f of a couple meeting, why not show both? How are you meant to work out if there’s an attraction for a four way meet if you’re only able to see one of them? "Haven't a bloody clue! 🤣 We've even had DM's when we have asked for face pics and 'he' had his blanked out!! Y responded with "honestly I'm not really into headless guy's" 🤷😜 | |||
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"Yes, we find the same. Unless it’s only the f of a couple meeting, why not show both? How are you meant to work out if there’s an attraction for a four way meet if you’re only able to see one of them? "Oh and a public apology!! Just realised we've not responded to you guys!? 😳🙄😘 | |||
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"Guilty of this to a degree. Only one of hubby on the profile. I suppose we should put more up. But he doesn't enjoy posing as much as i do "And you do it sooo well!! 🔥 At least you have something and from what we can see, we'd love to see more of him 😉😘 | |||
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"If there are no photos of him or only ones of his cock we won’t bother with the profile, We have in the past and then asked for pictures of him to only be sent the same single cock pic and a load of the lady. Come on how can you expect us ladies to get excited and possibly play with other couples if we can’t see the guys?? Kink (Mrs)" Would appear the frustration is not just ours!! 😘 | |||
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"Urgh, this drives me crazy. I don't seek to meet couples anymore, getting a photo of the invisible man that isn't a cock is like pulling teeth & if he's not there I'll assume there's a reason (he's ugly) I've heard every excuse - men don't photo well, he's got tattoos we don't want people to see etc.... men can and do photo well, tattoos can be blurred. I'm not into blind date & won't meet some random cock because his Mrs is hot. Mrs " Yup, #smokeshow The other excuse, job.. We know surgeons, Police and Solicitors here so that's bullshit too.. 🙄🤣 | |||
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"We are definitely guilty of this but it’s nothing more than that I love posing for pics and he doesn’t. However if we message anyone we absolutely send face pics within the first 2-3 messages as we totally understand it’s not blind date and there needs to be a mutual attraction between everyone. We don’t see it as a huge problem as we are more than willing to share pics privately. " It may work for you but it's a big red flag for me. If the couple doesn't send a number of pics of him in their first message then we never get to a second message. | |||
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"We are definitely guilty of this but it’s nothing more than that I love posing for pics and he doesn’t. However if we message anyone we absolutely send face pics within the first 2-3 messages as we totally understand it’s not blind date and there needs to be a mutual attraction between everyone. We don’t see it as a huge problem as we are more than willing to share pics privately. " Pretty much mirror this- have to say hasn’t caused us too many issues. However, we obvs cant know how many people we put off from messaging. | |||
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"We are definitely guilty of this but it’s nothing more than that I love posing for pics and he doesn’t. However if we message anyone we absolutely send face pics within the first 2-3 messages as we totally understand it’s not blind date and there needs to be a mutual attraction between everyone. We don’t see it as a huge problem as we are more than willing to share pics privately. " Hey! No shaming.. If you send them readily we'd have no issue 😘 Really those who expect to see but won't show.. Had sooo many try to continue chat and arrange something but unwilling to reciprocally send pictures. As you say it's not blind date and frankly we both got catfished prior to meeting 🙄 #awkward | |||
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"Anyone else find it bewildering? Browsing profiles, we are apprehensive in contacting profile's without, frankly I (Mrs) won't engage with zero idea of whether I'd find 'him' attractive.. Frustrating for D too as whilst he has a decent physique, he's no 6 pack sporting, muscled guy but feel we've made the effort. There's mostly disembodied cock shots, but if that was all I was interested in, we already have multiple, different sized dildo's.. 🤣🤷" Their profile their choice. But a fair point. When I had a couples profile, she loved posing and I loved snapping. Alternately, I dont love posing and she definitely didn't love snapping. But yes can see it's a challenge if there's nothing of the bloke to go on. | |||
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"Yes, we find the same. Unless it’s only the f of a couple meeting, why not show both? How are you meant to work out if there’s an attraction for a four way meet if you’re only able to see one of them? "I think guys are just camera shy or have a lot to lose if someone comes across their pic……..easy to ask for pics tho Gorgeous couple by the way xxx | |||
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"Anyone else find it bewildering? Browsing profiles, we are apprehensive in contacting profile's without, frankly I (Mrs) won't engage with zero idea of whether I'd find 'him' attractive.. Frustrating for D too as whilst he has a decent physique, he's no 6 pack sporting, muscled guy but feel we've made the effort. There's mostly disembodied cock shots, but if that was all I was interested in, we already have multiple, different sized dildo's.. 🤣🤷" Absolute lunacy this is and it drives us mad. It goes without saying that 99% of the time our wonderful female better halves are the real star attraction. However, to not show anything whatsoever of the chap is just ridiculous. | |||
