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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's your reason for choosing not to appear on other's "Who's looked at me" page? Avoiding unwanted attention or is it just a pride thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to let 'em see if I'm looking, spoils the fun otherwise

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

To avoid the 'I see youve just looked at my profile, what did you think?' messages that often follow....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went into stealth mode as I used to get loads of mail off guys I had looked at, saying things like, hi saw you looked at me are you interested in meeting? I would have thought by the fact I look but didn't mail it was obvious I wasn't lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Because when we look more often than not they would message you....

IF i was interested, I would message them myself....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went into stealth mode as I used to get loads of mail off guys I had looked at, saying things like, hi saw you looked at me are you interested in meeting?"

Ironic really considering how many guys would appreciate that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to show and then I got umpteen messages ' you just looked' etc etc yadda yadda

Its easier this way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I went into stealth mode as I used to get loads of mail off guys I had looked at, saying things like, hi saw you looked at me are you interested in meeting? I would have thought by the fact I look but didn't mail it was obvious I wasn't lol"

Thought that might be the case....surely not getting any messages / winks from the person who's looked at my profile SHOULD mean that they're either not interested or are thinking about it.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"To avoid the 'I see youve just looked at my profile, what did you think?' messages that often follow...."

This!!

Half the time I'm just being nosy and have no intention of messaging the person. X

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By *erbyGuy76Man
over a year ago

Derby

judging by my "Who's Looked at me page", I think the facility must be broken for AGES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went into stealth mode as I used to get loads of mail off guys I had looked at, saying things like, hi saw you looked at me are you interested in meeting?

Ironic really considering how many guys would appreciate that."

really?

so if you looked at a woman and you didn't like her so didn't bother mailing her would you want her mailing you asking what you thought of her?

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

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I went in to secret snoop mode, so I could snoop without being caught

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went into stealth mode as I used to get loads of mail off guys I had looked at, saying things like, hi saw you looked at me are you interested in meeting?

Ironic really considering how many guys would appreciate that.

really?

so if you looked at a woman and you didn't like her so didn't bother mailing her would you want her mailing you asking what you thought of her? "

Sometimes, though not always. On occasion I'll look at a womans profile, consider messaging her then decide not to (not much written on profile, too far away, no verifications, I might not be what she's looking for etc), but if she was then to send a friendly message asking if I felt like chatting, then I'd probably be keen to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went into stealth mode as I used to get loads of mail off guys I had looked at, saying things like, hi saw you looked at me are you interested in meeting?

Ironic really considering how many guys would appreciate that.

really?

so if you looked at a woman and you didn't like her so didn't bother mailing her would you want her mailing you asking what you thought of her?

Sometimes, though not always. On occasion I'll look at a womans profile, consider messaging her then decide not to (not much written on profile, too far away, no verifications, I might not be what she's looking for etc), but if she was then to send a friendly message asking if I felt like chatting, then I'd probably be keen to reply."

I must admit I have on occasion looked at a guys profile, thought he was out of my league so not mailed him but took my stealth mode off, looked at him then put it back on and waited to see if he mails me

I know that sounds a contradiction after why I said I hide in the first place but because I know most men mail you if you do look at them I use it to my advantage when trying to get the attention of men I do like

a womans logic eh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went into stealth mode as I used to get loads of mail off guys I had looked at, saying things like, hi saw you looked at me are you interested in meeting?

Ironic really considering how many guys would appreciate that.

really?

so if you looked at a woman and you didn't like her so didn't bother mailing her would you want her mailing you asking what you thought of her?

Sometimes, though not always. On occasion I'll look at a womans profile, consider messaging her then decide not to (not much written on profile, too far away, no verifications, I might not be what she's looking for etc), but if she was then to send a friendly message asking if I felt like chatting, then I'd probably be keen to reply.

I must admit I have on occasion looked at a guys profile, thought he was out of my league so not mailed him but took my stealth mode off, looked at him then put it back on and waited to see if he mails me "

But if you did that, wouldn't the view you gave him when your stealth mode was off be nullified by you putting it back on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went into stealth mode as I used to get loads of mail off guys I had looked at, saying things like, hi saw you looked at me are you interested in meeting?

