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"Wish I could find someone. " someone will come along takes time find the right person x | |||
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"I'm lucky if I get a message back " well you getting one now x | |||
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"I have a couple of FWB, sex is always far more intense when you have that connection and trust. " Agreed | |||
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"Fab is a tough place. I just stick around for socials mostly. Meeting someone is nearly impossible. " Just use it as a tool like other sites , if it happens it happens | |||
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"I'm lucky if I get a message back " Unfortunately this is correct,even a polite no thanks is better than just deleting the message, I always reply back out of politeness | |||
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"I never actually thought it would be so hard to find a FWB, but now I do" A good few people WANT to go for it, but never really follow up. It's quite frustrating... Sexual fantasy often never seems to cross over to something physical. | |||
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"My experience don't mess around and get right down to building a connection, find the chemistry and you're on a winner. 🤫😉" 100% this. | |||
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"I'm lucky enough to have a fwb not locally though. Would be nice to have another that's closer." This is me. I have a very special friend with whom I enjoy the most glorious experiences, but we live at opposite ends of the country. I’d love to find a sensual lady here in Scotland. | |||
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"I neex one" Good luck with that status | |||
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"My longest fwb was 20+ years....now we are just friends x" Same one is 24 years and going and a few to the 15+ years and going shortest is 2years and going.. Wives kids and grandkids in between but we are still friends w benefits | |||
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"My longest fwb was 20+ years....now we are just friends x" That sounds wonderful. My FWB and me met four years ago. It’s been the most exciting erotic experience of my life to explore with her. | |||
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"I'm lucky if I get a message back " Your not the only one pal | |||
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"I neex one Good luck with that status " I thought the same - automatic no from me with that status | |||
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"My longest fwb was 20+ years....now we are just friends x" Sounds like marriage lol | |||
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"My neighbour recognised me a while ago from here by my tattoo. We've been fwb for a month or so. Actually longer but now he's going to Australia so I wish I hadn't had him cause I stay with 1 man and now. How do you look again???? XxDxx" Just keep looking on fabs and if u have a social with a man u can tell if they open minded or not but I always look in a man eyes and if they on they phone that's disrespect and definitely not worth your time But the up side u found someone and u have good memories | |||
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"I had a few friends with benefits although it’s called Universal Credit now" That's a good one bet that kept u happy for a little time lol | |||
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"It’s everyone’s dream isn’t it ?x " Yes it is but u do find them in the end I dis after 4 months being back as got though lots of time waste the bingo but of course its hard for a gentleman x | |||
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"Think some men forget the friend bit and just want the benefits! " Based | |||
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"I had a FWB many years ago, was fun while it lasted but that was pre Fab days. Working from home makes having a FWB harder for me now days for some reason " I would have imagined it would be easier as no travel to and from work time. And being able to accomodate/have day meets. | |||
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"I had a FWB many years ago, was fun while it lasted but that was pre Fab days. Working from home makes having a FWB harder for me now days for some reason I would have imagined it would be easier as no travel to and from work time. And being able to accomodate/have day meets." A lot harder I think post Covid it’s an expectation to be logged in all the time. Easier to have daytime meets when I have meetings in town etc | |||
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"Think some men forget the friend bit and just want the benefits! " Agree with that. I hear stories and its why some females struggle to trust anyone. A lot forget what swinging is or use to be like. For me, laugh, chats, drinks and food with good fun. Unrushed fun together. Now its a quick bang and bye. | |||
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"I have had two fwb one met off here and one of a dating site. Both stopped when they started wanting more than fwb. It’s a hard line as it’s great to get to know each other and know what they like and dislike so you can push boundaries but when it becomes regular and commuted it’s more of a relationship. " Yes that's the secret got to keep the two separate but it's fun while it lasts | |||
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"It is quite sad reading all these posts. For a site set up for finding just that, it is surprising that is difficult for people to form connection beyond the sex and short of a relationship. It’s always been easy to have fwbs. Just that a busy life on my part means it often fizzles out, so my fault. But I have never said no to more than sex with fwbs. Life is short so why restrict interactions with people you find attractive and interesting." | |||
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"It is quite sad reading all these posts. For a site set up for finding just that, it is surprising that is difficult for people to form connection beyond the sex and short of a relationship. It’s always been easy to have fwbs. Just that a busy life on my part means it often fizzles out, so my fault. But I have never said no to more than sex with fwbs. Life is short so why restrict interactions with people you find attractive and interesting." Yes so ture but it's swing life and people do have busy life's but when two get together and know each other's body's it's more of a utopia feeling | |||
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"It is quite sad reading all these posts. For a site set up for finding just that, it is surprising that is difficult for people to form connection beyond the sex and short of a relationship. It’s always been easy to have fwbs. Just that a busy life on my part means it often fizzles out, so my fault. But I have never said no to more than sex with fwbs. Life is short so why restrict interactions with people you find attractive and interesting. Yes so ture but it's swing life and people do have busy life's but when two get together and know each other's body's it's more of a utopia feeling " whilst a one off meet is fun having a fwb allows you both to explore more as you both get to know what turns each other on. And maybe explore more than what you may with a one off meet! And not just the sex good conversations food drinks etc. But theirs always that risk of one of you developing feelings which can then damage the friendship and the fab dynamic. | |||
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"Its funny how u go on fabs met some nice people have fun and then bang u find u match of no Hassle as lot of men not open to party's so on Never get why it takes so long to find but of course I have again now Love to hear some stories." Well my last profile had a FWB and she was on here and yeah we partied as a couple was great but we both came off had a break and I came back and she didn’t gutted 😞 but would be nice to find another fingers crossed 🤞 | |||
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"We had a single gent for a year and want that again. Built up a lot of trust together and pushed boundaries between the three of us. Lincolnshire is a very big county, if it wasn't I'd volunteer myself x " | |||
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