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By *endalshaggers OP   Couple
17 weeks ago

Lake District

Can't just be us who get random friend requests from people you've never spoke to? We seem to be getting at least five or six a day at the moment.

C xoxo

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By *BCambsCouple
17 weeks ago

Biggleswade

It happens, some people use it as a big wink because often winks are ignored.

Just delete them but there's no way to stop them!

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By *irty-pairCouple
17 weeks ago

Essex

It’s not just you, OP.

The holy trinity is a friend request, wink and one-liner. AKA I'd like to fuck you, but can’t really be arsed

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By *ocktowerMan
17 weeks ago

north Wales and Bulgaria.

Yes I get alot but find it's nice that someone wants to grad your attention ( friend away )

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By *carlettxWoman
17 weeks ago

Essex

You can’t blame people for maybe wanting to see extra photos and so on I guess

I get a lot of friend invites daily but the ones that annoy me the most are lazy profiles with no photos or text requesting to be my friend - pic collectors nothing more

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Several times I do it by accident..

If you're scrolling quick and try and click ' add to hotlist ', you can click on ' invite as friend' instead, the buttons are right next to each other.

Embarrassing

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Me too…oops🙈

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By *oiluvfunMan
17 weeks ago

Penrith

Yep, it’s usually just fake couples with just a guy hiding behind a couple of pics of a random woman.

I wait until the profile is offline, then accept the invite, check out their hidden pics, and if they seem genuine, and I like what I see, I’ll message them. Otherwise, I just unfriend them and probably block. Don’t get mad; get even

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
17 weeks ago

Cheshire

The worst of one's fab every public picture send a wink and a friend request but can't be bothered to message.

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By *iss KinkWoman
17 weeks ago

North West

All the time

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes loads, the Mr blocks them, I wait until they are offline to nosey at their pics then unfriend.

Mrs

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Bristol

Ditched immediately.

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By *dventuresofLandSCouple
17 weeks ago

Lincoln

Constantly. Our friends pics are on there for a reason if we want everyone who sent us a request to see we might aswell have them public

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By * and BCouple
17 weeks ago

Durham

There's so many fab crazies out there so it's all a good filter to block them

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
17 weeks ago

Stoke

It's like someone just coming and sitting at your table in a restaurant and not saying a word!

It's soooo creepy, we block now.

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
17 weeks ago

Worcestershire


"Yes loads, the Mr blocks them, I wait until they are offline to nosey at their pics then unfriend.

Mrs "

We get them too but I hadn't thought of doing that

We normally ignore or block them

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
17 weeks ago

London

I just ignore them then bulk delete them all at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

We get a couple a day. We ignore them but don't delete so that way they can't send another.

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
17 weeks ago

Preston


"It's like someone just coming and sitting at your table in a restaurant and not saying a word!

It's soooo creepy, we block now. "

Haha great analogy, we just ignore and delete clearly haven’t read the profile xx

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I don't look at them just delete them now and then. It's not a problem, the same goes for winks.

I wish they got rid of winks.

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By * and BCouple
17 weeks ago

Durham


"I don't look at them just delete them now and then. It's not a problem, the same goes for winks.

I wish they got rid of winks. "

We even have it on our profile we don't look at winks but still they still wink the little winkers

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By *hemissingpiecesCouple
17 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Winks, Friend Requests, "What are you up to", "Want to meet now" messages and all stated on our profile we don't look for them.

My favourite message is the one they say "I have a fantasy/secret, mail me back if you want to hear about it"

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By *oodtoshare2Couple
17 weeks ago

harrogate


"It’s not just you, OP.

The holy trinity is a friend request, wink and one-liner. AKA I'd like to fuck you, but can’t really be arsed "

Very good. Loving your work 🤣🤣🤣

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By *randMrsLPCouple
17 weeks ago

london

all of the time just delete them all at times block them

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By *r Mind CandyMan
17 weeks ago

Cheshire

I’m a gentleman so I always wait for the lady to ask if I would like a friend request, I know she will be getting copious amounts of them and if I randomly send them they just get lost In the masses anyway, so really its pointless.

With regards to sending them to someone I have never spoken to, well that’s even more ridiculous, on what planet is someone you’ve never spoken to gonna add you as a friend? We keep the good stuff for our friends only, otherwise we would just make everything public.

I get a lot of random unsolicited friend requests from men and a few “suspicious” females but just delete them

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By *andPextraCouple
17 weeks ago

North West

60 or so this week.

It's my biggest piss boiler on here by far.

There are plenty of free sites for wanking material

I find it incredibly rude someone would just send one and assume I'd accept it.every single one I get I block. We ask people not to do it in the profile and yet here we still are

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
17 weeks ago

Preston


"60 or so this week.

It's my biggest piss boiler on here by far.

There are plenty of free sites for wanking material

I find it incredibly rude someone would just send one and assume I'd accept it.every single one I get I block. We ask people not to do it in the profile and yet here we still are "

Haha piss boiler chuckles but you’re right xx

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
17 weeks ago

There and Here

Don't delete them. If you just ignore them and let them sit they can't send another. If you do delete them they can re-send a request

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By *issmorganWoman
17 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I don't get many now, touch wood, as I've tightened my age filters up more.

If you leave them where they are, they can't resend one though.

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By *r Mind CandyMan
17 weeks ago

Cheshire


"Don't delete them. If you just ignore them and let them sit they can't send another. If you do delete them they can re-send a request "

Good tip! I had no idea thanks for this 💋

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By *ariadx2Couple
17 weeks ago

Wrexham

Get over yourselves! Anyone can request us, we've got face pics on there and you need to see them if you want to fuck us! Stop hiding in the shadows! Xxx

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By *r Mind CandyMan
17 weeks ago

Cheshire


"60 or so this week.

It's my biggest piss boiler on here by far.

There are plenty of free sites for wanking material

I find it incredibly rude someone would just send one and assume I'd accept it.every single one I get I block. We ask people not to do it in the profile and yet here we still are "

Yeah I’m not sure the kind of person that sends them are the kind of people that bother reading profiles.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
17 weeks ago

Dartford

I just ignore them, I only accept them from people we kmow or if we've chatted for a bit

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By *r Mind CandyMan
17 weeks ago

Cheshire


"Get over yourselves! Anyone can request us, we've got face pics on there and you need to see them if you want to fuck us! Stop hiding in the shadows! Xxx"

Well I have to ask, why don’t you just make your face photos public then?

Some people have very good reasons for being discreet.

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By *tephanie63Woman
17 weeks ago

BRIDGWATER


"Get over yourselves! Anyone can request us, we've got face pics on there and you need to see them if you want to fuck us! Stop hiding in the shadows! Xxx"

It's not hiding in the shadows to not accept unsolicited friends requests.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I'm lucky I never get them

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By *ante40Man
17 weeks ago

Moving around

I get an unreasonable amount

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By *otsossieMan
17 weeks ago

Chesterfield

I don’t get many, but then I’m a bloke and can prove it.

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By *iscotti32Woman
17 weeks ago

choomah island

I just accept them all as I don’t really give a fuck, I just block them eventually if they annoy me im messages

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By *otsossieMan
17 weeks ago

Chesterfield


"It’s not just you, OP.

The holy trinity is a friend request, wink and one-liner. AKA I'd like to fuck you, but can’t really be arsed "

You can add me any time, DP

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By *aomilatteCouple
17 weeks ago

Midlands

Wait until they're offline. Look at their "friends" pics of close up cock and fanny pics , then delete as "friends"

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