Ironic really considering how many guys would appreciate that.

really?

so if you looked at a woman and you didn't like her so didn't bother mailing her would you want her mailing you asking what you thought of her?

Sometimes, though not always. On occasion I'll look at a womans profile, consider messaging her then decide not to (not much written on profile, too far away, no verifications, I might not be what she's looking for etc), but if she was then to send a friendly message asking if I felt like chatting, then I'd probably be keen to reply.

I must admit I have on occasion looked at a guys profile, thought he was out of my league so not mailed him but took my stealth mode off, looked at him then put it back on and waited to see if he mails me

But if you did that, wouldn't the view you gave him when your stealth mode was off be nullified by you putting it back on? "

no if you take your stealth mode off and look at someone then put it back on it still shows you have looked at them in the period it was off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went into stealth mode as I used to get loads of mail off guys I had looked at, saying things like, hi saw you looked at me are you interested in meeting?

Ironic really considering how many guys would appreciate that.

really?

so if you looked at a woman and you didn't like her so didn't bother mailing her would you want her mailing you asking what you thought of her?

Sometimes, though not always. On occasion I'll look at a womans profile, consider messaging her then decide not to (not much written on profile, too far away, no verifications, I might not be what she's looking for etc), but if she was then to send a friendly message asking if I felt like chatting, then I'd probably be keen to reply.

I must admit I have on occasion looked at a guys profile, thought he was out of my league so not mailed him but took my stealth mode off, looked at him then put it back on and waited to see if he mails me

But if you did that, wouldn't the view you gave him when your stealth mode was off be nullified by you putting it back on?

no if you take your stealth mode off and look at someone then put it back on it still shows you have looked at them in the period it was off"

Ah, I'll have to bear that in mind should I ever decide to go a'browsing x

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

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"I went into stealth mode as I used to get loads of mail off guys I had looked at, saying things like, hi saw you looked at me are you interested in meeting?

Ironic really considering how many guys would appreciate that.

really?

so if you looked at a woman and you didn't like her so didn't bother mailing her would you want her mailing you asking what you thought of her?

Sometimes, though not always. On occasion I'll look at a womans profile, consider messaging her then decide not to (not much written on profile, too far away, no verifications, I might not be what she's looking for etc), but if she was then to send a friendly message asking if I felt like chatting, then I'd probably be keen to reply.

I must admit I have on occasion looked at a guys profile, thought he was out of my league so not mailed him but took my stealth mode off, looked at him then put it back on and waited to see if he mails me

I know that sounds a contradiction after why I said I hide in the first place but because I know most men mail you if you do look at them I use it to my advantage when trying to get the attention of men I do like

a womans logic eh lol"

Am I the only bloke that is now off the check if she looked at their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went into stealth mode as I used to get loads of mail off guys I had looked at, saying things like, hi saw you looked at me are you interested in meeting?

Ironic really considering how many guys would appreciate that.

really?

so if you looked at a woman and you didn't like her so didn't bother mailing her would you want her mailing you asking what you thought of her?

Sometimes, though not always. On occasion I'll look at a womans profile, consider messaging her then decide not to (not much written on profile, too far away, no verifications, I might not be what she's looking for etc), but if she was then to send a friendly message asking if I felt like chatting, then I'd probably be keen to reply.

I must admit I have on occasion looked at a guys profile, thought he was out of my league so not mailed him but took my stealth mode off, looked at him then put it back on and waited to see if he mails me

But if you did that, wouldn't the view you gave him when your stealth mode was off be nullified by you putting it back on?

no if you take your stealth mode off and look at someone then put it back on it still shows you have looked at them in the period it was off"

Are you certain?

I was told that activating looked at me, removes you from looked at me profiles, so you need to leave it off, until they have checked their looked at me. (Which can be difficult to gauge)

That said, who actually looks at their looked at me?

