FabSwingers.com forum: Forced Orgasm?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive just read a guy's profile who pops up now and again on my looked at me list and along with the bdsm, he says he likes forced orgasm. Am showing my naivety now but how do you force someone to orgasm? I dont even orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no idea but i'd let him give it a try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't either but this is what Wikipedia says:-

A forced orgasm is a form of orgasm control where the active partner sexually stimulates a submissive partner to the point of the submissive's involuntary orgasm, with the submissive attempting to restrain the onset of orgasm. In BDSM or other sexual roleplay, the submissive partner can be put in physical restraints, to enable the active partner to control the rate and duration of stimulation.

And just to make it worse, there is also involuntary orgasm and orgasm denial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would you try and restrain your orgasm?

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

" .... who pops up now and again on my looked at me list ...."

YOU CAN SEE WHO'S VIEWED YOUR PROFILE

My sneaky perving days are over

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"why would you try and restrain your orgasm?

It is a way for a Dom to control his sub.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't either but this is what Wikipedia says:-

And just to make it worse, there is also involuntary orgasm and orgasm denial"
I should have googled it myself but thought I would ask in here as people are helpful in their replies, so thank you for taking the trouble to do that.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"why would you try and restrain your orgasm?

To try and have a bigger one? I don't know.

I've never been able to stop one when I feel it coming and I have had some unexpected involuntary ones (usually the next day, once at the bus stop).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why would you try and restrain your orgasm?

It is a way for a Dom to control his sub....."

ive always said id make a shit sub lol

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"why would you try and restrain your orgasm?

It is a way for a Dom to control his sub.....

ive always said id make a shit sub lol "

Orgasm denial can go on for days and the frustration can build and build..But make no mistake when it is allowed it is mindblowing.......and worth the wait...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"why would you try and restrain your orgasm?

It is a way for a Dom to control his sub.....

ive always said id make a shit sub lol

Orgasm denial can go on for days and the frustration can build and build..But make no mistake when it is allowed it is mindblowing.......and worth the wait..."
oh well, sounds like you all enjoy it and thats good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why would you try and restrain your orgasm?

It is a way for a Dom to control his sub.....

ive always said id make a shit sub lol

Orgasm denial can go on for days and the frustration can build and build..But make no mistake when it is allowed it is mindblowing.......and worth the wait..."

not for me, id just push him aside and sort myself out

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"why would you try and restrain your orgasm?

It is a way for a Dom to control his sub.....

ive always said id make a shit sub lol

Orgasm denial can go on for days and the frustration can build and build..But make no mistake when it is allowed it is mindblowing.......and worth the wait...

not for me, id just push him aside and sort myself out

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"why would you try and restrain your orgasm?

It is a way for a Dom to control his sub.....

ive always said id make a shit sub lol

Orgasm denial can go on for days and the frustration can build and build..But make no mistake when it is allowed it is mindblowing.......and worth the wait...

not for me, id just push him aside and sort myself out

I am hearing you..but it kinda goes against the grain of D/s lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why would you try and restrain your orgasm?

It is a way for a Dom to control his sub.....

ive always said id make a shit sub lol

Orgasm denial can go on for days and the frustration can build and build..But make no mistake when it is allowed it is mindblowing.......and worth the wait...

not for me, id just push him aside and sort myself out

I am hearing you..but it kinda goes against the grain of D/s lol...

of course, but im not into the dom/sub thing so if I met a guy and he tried that on me id feel it was a bad meet, I wouldn't be happy with someone deliberately not giving me an orgasm, men who try but can manage it is one thing man who make an effort not to make me cum is another

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't think I could be a sub.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"why would you try and restrain your orgasm?

It is a way for a Dom to control his sub.....

ive always said id make a shit sub lol

Orgasm denial can go on for days and the frustration can build and build..But make no mistake when it is allowed it is mindblowing.......and worth the wait...

not for me, id just push him aside and sort myself out

I am hearing you..but it kinda goes against the grain of D/s lol...

and you are absolutely right...This sort of stuff should only be done when two like minded people agree to what is happening...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just got a message from a guy saying he got banned. Feel a bit bad now because its my post. On being a sub, I did meet someone who was telling me what to do and I wasnt allowed to use a certain word, got me a gentle spanking. he insisted I have a safeword as well. Admit to quite liking it a little he did have a very nice sexy way of doing it but my first so dont know if thats how everyone is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just got a message from a guy saying he got banned. Feel a bit bad now because its my post. On being a sub, I did meet someone who was telling me what to do and I wasnt allowed to use a certain word, got me a gentle spanking. he insisted I have a safeword as well. Admit to quite liking it a little he did have a very nice sexy way of doing it but my first so dont know if thats how everyone is?

That's a lovely thing to say but I would guess what he said got himself banned not you.

As to your other comment, you are very very lucky to have had someone who was very aware of your limitations and experience, and not a pretender. It really is fun though the orgasm stuff would be wasted on me as I don't

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

This can be great when done with the right guys, personally I couldn't do it with anyone apart from OH. Its just an extension of control, best done unexpectedly IMHO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive just read a guy's profile who pops up now and again on my looked at me list and along with the bdsm, he says he likes forced orgasm. Am showing my naivety now but how do you force someone to orgasm? I dont even orgasm

No orgasm at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont sound like fun to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No orgasm at all? "

I don't either never have

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

To return to the OP

Why would you not cum until allowed to? Because you want to please your Dom and he wants to see you work at it, because that's how you both like doing things.