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"Even if couples are just looking to meet single guys, I've always been put off by profiles where he is invisible. Both from a point of view of reassuring that it's a genuine couples profile and also to ensure they're being honest in their profile. I once met a couple where they were allegedly of similar ages (mid 30's) and arrived to find a guy who appeared to be definitely eligible for his pension. 🤷♂️" And were they surprised you were less than interested? Appreciate a guy posting something other than a fawning comment! Yes! Utterly D was a single guy prior to us meeting and has said he'd rather have had a wank than gone through with some meetings.. Only that was a challenge as he struggled to get the image out of his head.. 🤦😳😂 | |||
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"Fully understand where your're coming from definitely. If your're a couple, then surely some pictures of both of you? Although some profiles these days pictures are so filtered or edited it can be hard to tell what's genuine these days x" Oh but we sooo love the airbrushed complection and mouse ears and nose.. 😏😉 | |||
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"There in lies the question. We don’t have many of me simply because not many give a rats ass about the guys. Maybe we should change that. Oh and your profile OP? Absolutely perfect!! ( faces available on request, Ts&Cs apply!! )"Thank you!!  | |||
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"Thanks for posting this. We get lots of couples mailing us with no pics of men on their profile and expect a meet. When you ask for a pic they go silent. Drives us bloody crazy. What are we supposed to do? Meet people blindfolded?" Drives us nuts as well. We have been blocked for asking. Being both straight it kind of matters. | |||
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I hate having my photo taken and to be honest don’t play as much as Mrs M.
We would obviously send photos if there were any interest in meeting and most single men we both meet socially before anything further happens anyway | |||
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I hate having my photo taken and to be honest don’t play as much as Mrs M.
We would obviously send photos if there were any interest in meeting and most single men we both meet socially before anything further happens anyway "Now you pair are fully aware the comment is not aimed at you!!For the record G and everyone else, you are a very handsome, personable chap.. Also for the record everyone G+M were the first couple weeks played with and have loved bumping into them since! "DeyeY (39), Couple on 12 December 2021 by Meeting in person: So three firsts were with this pair of sexy people!! A club, her first woman and our first full swap.. Hat trick!! Great to talk and laugh with, as well as play.. Thank you both for making it an experience we want to remember!! Y&D xx" Hope you're both well! Love from us both 😘 xx | |||
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I hate having my photo taken and to be honest don’t play as much as Mrs M.
We would obviously send photos if there were any interest in meeting and most single men we both meet socially before anything further happens anyway
Now you pair are fully aware the comment is not aimed at you!!For the record G and everyone else, you are a very handsome, personable chap..
Also for the record everyone G+M were the first couple weeks played with and have loved bumping into them since!
"DeyeY (39), Couple on 12 December 2021 by Meeting in person:
So three firsts were with this pair of sexy people!! A club, her first woman and our first full swap.. Hat trick!! Great to talk and laugh with, as well as play.. Thank you both for making it an experience we want to remember!! Y&D xx"
Hope you're both well! Love from us both 😘 xx"Hopefully see you both sometime soon 🥰 | |||
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"Urgh, this drives me crazy. I don't seek to meet couples anymore, getting a photo of the invisible man that isn't a cock is like pulling teeth & if he's not there I'll assume there's a reason (he's ugly) I've heard every excuse - men don't photo well, he's got tattoos we don't want people to see etc.... men can and do photo well, tattoos can be blurred. I'm not into blind date & won't meet some random cock because his Mrs is hot. Mrs " I understand your point! To me, dominant photos of the the women just means their target audience is (predominantly)men. | |||
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"I find it bewildering that so many people are so concerned about what others put on their profile. After all, it's their profile and as long as it works for them they are probably not at all concerned about whether it works for you. If a profile doesn't work for you just move on to another - there are literally thousands to choose from - just as you would if you found the couple in a profile wasn't to your taste. " 
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"Anyone else find it bewildering? Browsing profiles, we are apprehensive in contacting profile's without, frankly I (Mrs) won't engage with zero idea of whether I'd find 'him' attractive.. Frustrating for D too as whilst he has a decent physique, he's no 6 pack sporting, muscled guy but feel we've made the effort. There's mostly disembodied cock shots, but if that was all I was interested in, we already have multiple, different sized dildo's.. 🤣🤷" There’s a reason why the couples accounts have no pics of the men and that’s because they are totally banking on the attractiveness of the woman to appeal This is more prevalent as we get older so I see | |||
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"I'm punching so happy to hide in the background 🤣" 🤣😁😘 | |||
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"We have pics of both of us although she gets the attention " Roughly 4 time's by my experience.. And the attention I get is 'straight guys' CD's and TV's.. Oh well a compliment is a compliment.. 🤷😉 Mr x | |||
