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By *sianpearl OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

swindon

It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it?

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By *hil most chillMan
10 weeks ago

South East & Europe

I'm here for sex, and that's what I get out of it

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By *ave1976XXXMan
10 weeks ago

newmarket


"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "

I’ve never not turned up to a meet and I also don’t understand why people mess around.

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By *aughty driverMan
10 weeks ago

Romford

You have great pics and seem straight up but i dont fit your criteria unfortunately. I have q beard and only travel to swindon midweek so it wont work

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
10 weeks ago

here and there

It's because a lot of the single men are just after quick thrill ,that's even if thay are single x

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By *olfandtazCouple
10 weeks ago

Bristol

Lots of men talk a big game but when it comes to prove it they bottle it and hide or come up with a crap excuse

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
10 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Lots just like the thrill of the chase and get off over the thought of meeting.

To be fair, some women and couples are like that too

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By *sianpearl OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

swindon

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By *ave1976XXXMan
10 weeks ago

newmarket

Not all men mess people around.

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By *sianpearl OP   Woman
10 weeks ago

swindon


"Lots just like the thrill of the chase and get off over the thought of meeting.

To be fair, some women and couples are like that too "

Would seem so at the expense of somone elses time and preparation. They don't realise it's only becomes a chase when the other is running away.

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By *Silver-Man
10 weeks ago

Mold

Had no show's from women and couples

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I think you have had a bad wxperience but i know others who have said the same.

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By *herry delightWoman
10 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "

I am also fined more and more men just don't turn up or cancel at the very least minute.

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By *j NorthMan
10 weeks ago

Wakey

Been on and off here a long time , Use to get replys to about 8 out of 10 messages.

Now your lucky if 1 out of 10 are even read . Lost in the bombardment of picture collectors an time wasters .

I was on here with my ex aswell, I've seen the sort of messages single men send at times

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By *ody.89Man
10 weeks ago

London

You get this experience on dating apps too. People just treat the online interactions as a sort of fun thrill, which ruins things for people who are actually serious

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By *WB85Man
10 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I've no idea what they get out of it, but it doesn't half make it difficult for the rest of us.

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By *elboy1978Man
10 weeks ago

Fellgate

I am here for sex

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By *neeyedwillieMan
10 weeks ago

Darlington


"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "

I can't get a meet for love nor money (not that I would pay) on here.

Yet I'm a regular at my local club and social events and do just fine. I seem to be quite popular acctually..

I know whats going on and ill say is, similar issues are plaguing dating apps right now.

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By *_new_memberMan
10 weeks ago

Tewkesbury

It's not just men, and I really don't get it (or understand it!) either

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Bristol


"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "

Disappearing during message exchange or the day after is totally a thing.

My theory is that guys get d*unk and fantasise, and then either cum or look at it in the cold light of morning and go... nah...

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By *enatton2Couple
10 weeks ago

West Midlands

The only no show/late cancellation we had was a “single female”

Every single male or couple we’ve made plans with has shown up and shown off

I’m sure we’ve just jinxed it now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Hiya I’m here for anything fun, I’m part of a couple and yes the wife does know infact it was her idea for me to have an account, she loves the idea of me going off and getting sucked off etc then coming back and telling her about it whilst we fuck

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By *evonrobMan
10 weeks ago

Kingsbridge


"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "

I’d say try going for older men ( I would say that!), I can’t imagine any of them would be stupid enough to miss out on meeting you, you’re gorgeous!

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By *harlie1212Man
10 weeks ago

cork

I think you can get a sense of who is legit and who will follow through with meetings if you converse a few times beforehand people. Especially men seem to get cold feet when they are supposed to meet especially if it’s a kinky request ??

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By *ucka39Man
10 weeks ago

Newcastle

I've always been happy with those I've met or chatted with for future plans.

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By *rNightMan
10 weeks ago

Coventry

I’ve never agreed to a meet and cancelled or not turned up

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By *alaceman1975Man
10 weeks ago

london

Time wasters suck

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By *icolerobbieCouple
10 weeks ago

walsall

We’ve had 3 recently who’ve dropped out at the 11th hour. Not something that has happened much before, but seems to be on the rise.

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By *hagTonightMan
10 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"Lots just like the thrill of the chase and get off over the thought of meeting.

To be fair, some women and couples are like that too "
This .

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By *uckslut and MCouple
10 weeks ago

Poole

We had 2 on the same evening last week. 1 was chatting to us, right up to an hour before. The other, chatting that morning, then he never logged on again that day. We'd met 1 of them twice before.

Playtime is limited, and we probably turned down men that would of showed up. However, we always have fun between us, so all is not lost. Just their loss.

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By *endalshaggersCouple
10 weeks ago

Kendal


"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "

Most probably enjoy a good wank over the videos/photos on here and that's really all they want

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By *hesubtlegentMan
10 weeks ago

surrey


"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it?

Most probably enjoy a good wank over the videos/photos on here and that's really all they want"

This !!

I’ve had messages from ‘couples’ saying they are interested, having the wife meet solo, asking for pics or add to friends list yet they don’t have any photos or can’t send any and then ghost me when I suggest a social… fortunately I haven’t had any times when I’ve arranged a meet and they didn’t show up..