Each to their own etc etc

Of course if a sub got really ratty because of not cumming and was a little cheeky you could always just tie her up so she was helpless then tie a magic wand on to her clit, put the telly on and relax.

A gag is essential, I found, but it makes it difficult to tell the difference between "make it stop" and "make it go faster"

Once she had regained consciousness she was a lot more patient and so does not get put in chastity these days.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Why are so many people talking about Orgasm Denial when the question is about Forced Orgasm lol

Forced Orgasm can be a powerful tool, imagine being told NOT to come for fear of punishment then being made to. You would probably try to hold off which could make the orgasm much more powerful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are so many people talking about Orgasm Denial when the question is about Forced Orgasm lol"

Didn't you just do that too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why would you try and restrain your orgasm?

It is a way for a Dom to control his sub.....

ive always said id make a shit sub lol

Orgasm denial can go on for days and the frustration can build and build..But make no mistake when it is allowed it is mindblowing.......and worth the wait..."

. Im climbing the walls thinking about it no ta. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why would you try and restrain your orgasm?

It is a way for a Dom to control his sub.....

ive always said id make a shit sub lol

Orgasm denial can go on for days and the frustration can build and build..But make no mistake when it is allowed it is mindblowing.......and worth the wait..."

. Im climbing the walls thinking about it no ta. Lol

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Why are so many people talking about Orgasm Denial when the question is about Forced Orgasm lol

Didn't you just do that too?"

Er, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why would you try and restrain your orgasm?

It is a way for a Dom to control his sub....."

I prefer forced orgasms to orgasm denial!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are so many people talking about Orgasm Denial when the question is about Forced Orgasm lol

Forced Orgasm can be a powerful tool, imagine being told NOT to come for fear of punishment then being made to. You would probably try to hold off which could make the orgasm much more powerful.

its the one way to get information out of me. If I am forced to cum repeatedly or give information out I'll give the information! (I'm so glad J doesn't read the forums!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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.You don't Orgasm??? Ever??.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are so many people talking about Orgasm Denial when the question is about Forced Orgasm lol

Didn't you just do that too?

Er, no."

Ok..

"imagine being told NOT to come for fear of punishment"

Just sounded like denial

My idea of a forced orgasm would be to tie them down and then force them to orgasm... twice..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.You don't Orgasm??? Ever??.xx "
Not to my knowledge no, have been told i squirt and gush but havent felt the orgasm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Perhaps I should do a new topic - forced orgasm or no orgasm ever? lol. well not laughing actually but brave face on here

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"why would you try and restrain your orgasm?

It is a way for a Dom to control his sub.....

I prefer forced orgasms to orgasm denial!!"

Oh don't we all!!!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Never thought I could orgasm never mind control it but it is awesome.

Play with the right Dom and your head will be floating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.You don't Orgasm??? Ever??.xx "
fk that would rather walk into north korea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its delicious. Try it some time.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

"why would you try and restrain your orgasm?

It's a DOM to SUB thing. Also, we do this and the orgasm I get is really REALLY intense. It's one of things that most definitely leads me to squirting. I love this form of play, love the way i'm being controlled with this form of play. You should try it, if you like dom games you'll really get off on this.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

To the women that have never had an orgasm...

Do you play with yourself??

Or do you rely on guy?

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

.You don't Orgasm??? Ever??.xx Not to my knowledge no, have been told i squirt and gush but havent felt the orgasm "

Perhaps I could help you with that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To the women that have never had an orgasm...

Do you play with yourself??

Or do you rely on guy?"

Yes I do but what difference does that make as I never have or am I missing something?

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By *atexbound_scotMan
over a year ago

Livingston

I've had this done to me and its both amazing and terrible. In my case it was more post orgasm torture...tied down, edged for hours before finally being allowed to cum...BUT that's when the torture started.

Don't know about everyone else but after I cum I am super sensitive down below and any touch is amazingly sensitive and in some respects sore...so, having cum the cock teasing carries on regardless.....aaaaaaahhhhhhh......sooooo sensitive....stop.....but no, keeps going and going and going until I came again.

Fantastic

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Forced orgasm : not doing once she has either come or orgasmed.. It can go on essentially as long as you like, I used to play for around 7 hours like this with 1 break for a drink. The woman also phished to bring the orgasm on too.

Orgasm denial : mostly covered above, the woman or bloke is brought to the edge of orgasm and then all play is stopped, again this can go on for as long add you want. I've never been as cruel though to last it out for a couple of days though lol a good few hours usually brings the house down

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Forced orgasm: not stopping ( that should say. Predictive text error sorry)

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

*pushes

Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A forced orgasm scenario I'd like to try is to be tied to a chair by a woman or group of women, they could be fully clothed, and be wanked off and forced to cum. Any offers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps I should do a new topic - forced orgasm or no orgasm ever? lol. well not laughing actually but brave face on here

Why not, we could see who else doesn't then form a group to discuss it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont sound like fun to me

Try it, its explosive, trust me I went through the change and was horny 24/7 for months, the feeling of being stuck at work and thinking about sex and not being able to come is indescribable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it. Especially when they make you cum till you're begging for it to stop

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