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"Yes definitely a bit of a turn off if 50 photos of woman in couple and none (except d in the pics) of the man in any fun pics. On my single profile, I usually have to ask for pics of the man. Or if profile has loads of group sex photos but I can't see photos of the actual couple. On the plus side, when I mention it, I received great pics. " This. It's sometimes frustrating when there are lots of pics showing men, usually action shots, but it isn't obvious which if any are the Mr of the couple | |||
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"Anyone else find it bewildering? Browsing profiles, we are apprehensive in contacting profile's without, frankly I (Mrs) won't engage with zero idea of whether I'd find 'him' attractive.. Frustrating for D too as whilst he has a decent physique, he's no 6 pack sporting, muscled guy but feel we've made the effort. There's mostly disembodied cock shots, but if that was all I was interested in, we already have multiple, different sized dildo's.. 🤣🤷" Most ‘couples’ profiles are worse than the single guys. It’s definitely a couple ‘thing’ of the husbands not revealing anything of themselves, maybe just that disembodied cock or finger / hand on her ass. It’s almost like they’re using their good looking wives as bait… Smoking Hot Wives and distinctly average husbands is a definite lifestyle phenomenon.. | |||
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"Anyone else find it bewildering? Browsing profiles, we are apprehensive in contacting profile's without, frankly I (Mrs) won't engage with zero idea of whether I'd find 'him' attractive.. Frustrating for D too as whilst he has a decent physique, he's no 6 pack sporting, muscled guy but feel we've made the effort. There's mostly disembodied cock shots, but if that was all I was interested in, we already have multiple, different sized dildo's.. 🤣🤷 Most ‘couples’ profiles are worse than the single guys. It’s definitely a couple ‘thing’ of the husbands not revealing anything of themselves, maybe just that disembodied cock or finger / hand on her ass. It’s almost like they’re using their good looking wives as bait… Smoking Hot Wives and distinctly average husbands is a definite lifestyle phenomenon.." Been wainting to say this for ages but didn’t want to get slated for it… 🫣 Most men are punching waaaay above, haha. Beautiful ladies but very average/below average men. Very frustrating.  | |||
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"Anyone else find it bewildering? Browsing profiles, we are apprehensive in contacting profile's without, frankly I (Mrs) won't engage with zero idea of whether I'd find 'him' attractive.. Frustrating for D too as whilst he has a decent physique, he's no 6 pack sporting, muscled guy but feel we've made the effort. There's mostly disembodied cock shots, but if that was all I was interested in, we already have multiple, different sized dildo's.. 🤣🤷 Most ‘couples’ profiles are worse than the single guys. It’s definitely a couple ‘thing’ of the husbands not revealing anything of themselves, maybe just that disembodied cock or finger / hand on her ass. It’s almost like they’re using their good looking wives as bait… Smoking Hot Wives and distinctly average husbands is a definite lifestyle phenomenon.." As per your comment on us previously, we'll keep striving to be the "enigma" 😉😘 | |||
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"Anyone else find it bewildering? Browsing profiles, we are apprehensive in contacting profile's without, frankly I (Mrs) won't engage with zero idea of whether I'd find 'him' attractive.. Frustrating for D too as whilst he has a decent physique, he's no 6 pack sporting, muscled guy but feel we've made the effort. There's mostly disembodied cock shots, but if that was all I was interested in, we already have multiple, different sized dildo's.. 🤣🤷 There’s a reason why the couples accounts have no pics of the men and that’s because they are totally banking on the attractiveness of the woman to appeal This is more prevalent as we get older so I see " Quite happy to forward a picture of the both of us, should you be interested.. 😉😘 | |||
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"Anyone else find it bewildering? Browsing profiles, we are apprehensive in contacting profile's without, frankly I (Mrs) won't engage with zero idea of whether I'd find 'him' attractive.. Frustrating for D too as whilst he has a decent physique, he's no 6 pack sporting, muscled guy but feel we've made the effort. There's mostly disembodied cock shots, but if that was all I was interested in, we already have multiple, different sized dildo's.. 🤣🤷 Most ‘couples’ profiles are worse than the single guys. It’s definitely a couple ‘thing’ of the husbands not revealing anything of themselves, maybe just that disembodied cock or finger / hand on her ass. It’s almost like they’re using their good looking wives as bait… Smoking Hot Wives and distinctly average husbands is a definite lifestyle phenomenon.. Been wainting to say this for ages but didn’t want to get slated for it… 🫣 Most men are punching waaaay above, haha. Beautiful ladies but very average/below average men. Very frustrating. "I’ll take your hits flygirl 😂🥊 I went to a Vanilla Alternative couples night and my female friend was looking forward to some husband action.. we were sat near the entrance to the bar and honestly it was a parade of absolutely smoking hot wives….. and less than desirable husbands 💃🧌…💃🧌… 💃🧌….. I was getting all the glances and smiles as the smoke-shows strutted past and my friend got exceedingly annoyed… laughed about it later after lots of harrumphing and comments about it being clearly money not looks, muttering about funding of fake tits... plastic surgery, punching above etc. 😂 | |||
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"Whoa! Quite a low opinion of men. There are a lot of men in couples who are very attractive " Not this particular night there wasn’t! Of course there are many handsome husbands 😂 | |||
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"Whoa! Quite a low opinion of men. There are a lot of men in couples who are very attractive Not this particular night there wasn’t! Of course there are many handsome husbands 😂" I know I've got one .
