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Why aren't curvy ladies into slim/athletic men?

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By *winging for the fences OP   Man
5 weeks ago

london

All the women my type don't seem to be into my body type at all...which is a shame

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By *IXEN200Woman
5 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne


"All the women my type don't seem to be into my body type at all...which is a shame"

Shame your not local, you're exactly my type

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I swear it was only yesterday the complaint was that fat birds didn't want fat blokes, something something the audacity.

Most people aren't most people's type.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
5 weeks ago

Scarborogh

It’s quite hard to see your body shape or get an impression of you when there is only 1 photo of you on your profile. Try adding some more information and a few more pictures to help others to have something to engage in conversation with you. Good luck!

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By *ildTimes777Man
5 weeks ago

Colchester/London


"I swear it was only yesterday the complaint was that fat birds didn't want fat blokes, something something the audacity.

Most people aren't most people's type."

I think it was fat blokes with small cocks ...

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 weeks ago

South Down

Says who?

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By *unshine 57Woman
5 weeks ago

essex

So long as i like the facial features of a guy i like slim and athletic Though not local But yes more body / face pics even clothed is good

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By *eardedguy800Man
5 weeks ago

Kidderminster

Slim, athletic and getting on a bit

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By *herry delightWoman
5 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Ok there is a perception that fit men only want to meet BBW because any port in a storm with do.

Like I said it can be perceived that a BBW will be flattered and grateful that someone is messaging them.

Personally I just don't meet guys that are not local or make an effort. Nothing to do with body type. X

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By *ornycougaWoman
5 weeks ago

NOT IN THE UK Wherever I lay my hat

We are

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By *eventhheaven2022Couple
5 weeks ago

accrington

I love Tall, slim, Athletic men

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
5 weeks ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Oh really?

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Are they not? Because the slim athletic men I have been with would disagree.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
5 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Are they not? Because the slim athletic men I have been with would disagree."

Same! 😊

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By *reen as JadeCouple
5 weeks ago

Cheshire

Of course we are x

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By *wodoswingCouple
5 weeks ago

swindon

thats not so

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By *winging for the fences OP   Man
5 weeks ago

london


"All the women my type don't seem to be into my body type at all...which is a shame

Shame your not local, you're exactly my type"

Don't make me book a flight girl

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By *winging for the fences OP   Man
5 weeks ago

london


"We are "

Well hello there!

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By *heBlowinsCouple
5 weeks ago

West Cork


"Ok there is a perception that fit men only want to meet BBW because any port in a storm with do.

Like I said it can be perceived that a BBW will be flattered and grateful that someone is messaging them.

Personally I just don't meet guys that are not local or make an effort. Nothing to do with body type. X

"

This is definitely a thing - and a huge turn-off (arrogance and entitlement are super gross 🙃)

OP sorry but you're simply wrong. If your tactics aren't working, try switching things up and avoid the sweeping generalization/incel approach 😊

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By *he Silver FuxMan
5 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"All the women my type don't seem to be into my body type at all...which is a shame"

They’re afraid to break you…

They want to be able to ride a big guy with the confidence that he’s not going to die..

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By *winging for the fences OP   Man
5 weeks ago

london


"Ok there is a perception that fit men only want to meet BBW because any port in a storm with do.

Like I said it can be perceived that a BBW will be flattered and grateful that someone is messaging them.

Personally I just don't meet guys that are not local or make an effort. Nothing to do with body type. X

This is definitely a thing - and a huge turn-off (arrogance and entitlement are super gross 🙃)

OP sorry but you're simply wrong. If your tactics aren't working, try switching things up and avoid the sweeping generalization/incel approach 😊 "

No its nothing like that. Just a preference in body type

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By *oknickers coupleCouple
5 weeks ago

A Town called Malice

My Mrs is curvey, but she doesn’t differentiate between athletic/dadbods or black or white, if she likes what she likes & the other person is an obnoxious twat then everyone is considered

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

5 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"All the women my type don't seem to be into my body type at all...which is a shame"

Are you sure that's the reason?

