FabSwingers.com forum: Is craving sex just craving affection?

By *ogerroger69 OP Man
5 weeks ago

West Yorks

As adult sex addicts are we just craving affection?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
5 weeks ago

Leeds

Isn't sex a bit different to affection ?

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By *ockoVanManMan
5 weeks ago

Coventry

Sometimes yes, sometimes no, when did you last receive affection

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By *allySlinkyWoman
5 weeks ago

Leeds

Also, is everyone on this site an "adult sex addict"? I often go for months without sex as I'm picky. I don't think I'm a sex addict.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
5 weeks ago

Leeds

"when did you last receive affection"

My son arrived home yesterday for the weekend and gave me a big hug. I consider that affection

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By *ogerroger69 OP Man
5 weeks ago

West Yorks

"when did you last receive affection

My son arrived home yesterday for the weekend and gave me a big hug. I consider that affection"

Of course I agree, that’s a form of affection

Sex is a form of affection and gratification surely?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
5 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes I agree sex is gratification. I don't think it is always with affection

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By *ogerroger69 OP Man
5 weeks ago

West Yorks

"Yes I agree sex is gratification. I don't think it is always with affection "

Again I agree

Personally I’ve never experienced sex without affection

Maybe I’m lucky

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By *allySlinkyWoman
5 weeks ago

Leeds

Personally I’ve never experienced sex without affection

Maybe I’m lucky "

Have you ever had a quickie with no kissing ?

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By *ogerroger69 OP Man
5 weeks ago

West Yorks

Personally I’ve never experienced sex without affection

Maybe I’m lucky

Have you ever had a quickie with no kissing ?"

Yes I have come to think of it

But I still felt wanted in the moment

You?

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By *arathon69manMan
5 weeks ago

Perranporth

"Also, is everyone on this site an "adult sex addict"? I often go for months without sex as I'm picky. I don't think I'm a sex addict. "

How in earth can a girl like you go for months without sex ... you've got a body made for that very purpose... if you don't mind me saying like

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By *allySlinkyWoman
5 weeks ago

Leeds

How in earth can a girl like you go for months without sex ... you've got a body made for that very purpose... if you don't mind me saying like

Thank you for the compliment

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By *arathon69manMan
5 weeks ago

Perranporth

You're very welcome of course ... stunning!!

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By *ogerroger69 OP Man
5 weeks ago

West Yorks

I’ll echo that compliment Sally x

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By *ayswings69Man
5 weeks ago

walsall wood

Personally I’ve never experienced sex without affection

Maybe I’m lucky

Have you ever had a quickie with no kissing ?"

Awww yes Monday

Ps Sally you look so beautiful

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By *ddfellowMan
5 weeks ago

Newferry, wirral

I get tons of affection its just the sex i need more of

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By *ady luck 500Woman
5 weeks ago

Billericay

For me

Is all about fun sex play

But of course we all humans

So most of as like to kiss and touch

As a swingr u keep the two apart but now and then someone comes along you more connected with.

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By *eyeYCouple
5 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

We enjoy both and occasionally 'crave' each, mood and day depending. Sometimes we have both at the same time, so long answer short no they're not the same thing but not exclusive.. 🤣😘

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think for some people yes, it is craving affection.

If sex is the only way your partner shows physical affection then the two become linked.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
5 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'd add that wanting and enjoying physical affection doesn't mean you're a sex addict though. It just means you're human.

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By *ananaBreadWoman
5 weeks ago

Midlands

100%

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By *ananaBreadWoman
5 weeks ago

Midlands

"Isn't sex a bit different to affection ?"

They are two different things - for me, I've had neither for a very long time

I need both. Affectionate sex ; seems impossible to find.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
5 weeks ago

London

Not for me at all, sex and affection are completely different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

No.

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By *sWyldWoman
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

For me, sometimes I have used sex as a way to get some affection.

Sometimes it's not the actual sex I want but some, attention, intimacy, kissing, touch, being held.

Sex is used for all manor of things if honest

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
5 weeks ago

the moon

It’s lust 💓

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By *andb69Couple
5 weeks ago

leeds

"As adult sex addicts are we just craving affection?"

Definitely not. We get all the affection, love and romance we need from each other. We swing for fun, enjoyment and pure NSA sexual thrills. I'd back off immediately someone we were playing with started to get "affectionate".

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By *sWyldWoman
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"As adult sex addicts are we just craving affection?

That's great for you both as you have each other. For single people meeting other single people it's sometimes very different

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By *ellhungvweMan
5 weeks ago

Cheltenham

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By *ellhungvweMan
5 weeks ago

Cheltenham

If you are a sex addict I don’t think you need affection - I think you need help.

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By *ellinever70Woman
5 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"If you are a sex addict I don’t think you need affection - I think you need help."

Yes, I reckon it would be a retched existence

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By *io--Man
5 weeks ago

Near Blackpool

"As adult sex addicts are we just craving affection?"
No, definitely not. For me anyway. huge difference between casual sex and doing it with a partner you're into emotionally. Like smoking vs edibles

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By *d68Man
5 weeks ago

Airdrie

"For me, sometimes I have used sex as a way to get some affection.

Sometimes it's not the actual sex I want but some, attention, intimacy, kissing, touch, being held.

Sex is used for all manor of things if honest

Correct, I enjoy the intimacy of sex, affection during that aforementioned makes me feel closer to my partner. I love the feeling of being touched for want of a better word “affectionately “ it’s a major turn on for me knowing that someone is enjoying a connection with you, and you in return them.

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By *hagira ShagiraWoman
5 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Sex and affection dont always go hand in hand , there in lies the problem some people dont know the difference between them both , Sex can be just functionary , something we enjoy. Affections totally different , sometimes we can get both at the same time.

Also having a healthy alternative sexual appetite and libido doesnt make us sex addicts .Sex addiction is a totally different beast .

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Devoid of both for years so who knows. Blurred lines ...

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
5 weeks ago

chichester

"As adult sex addicts are we just craving affection?"

I don’t need affection to fuck. I just want to cum snd have a good time easily enough

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By *heseeker73Man
5 weeks ago

witney

I just crave that deep and strong orgasm that you just can't achieve from a wank. I want sex, affection is developed naturally when it clicks with the right people. Most acts of affection are not even premeditated they are so natural. If you crave it. Your going to be needy. This is solely my own opinion and is in no way meant to offend anyone.

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