FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

seedy slut

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Finally manage to arrange a meet with a male in his 40s (girlfriends) preference. Took a couple of weeks to arrange but it's finally happening. Nervous isn't the word. With specifically picked him tho because he's into bdsm and we have just started getting into that side of things to spice things up. The point of this thread is what's the is there

Inch difference beetween bdsm and bondage

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

well hes only going to be as hard as you let him, but if you dont trust him to take your word as red then I'd be doubtful of meeting him.

If its just pre meet nerves, everybody gets them so just enjoy it. BDSM is perfectly safe so long as theres a consunsual agreement as is with any meet.

Though most boundaries are there to be explored/pushed so just face it with a smile and see how it goes?

Its your meet as much as his, is what I'm saying

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

make sure u agree to a safe word with him that means stop when said, but first meet nerves may cum into play for sure my wife was nearly sick driving to our first meet, but went with it and was great

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hello.Dave you haven't been on for a while. How are things

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I've had meets before on my own before my girlfriend new I was on here. She caught me out and we made arrangement that if I let her play with another man then were almost equal. She wanted a interracial meet but I've persuaded her off the idea.....long story tho. We was going to set up a joint profile but she doesent want to be on here. I've told her you an set your pics to discreet but she just wants me to do all the arranging. If this meet doesent float her boat then im deleting this account, so fingers crossed

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't understand the "seedy slut" reference.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

so you are going to have sex with a guy to keep your missus? How long you two been dating?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello.Dave you haven't been on for a while. How are things"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand the "seedy slut" reference."

I don't either.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I thought you and your GF had split up?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand the "seedy slut" reference.

I don't either. "

Cause it sounded better than " absolute bullshitter "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so you are going to have sex with a guy to keep your missus? How long you two been dating?"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so you are going to have sex with a guy to keep your missus? How long you two been dating?"

Where did he say he was going to have sex with the guy? Have posts been removed?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"so you are going to have sex with a guy to keep your missus? How long you two been dating?

Where did he say he was going to have sex with the guy? Have posts been removed?"

no just there was an emphasis on the male "with girlfriends ppresent" .. hes not replied to my ask yet

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah right. He actually said it was his girlfriends preference so I took that to mean that she'd chosen the guy. Lets hope the OP reappears to clear things up!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I thought you and your GF had split up? "

Lol that's what the other thread says

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read it as he is going to be the 'seedy slut', that they've found a top/dom to use and abuse dave as he is just getting into bdsm & his gf is well, that I have no idea of, as I cant keep up with this mythical gf.

But as Dave is busy, I dont think he will be back to clear things up

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

You again?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read it as he is going to be the 'seedy slut', that they've found a top/dom to use and abuse dave as he is just getting into bdsm & his gf is well, that I have no idea of, as I cant keep up with this mythical gf.

But as Dave is busy, I dont think he will be back to clear things up "

Hey - give him a break!

He's off on a BDSM meet with his 'GF' !

He's probably just 'tied up' !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He could be out dogging with *insert fictional gf/relative here* to get in the mood for his BDSM meet

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"so you are going to have sex with a guy to keep your missus? How long you two been dating?"

No she's going to have sex with him if she feels at ease after a little foreplay

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I can't answer your original question in detail because I don't know much about either bdsm or bondage so I suggest you talk to the guy and make sure you all know your boundaries.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brutal.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gotta be carefull with that bdsm stuff who remembers the tory mp who carked it with a orange shoved in his cakehole when the old autoerotic asphyxiation went pear shaped .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ll of a QuiverCouple
over a year ago

Douglas


"I thought you and your GF had split up? "

Same here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP, have you not given thought that to others their perception of your adventures recently give the distinct impression that there may be a large element of fantasy going on..

fantasies are totally fine dont get me wrong but how one posts will usually influence how others reply..?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 16/04/13 23:06:56]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't understand the "seedy slut" reference.

I don't either.

Cause it sounded better than " absolute bullshitter " "

You may have removed your vile quote but I've already reported you before I told you I reported you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Probably best to leave it to the moderators now Dave.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top