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By *hilcarol89Couple
5 weeks ago

Warrington


"My Mrs is curvey, but she doesn’t differentiate between athletic/dadbods or black or white, if she likes what she likes & the other person is an obnoxious twat then everyone is considered"

This

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By *winging for the fences OP   Man
5 weeks ago

london


"All the women my type don't seem to be into my body type at all...which is a shame

Are you sure that's the reason? "

It's not usually cool to ask why someone's not interested but when I have that's the reason I been told

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

5 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"All the women my type don't seem to be into my body type at all...which is a shame

Are you sure that's the reason?

It's not usually cool to ask why someone's not interested but when I have that's the reason I been told "

So that'll be the case for those people. Not all.

I've never experienced any issues being relatively slim compared to any company I've kept.

Women aren't a hive mind. They all have their preferences. 🤷‍♂️

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By *eekday_facialsCouple
5 weeks ago

Yateley

Cur y and slim couple here. T loves athletic guys

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By *oknickers coupleCouple
5 weeks ago

A Town called Malice


"My Mrs is curvey, but she doesn’t differentiate between athletic/dadbods or black or white, if she likes what she likes & the other person is an obnoxious twat then everyone is considered"

Isn’t *** an obnoxious twat

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By *kinmistressWoman
5 weeks ago

somewhere about

Im chubby, i love younger guys who are thinner then me!

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By *othwaysnudeMan
5 weeks ago

chesterfield

We find it strange on a swing site that people can be so picky. Me and wife both keep fit climbing running and swinging but I don’t have a six pack and some insist on it

We like normal people

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

5 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"We find it strange on a swing site that people can be so picky. Me and wife both keep fit climbing running and swinging but I don’t have a six pack and some insist on it

We like normal people "

People are entitled to be picky though, surely?

Nobody is going to be attracted to anyone and everyone. 🤷‍♂️

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By *erigold300Couple
5 weeks ago

Doncaster

I like men, period.

There is always something nice about them, no matter how they look.

That being said I find myself attracted to tall slim guys, just like my husband.

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
5 weeks ago

Yorkshire

My Mr is slim/athletic built and I'm a curvy size 16

We do exist 😊

S xxx

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By *avexxMan
5 weeks ago

cheshire

they are into athletic men ...

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
5 weeks ago

Somewhere nearby


"Ok there is a perception that fit men only want to meet BBW because any port in a storm with do.

Like I said it can be perceived that a BBW will be flattered and grateful that someone is messaging them.

Personally I just don't meet guys that are not local or make an effort. Nothing to do with body type. X

"

This!

The first time an absolute Adonis of a man messaged me, I was extremely skeptical. I thought he was taking the mick, for exactly the reasons you said there.

We started messaging, and arranged a social. After chatting, I realised that he was actually interested in me, for me, and not because he thought of as an easy lay (which I’m not!).

We had some absolutely mind blowing meets and I was able to devour every part of his rock hard six pack, that v line, and his perfect arse, and he was more than happy to devour my much bigger body.

All that said, I would still be wary to start with, because there have been guys who have been less that polite about my weight.

OP though, if you are ever in the Highlands, hit me up

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By *mpressionable12Man
5 weeks ago

Leeds

Slim guy here

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By *winging for the fences OP   Man
5 weeks ago

london


"Ok there is a perception that fit men only want to meet BBW because any port in a storm with do.

Like I said it can be perceived that a BBW will be flattered and grateful that someone is messaging them.

Personally I just don't meet guys that are not local or make an effort. Nothing to do with body type. X

This!

The first time an absolute Adonis of a man messaged me, I was extremely skeptical. I thought he was taking the mick, for exactly the reasons you said there.

We started messaging, and arranged a social. After chatting, I realised that he was actually interested in me, for me, and not because he thought of as an easy lay (which I’m not!).

We had some absolutely mind blowing meets and I was able to devour every part of his rock hard six pack, that v line, and his perfect arse, and he was more than happy to devour my much bigger body.

All that said, I would still be wary to start with, because there have been guys who have been less that polite about my weight.