I think it holds true though that the men who remain in the background either by lack of photos or lack of good presentation don't want to be involved with anyone but their own partner, either watching or playing with them only. If that isn't so why on earth aren't they making an effort? | |||
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"Whoa! Quite a low opinion of men. There are a lot of men in couples who are very attractive Not this particular night there wasn’t! Of course there are many handsome husbands 😂 I know I've got one .
I think it holds true though that the men who remain in the background either by lack of photos or lack of good presentation don't want to be involved with anyone but their own partner, either watching or playing with them only. If that isn't so why on earth aren't they making an effort?"If the typical male body picture is anything to go by it’s because they look like they’re auditioning for the part of ‘murdered body in the morgue’ in Silent Witness or Waking The Dead… 😂🤣 | |||
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"Whoa! Quite a low opinion of men. There are a lot of men in couples who are very attractive Not this particular night there wasn’t! Of course there are many handsome husbands 😂 I know I've got one .
I think it holds true though that the men who remain in the background either by lack of photos or lack of good presentation don't want to be involved with anyone but their own partner, either watching or playing with them only. If that isn't so why on earth aren't they making an effort?
If the typical male body picture is anything to go by it’s because they look like they’re auditioning for the part of ‘murdered body in the morgue’ in Silent Witness or Waking The Dead… 😂🤣"Ouch! That's unfair in my opinion. Maybe women should fab more mens pictures 🤔 | |||
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"^^ I understand that but if you're not comfortable with your pictures how do you get along in person when it comes to getting naked? " Believe it or not, I’m absolutely comfortable in an in person interaction and a social meet. I know it’s all in my head about appearances etc but I just wanted to clarify that deception is never ever the intention. | |||
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"^^ I understand that but if you're not comfortable with your pictures how do you get along in person when it comes to getting naked? " “Oooh… it’s very dark in here….” | |||
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"^^ I understand that but if you're not comfortable with your pictures how do you get along in person when it comes to getting naked? Believe it or not, I’m absolutely comfortable in an in person interaction and a social meet. I know it’s all in my head about appearances etc but I just wanted to clarify that deception is never ever the intention. " It's funny how our minds work isn't it. I never for a minute thought you were trying to decide anyone | |||
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"^^ I understand that but if you're not comfortable with your pictures how do you get along in person when it comes to getting naked? Believe it or not, I’m absolutely comfortable in an in person interaction and a social meet. I know it’s all in my head about appearances etc but I just wanted to clarify that deception is never ever the intention. " From what I can see you look great | |||
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"^^ I understand that but if you're not comfortable with your pictures how do you get along in person when it comes to getting naked? Believe it or not, I’m absolutely comfortable in an in person interaction and a social meet. I know it’s all in my head about appearances etc but I just wanted to clarify that deception is never ever the intention. From what I can see you look great "It’s like getting a giant hug!! Thank you… really appreciate it | |||
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"Russell Brand! I was always surprised at how many women fell for his smarmy lines. Maybe I need to hand my woman card in" What first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels? | |||
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"Russell Brand! I was always surprised at how many women fell for his smarmy lines. Maybe I need to hand my woman card in What first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels? " Russel Brand is a sleaze and was before he made money. Paul Daniels seemed on the face of it to be an ok human being. | |||
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"Russell Brand! I was always surprised at how many women fell for his smarmy lines. Maybe I need to hand my woman card in What first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels? " That was Mrs Merton. Born again cwistian Brand was never that witty. | |||
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"Russell Brand! I was always surprised at how many women fell for his smarmy lines. Maybe I need to hand my woman card in What first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels? Russel Brand is a sleaze and was before he made money. Paul Daniels seemed on the face of it to be an ok human being. " “You’ll like it. Not a lot” …. | |||
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"Mr here...We will share pics of both after chatting. However I tend to look disabled in any posed picture, have much better results meeting people in person. " I know right? I can look in the mirror and think "I'm looking good" but if my wife so much as thinks about a camera I turn into Worzel Gummidge . Oh well.. | |||