Looking is one thing, sending a message a whole different kettle of fish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you certain?

I was told that activating looked at me, removes you from looked at me profiles, so you need to leave it off, until they have checked their looked at me. (Which can be difficult to gauge)

That said, who actually looks at their looked at me?

Looking is one thing, sending a message a whole different kettle of fish "

ive had guys mail me after I have put it back on so im assuming it still shows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you certain?

I was told that activating looked at me, removes you from looked at me profiles, so you need to leave it off, until they have checked their looked at me. (Which can be difficult to gauge)

That said, who actually looks at their looked at me?

Looking is one thing, sending a message a whole different kettle of fish

ive had guys mail me after I have put it back on so im assuming it still shows"

Do I show on your looked at me,

ps Love the white fishnets

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"I went into stealth mode as I used to get loads of mail off guys I had looked at, saying things like, hi saw you looked at me are you interested in meeting? I would have thought by the fact I look but didn't mail it was obvious I wasn't lol"

I agree. I am similar that I didnt mail them and dont wish to get the....hi wanna meet??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your reason for choosing not to appear on other's "Who's looked at me" page? Avoiding unwanted attention or is it just a pride thing? "

I choose not to appear to avoid unwarranted messages, I found that when I did appear on list, guys who's profiles I browsed saw that as me being interested in meeting them, stealth mode far better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your reason for choosing not to appear on other's "Who's looked at me" page? "

To avoid getting the 'Will you please stop perving our pics 273 times a day you sad old git' message.... Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great tip NN!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Are you certain?

I was told that activating looked at me, removes you from looked at me profiles, so you need to leave it off, until they have checked their looked at me. (Which can be difficult to gauge)

That said, who actually looks at their looked at me?

Looking is one thing, sending a message a whole different kettle of fish

ive had guys mail me after I have put it back on so im assuming it still shows"

No if you go back to stealth you will then be removed from their looked at me list. Like your crafty thinking though

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I choose not to be seen otherwise I get messages off people I have no wish to meet. If they see I have looked at them then a lot will automatically message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stealth perve simply because I can.

And some people get all serious and start looking into restraining orders just because you've had a peek at their profile 50 times a day for a month.

It's shocking!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I get fed up with all the hotties demanding I do odd jobs around their house in my flag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter either way ! U have to look at profiles to see if want to take it further , and sometimes u don't message ... Cos u don't think there right for u ... U get a polite message and chat starts ... Shouldn't judge a book and all that !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you certain?

I was told that activating looked at me, removes you from looked at me profiles, so you need to leave it off, until they have checked their looked at me. (Which can be difficult to gauge)

That said, who actually looks at their looked at me?

Looking is one thing, sending a message a whole different kettle of fish

ive had guys mail me after I have put it back on so im assuming it still shows"
I look at my looked at me list. None message though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at profiles for a whole raft of reasons ... some I would like to meet, others might have an interesting profile pic and I just want to see pic styles, someone might have nice underwear, others have made an interesting forum comment (or equally a stupid one) and from that I want to see what else there is to them .... I don't operate in stealth mode so god forbid someone should choose to message me saying "saw you peeping" I would have to lower myself to interact with someone I might not want to fuck .... on second thoughts ; isn't that what this is supposed to be about?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Because I like to perv some profiles on a daily basis.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I went into stealth mode as I used to get loads of mail off guys I had looked at, saying things like, hi saw you looked at me are you interested in meeting? I would have thought by the fact I look but didn't mail it was obvious I wasn't lol"

apart from if they had read the forums they would be aware that you don't message people first anyway lol

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"But if you did that, wouldn't the view you gave him when your stealth mode was off be nullified by you putting it back on?

no if you take your stealth mode off and look at someone then put it back on it still shows you have looked at them in the period it was off"

It only shows while stealth mode is off... Also it will show on everyone that you've looked at recentlys who's viewed me list while it's off. When you switch back to stealth you didappear from everyone's who's looked at me list.

I remember admin answering this a while ago.

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