OP though, if you are ever in the Highlands, hit me up "

I'll take you up on that offer

I'm up those sides often for work!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
5 weeks ago

barnstaple

We are

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
5 weeks ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

Shame you don't have any other pics to perv OP.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
5 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

Check my veris

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
5 weeks ago

Brum

Who said?

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By *r M Gray88Man
5 weeks ago

Milnthorpe

They are fella 🤣🤣

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By *hesubtlegentMan
5 weeks ago

surrey

I’m slim and most of the women I’ve met are curvy

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By *airyboxMan
5 weeks ago

sheffield

Don’t stress about most people know what they want and like. There will be someone for you…replies on this thread already prove that.

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By *orphia2003Woman
5 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Some are, some aren't.

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By *ot MediterraneanCouple
5 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

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By *ot MediterraneanCouple
5 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

I’m a curvy size 14, I’m into athletic types Not slim though

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By *hesubtlegentMan
5 weeks ago

surrey


"I’m a curvy size 14, I’m into athletic types Not slim though "

Dammit !! 😂

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By *eardedguy800Man
5 weeks ago

Kidderminster


"I’m a curvy size 14, I’m into athletic types Not slim though "

That’s a blow

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
5 weeks ago

Wales


"Are they not? Because the slim athletic men I have been with would disagree."

This. As others have said, put more effort into your profile.

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By *winging for the fences OP   Man
5 weeks ago

london


"Shame you don't have any other pics to perv OP.

"

What do you want to see?

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I find this a lot..

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By *HUSH-Man
5 weeks ago

London


"All the women my type don't seem to be into my body type at all...which is a shame

Are you sure that's the reason? "

This,

More photos, more details on your bio and a verification or two. You can absolutely find what you’re looking for on here but single women (and couples) are routinely let down by single guys and often won’t bother with someone if they haven’t put in just a little bit of effort.

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By *ixfootfiveandabitMan
5 weeks ago

oxford

So a fat bloke with a small cock has no hope .

Think I better go elsewhere

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By *winging for the fences OP   Man
5 weeks ago

london


"All the women my type don't seem to be into my body type at all...which is a shame

Are you sure that's the reason?

This,

More photos, more details on your bio and a verification or two. You can absolutely find what you’re looking for on here but single women (and couples) are routinely let down by single guys and often won’t bother with someone if they haven’t put in just a little bit of effort.

"

Bio could defo do with improvement. And maybe a few verifications will help. I do share pics with the people I chat to and then that's when they say I'm not what they're looking for bodywise

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By *HUSH-Man
5 weeks ago

London


"All the women my type don't seem to be into my body type at all...which is a shame

Are you sure that's the reason?

This,

More photos, more details on your bio and a verification or two. You can absolutely find what you’re looking for on here but single women (and couples) are routinely let down by single guys and often won’t bother with someone if they haven’t put in just a little bit of effort.

Bio could defo do with improvement. And maybe a few verifications will help. I do share pics with the people I chat to and then that's when they say I'm not what they're looking for bodywise"

Verifications for a single guy are extremely important on here. I really can’t stress that enough. Vast majority browse in ninja mode and you’ll find yourself sitting on someone’s hotlist completely unknown to it until you prove that you’re not time wasting and larping like the majority of men on here. Then you’ll start having people dropping you winks.

As for rejecting you based on your body. I’ve had it too. People just like what they like. I really don’t think it’ll be that much of an issue. You already have women in this thread shooting their shot.

Just make the extra effort and you’ll do just fine

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By *enelope2UWoman
5 weeks ago

Fife


"All the women my type don't seem to be into my body type at all...which is a shame"

Because most men of that body type wouldn't be with my body type publicly so I Don't choose theirs privately either.

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By *vaRose43Woman
5 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Wasn’t it only last week we curvy ladies were told we had to only be with curvy guys?

Can’t win

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By *winging for the fences OP   Man
5 weeks ago

london


"All the women my type don't seem to be into my body type at all...which is a shame

Because most men of that body type wouldn't be with my body type publicly so I Don't choose theirs privately either.

"

What makes you think that???

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