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when in a swinging club do you ... answers from couples and women only please

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
15 weeks ago

somerset

so a question for couples and women only please

when in a swinging club are you picky who you play with or are you happy for anyone to join in ???

the question has come from another thread were some couples seem to be saying they just join in and let things happen and others say nope attraction is needed ... so question is which one are you play with who ever or must be attraction... this is aimed at couple who mainly play with other couples and women .... hence not needing guys to answer

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By *eardAndBoobs69Couple
15 weeks ago

South Yorkshire

Has to be some sort of attraction from both sides.

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By *andPextraCouple
15 weeks ago

North West

100% picky. Circa 50 club visits. Played with others twice.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
15 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Picky 💜

I generally won't play with anyone the first time I meet them unless there's a real intense spark.

Most playing I do at clubs is with existing partners and friends or people I've at least met a few times before socially 💜

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By *aggy dollsCouple
15 weeks ago

bradford

We are unjustifiably picky.

Mr H

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
15 weeks ago

Northampton

100% picky

Needs to be a few boxes ticked before we go and play. Physical and mental attraction, soft/full swap check, whilst we are not exchanging screening results we do like to get an idea of attitude to sexual health testing.

We have been in a 6 way before that ticked all the boxes. It grew to a 10 and we left because we weren’t into the new joiners

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
15 weeks ago

wonderland.

Picky to a degree... with couples very picky.. but it's about connection rather than looks.

Gangbangs I can be a little less picky. X

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
15 weeks ago

somerset

i didnt leave my view ... im 100% picky no sexual attraction / same page then i dont play thats private/clubs/private parties i stick to the same no attraction no play

ive done gang bangs everyone hand picked the thought of someone i dont want or like would be a total turn off..

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By *hat.coupleCouple
15 weeks ago

Dartford

I'd find it poor etiquette for someone to start playing with me or my partner without asking first, orgy or no orgy!. We need to have attraction and don't play with just anyone, even though we only play with unicorns we have turned a few lovely ladies down that weren't our cup of tea

Mrs x

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By *leasureherCouple
15 weeks ago

Walsall

I always say yes or no, even when it's a greedy girl night and I want action, it's never a free for all.

Got to have standards.

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By *carlettxWoman
15 weeks ago

Essex

Im there mainly for the social side

If im playing im just as picky as i would be on here aside from the fact someone’s personality may make me feel more attractive towards them

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
15 weeks ago

here and there

Deffantly has to be an attraction there .but as long as that's there it's go with the flow

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By *ornycougaWoman
15 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"I always say yes or no, even when it's a greedy girl night and I want action, it's never a free for all.

Got to have standards."

What she said. I'm not dropping my standards just because I'm in a club.

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By *exySenseiCouple
15 weeks ago


"so a question for couples and women only please

when in a swinging club are you picky who you play with or are you happy for anyone to join in ???

the question has come from another thread were some couples seem to be saying they just join in and let things happen and others say nope attraction is needed ... so question is which one are you play with who ever or must be attraction... this is aimed at couple who mainly play with other couples and women .... hence not needing guys to answer"

We're picky, for a number of reasons.

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By *winging_couple300Couple
15 weeks ago

Doncaster

We’re picky as it’s difficult to find a mutual attraction, generally we just play with each other unless we have prearranged before the visit.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Very picky. We've been going to clubs for 2 years and never really found our people.

It's all about the right people for us.

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By * and R cple4Couple
15 weeks ago

swansea

It's very rare we actually play in clubs. We only look for bi couples which is hard to find anyway so we will meet friends their and find a locked room.

We did try a open room once with friends but their was nothing sexy about having random cocks waved in your face so that's definitely not for us.

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By *aomilatteCouple
15 weeks ago

Midlands


"so a question for couples and women only please

when in a swinging club are you picky who you play with or are you happy for anyone to join in ???"

Is this even a serious question? Is anyone not picky? Interested to see who is happy for anyone to join in.

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
15 weeks ago

Wolvo

Definitely picky. Thats not to say things haven't happened where theres been no connection its more been about the situation. Those incidences are few and far between.

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By *kmegoodWoman
15 weeks ago

bradford/ halifax

I might be judged but I’m more open when I’m in the throes of a hot session I’m more likely to say yes to guys and girls I wouldn’t at other times For me at those moments it’s more I’d have to be put off by you rather than attracted to the person

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By *rMindandMrsCuriousCouple
15 weeks ago

Bristol


"Has to be some sort of attraction from both sides. "

Still not been to a club but we will....and we think we will be like you...very picky!

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By *oshnbex30Couple
15 weeks ago

yorkshire

We are quality over quantity and have been in many clubs where we could have played with couples and groups and that’s just not our thing.

We like attraction

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
15 weeks ago

wonderland.


"I might be judged but I’m more open when I’m in the throes of a hot session I’m more likely to say yes to guys and girls I wouldn’t at other times For me at those moments it’s more I’d have to be put off by you rather than attracted to the person"
i totally get that.. its the situation and the sexual high of the moment.

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By *usurrusCouple
15 weeks ago

North West.

Picky, but we have been known to get carried away - well, mainly the Mrs has.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
15 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve been going to clubs for a while - we’ve tried most of them. We’ve only played with a handful of people there.

The vibe has to be right and often at clubs it’s not.

K

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
15 weeks ago

Cheshire

There has to be a vibe or some sort of a connection at least. Failing that a dark room.

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By *eparated_galWoman
15 weeks ago

Salford

Has to be a conection, maybe not physical attraction, im not picky at all after few drinks lol

Also i like a dark room and glory hol so yeah not picky lol

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By *andSxxCouple
15 weeks ago

Birmingham

We are not very picky. But a minimum of attraction is required.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
15 weeks ago

Leeds

Picky! I need attraction or I'm not interested.

Mrs

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By *oubenew80Couple
15 weeks ago

Warrington

It’s about the moment rather than the person and how it develops

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By *afe and shavenCouple
15 weeks ago

Ipswich

We prefer to have some sort of rapport before we play, although some nice looking couples have joined us and we go with the flow.

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
15 weeks ago

London


"We are not very picky. But a minimum of attraction is required."

We don't do clubs very often but when we do we're similar to this. We are certainly less picky than we are normally. That's probably one of the reasons we would go, to let loose a bit

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By *eyeYCouple
15 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Agreed with the above, we're exceedingly picky outside a club in terms of aesthetics, however that diminishes a little because character and humour is attractive too.

Has been moments were we'd have said no way otherwise, but that's been situational and in the midst of playing..

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By *asques and boxersCouple
15 weeks ago

Ashford and dept16

There needs to be some attraction spark whatever you call it otherwise it doesnt flow. But to enjoy the envioment is why we are there if a moment also is there so much ghe better.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
15 weeks ago

Stoke

We're sooooooo picky, we don't often play with others because of it.

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
15 weeks ago

Bedale

Truthfully in a way kind of neither as we traditionally only use clubs as a venue for pre-arranged meets. It's been years since we "went stag" to a club so to speak.

To my recollection we have only on occasion ever ended up in a situation where people organically joined in, perhaps we are just not very appealing. It wasn't brilliant as what effectively happened is we met up randomly with a very friendly T-Girl, and during the play single males descended on mass, so I called a stop to it.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
15 weeks ago

Cannock

It depends, there are some more exhibitionist couples that just get on and play.

Other couples, like ourselves have particular tastes, for example Dee loves big cock, but there has to be some sort of attraction for her with the guy(s) she plays with.

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