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

If I say I’m meeting, I show up. Common courtesy.

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By *issy4kinkTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Leeds

I've had more time wasters than I can count. It's made me a lot more sceptical of people when I'm arranging meets now

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By *harlie1212Man
10 weeks ago

cork

If I was a bit closer I would definitely show up. Shame your photos are so beautiful

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By *ourbon1Man
10 weeks ago

wales

i like to keep myself very busy with lots of sports and things but if i say i’m going to be there i will. i also try to keep updated on leaving and things so they can be happy genuine. nothing worse is there than getting excited and no show xx

wish these people wouldn’t waste time as think of all the extra sex everyone could of had ha xx

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By *ternal Optimist1Man
10 weeks ago

Hertford


"Not all men mess people around. "

this

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By *onnie 90Woman
10 weeks ago

Leeds

I've found that the ones who want to talk dirty and fantasise are the worst. Clearly they're having a wank and when they've shot their load they lose interest and vanish.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
10 weeks ago

Chatham

Some are just here to collect fantasies and pictures. The amount of guys who message purely just to question me on past experiences has increased recently.

It boggles me

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By *ildTimes.Man
10 weeks ago

Colchester/London


"I'm here for sex, and that's what I get out of it"

😂😂 This!

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By *ee1967Man
10 weeks ago

watford

I've been let down so many times

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By *elboy1978Man
10 weeks ago

Fellgate

I am here to meet people I am trying to get a meet I wouldn’t not turn up

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By *rightonsteveMan
10 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Keyboard fantasists.

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By *r SproutMan
10 weeks ago

the middle


"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "

You will never see me complaining

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By *dd999Man
10 weeks ago

didcot


"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "

I would have messaged you to arrange, but I fall outside your age range unfortunately

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By *alehullMan
10 weeks ago

hull


"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "

It’s not only men

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By *omscot789Man
10 weeks ago

airdrie

New on here and don’t seem to even get replies. It’s very difficult to put in a message what you think will grab attention, respectful and also what to say about myself. Any tips? Very hard to get started in this. I of course understand it may just be they are not interested and I’m completely respectful of that.

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
10 weeks ago

Norwich

Well I'll ways turn up, just ask xx

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I find there’s alot of people who are time wasters on this site I’m down for good time a laugh and fun with any female

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By *eyeYCouple
10 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Not had a no show from a guy yet, couples and ladies have flaked on us though..

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By *ostguy321Man
10 weeks ago

Bucks

There are many time wasters and picture collectors on here, but when you do meet with the right people its worth it.

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By *anchesterGuy1Man
10 weeks ago

Manchester


"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "

Morning OP I have very often wondered what goes through people's mind when they behave like that.

Unfortunately a large percentage of us male species is just looking for instant gratification, they are not looking at the motivation and reasons for other people being here. They either get want they want at that moment in time and then crack on with normal life or they just lose interest and don't bother again

But I would like to add that we are not all like that lol

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By *nkedguy777Man
10 weeks ago

Manchester

I do think the no-shows,pic collectors and time wasters do put a lot of people off actually chatting to people

I myself have never not shown up or just ghosted anyone

I'm here to meet people and hopefully have lots of fun,but I do find it difficult actually getting meets

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By *eesside50Man
10 weeks ago

Stockton-On-Tees

Genuine, divorced, looking to chat and meet, socially and sexually. That's what I'm about, but very rarely get a response from messages that are sent.

I was very fortunate to meet a cpl once, and would very much like too again.

Am certainly not up for just sleeping with everyone x

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By *amster1210Man
10 weeks ago

Haslingden

Like other comments to many fake profiles fake photos, pic collectors and people saying they are younger etc that spoil it for us genuine guys.

I only chat with people who have verifications myself as to many fake couple profiles as well

I have never let anyone down

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By *ddfellowMan
10 weeks ago

Newferry, wirral

ive had a few no shows, its a pain in the arse and not in a good way

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By *ibs4Man
10 weeks ago

Romford,poitiers france and torrevieja spain

I have always turned up,personally I don’t understand time wasters or what they get out of it,do they sit at home laughing to themselves???

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By *andadbodMan
10 weeks ago

Liverpool

I’ve not read the thread but i’d be surprised if any man on here is gunna admit to being a timewaster 🤷‍♂️

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By *ustSomeDarkieMan
10 weeks ago

Salford


"It amazes me how often I see men complaining that they can not get meets when in my experience very few turn up and lots just disappear during message exchange. Why be on here I'm asking men directly, what do you get out of it? "

I'm looking for a hotwife gf. I've had luck in the past, I mainly get one offs though would rather a regular thing both for sex and going out doing none sexual things

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By *ustSomeDarkieMan
10 weeks ago

Salford


"Not had a no show from a guy yet, couples and ladies have flaked on us though.."

I 100% this..when I've planned parties with my mates. All the guys turned up and when he charged too they honoured it. Couples and ladies flaked most of the time or tried to swerve paying when wee were charging

One arrogant couple said we are going to the pub, come get us when the party starts as they were earlier than expected. Didn't even want to say hi to the guys. I told them to fuck off.

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