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"Russell Brand! I was always surprised at how many women fell for his smarmy lines. Maybe I need to hand my woman card in What first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels? Russel Brand is a sleaze and was before he made money. Paul Daniels seemed on the face of it to be an ok human being. " It may be true he was a sleaze (I'm no Brand fan) but the man got results is all I'm saying. You can find it on youtube if you want to see it but there's an interview he did with a couple of American newsreaders from 15 or 16 years ago when he was trying to make a name for himself in the states. The interviewer starts off incredibly hostile towards him saying he looks weird and scruffy to be more or less squirming in her knickers biting her lip ready to take off her wedding ring 14 mins later (she really does start to fidget with it).....and you cant not see it in the video. Brand even calls her out for it and she just giggles. All I'm saying is what I said originally....looks aint everything. Attitude and approach is. As a long time club goer I've seen gym fit Adonis looking blokes walk in and get nowhere because they sat quietly in the corner whilst the guy who you think might struggle to look at him is sat cracking jokes making the women laugh and then heading off to the play rooms with them. I've just seen it happen to many times now to see it any other way. Women say they like looks (which yes, there has to be a level of attraction) but I think confidence is the real thing they like. | |||
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"Russell Brand! I was always surprised at how many women fell for his smarmy lines. Maybe I need to hand my woman card in What first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels? Russel Brand is a sleaze and was before he made money. Paul Daniels seemed on the face of it to be an ok human being. " true that, complete manipulative sleaze bag. Grifter, has now found god, yeah, that old chestnut lol | |||
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"That's what puts me off most couples x Single guy's too.. Those with verifications, definitely have more than a variety of angles of their penis we note.. 🤔 Honest critique of our representation here? DM if you prefer x" To be fair you're absolutely right - and I'm a single guy myself. I've never had cock shots there for public consumption and definitely don't attach them to messages, partly because I'd like to think I'm a 'high value' man with more to offer. As for your profile the photos of both of you are outstanding. Both really fantastic looking (and I'm straight!) and the photos themselves say 'We're classy people'. Bravo!  | |||
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"And what difference does having a photo of him make? I clearly show me on my wife and i's account (obviously not this account). Nothing, zip, nanda! No messages. So it could be said I'm not attractive to women? I go to the club (with or without my wife) and I have a great time. I say this with all due respect but you ladies are rather fickle with how hung up you get about how he looks sometimes. I'm not everyone's cup of tea and I won't pretend I am either (im.pretty average looking i recon) but it's shocking how far I get with being confident, having a sense of humour and being quick enough to keep you guessing. Not on here but in real life. I mean think about it. Look at Russel Brand. The man looked like he got dragged through a hedge backwards but coild talk you round a ubend and back and was a notorious womaniser. Pay attention fellas. The online stuff...most of us are invisible. Real life...you just gotta know how to talk. " I make no apologies - I need to find the person I'm fucking attractive. I don't care how marvellous their personality is, or how great their line in witty repartee...if they aren't physically attractive TO ME then it's not happening. As for Russell Brand, I think he has an incredibly attractive face | |||
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"Urgh, this drives me crazy. I don't seek to meet couples anymore, getting a photo of the invisible man that isn't a cock is like pulling teeth & if he's not there I'll assume there's a reason (he's ugly) I've heard every excuse - men don't photo well, he's got tattoos we don't want people to see etc.... men can and do photo well, tattoos can be blurred. I'm not into blind date & won't meet some random cock because his Mrs is hot. Mrs Yup, #smokeshow The other excuse, job.. We know surgeons, Police and Solicitors here so that's bullshit too.. 🙄🤣" A hundred per cent! | |||
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"We always make sure to have a selection of both of us on our page. At the end of the day, people will be meeting us as a couple so should have the choice to view myself, just as much as A, to ensure there's some level of attraction all round. We're always very hesitant when there's not a good representation of both partners as it tends to raise questions/suspicions in our minds. C x " Yes we know, just a fucking sod we're so far apart!! 🤣🔥😈😘 | |||
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so im afraid everyone is stuck with pics of me haha | |||
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