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By *ekyllandHyde OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Hi, just thinking is it fair to assume people that have been on here for over a year with no verifications are fakes...I believe this to be the case. What's your thoughts?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

dont believe they are fakes - just that they dont meet so arent rwally worth the time mailing personally

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By *urvesAllOverWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Not at all...I was on last year but hid my profile for a good few months. Now I've come back on all of my verifications have disappeared but I'm certainly not a fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they may be having the time of their lives meeting every week but don't want or need veris to prove it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Some might have had some but then the people who had left them a veri, left the site, taking the veri with them. Or they might simply choose not to display any. Not sure though if I'd contact anyone who had been here over a year with no veri but I might depending on who it was and how they interacted with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's not true, forces personnel for example that are stationed abroad? However even those that are verified are not necessarily real as I've found out

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By *ekyllandHyde OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I understand what you are saying but surely at least one or two verifications to prove you are the real deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't really think about it to be honest

Tho now you have asked, a single guys could easily be on here for over a year and have no meets, that don't mean he don't want any just he hasn't had the chance yet and most likely would meet given the chance

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hi, just thinking is it fair to assume people that have been on here for over a year with no verifications are fakes...I believe this to be the case. What's your thoughts? "

How many times a day does this question get asked?

Really, if in doubt ignore them, plenty with dozens of verifications to choose from!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, just thinking is it fair to assume people that have been on here for over a year with no verifications are fakes...I believe this to be the case. What's your thoughts? "
no thoughts

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I understand what you are saying but surely at least one or two verifications to prove you are the real deal "

Verifications can give some indication of what someone is like but it's not the be-all and end-all. As someone has said, veris are no guarantee that someone is not going to mess you about.

Likewise, however, someone who has been on over a year, has no veris and not even a veri tick I tend to steer clear of, rightly or wrongly.

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By *ekyllandHyde OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I suppose the site is never going to crack down on the fakes anyway so perhaps you are right not worth worrying about about, but just makes me mad the timewasters out there. What they getting out of it???

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By *erbyGuy76Man
over a year ago

Derby

There's going to be a mixture :

1 - fakes

2 - those who cannot get a meet for love nor money (probably a bad turn of phrase on here)

3 - Those who like the idea of swinging but have never got the nerve to go through with it. Not fakes as such, just those who will never meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose the site is never going to crack down on the fakes anyway so perhaps you are right not worth worrying about about, but just makes me mad the timewasters out there. What they getting out of it???"
there is plenty of other threads been said about

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By *ekyllandHyde OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

We are all entitled to our say. That's why it's a forum!!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"There's going to be a mixture :

1 - fakes

2 - those who cannot get a meet for love nor money (probably a bad turn of phrase on here)

3 - Those who like the idea of swinging but have never got the nerve to go through with it. Not fakes as such, just those who will never meet."

4. those who just want to cam

5. those who just want to post on the forums.

People use the site in a variety of ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

over a year and without a veri does sound dodgy.

they tend to message u then vanish anyways those kina profiles

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By *ekyllandHyde OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Well if they cam surely someone would verify them too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if they cam surely someone would verify them too!"
not always have cam on chat never got a verified even if I ask for it

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By *ekyllandHyde OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Well if they cam surely someone would verify them too!not always have cam on chat never got a verified even if I ask for it "

You're obviously doing something wrong then haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if they cam surely someone would verify them too!not always have cam on chat never got a verified even if I ask for it

You're obviously doing something wrong then haha!"
hum think yer a bit rude

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By *ekyllandHyde OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I was having a laugh sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some might have had some but then the people who had left them a veri, left the site, taking the veri with them. Or they might simply choose not to display any. Not sure though if I'd contact anyone who had been here over a year with no veri but I might depending on who it was and how they interacted with me. "

If you have been verified by someone who then leaves the site, you do lose the verification but retain the green tick to say that you have been verified don't you?

Even if you chose not to display the actual verifications (I don't display mine) it still states on your profile that you are verified genuine.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Well, talk about co-incidence.....my fuckbuddy has left the site and 3 of my veris have gone with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, just thinking is it fair to assume people that have been on here for over a year with no verifications are fakes...I believe this to be the case. What's your thoughts? "

I wouldn't say they're fake really it could be any one of the above given reasons. Plus it could take a while specially for us single guys for obvious reasons! I've been here for just over 3 months now i think but no veris. It can be alarming sometimes but i'm not too worried about it tbh...specially on seeing some people, like a few above, don't base their decisions on verifications.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hi, just thinking is it fair to assume people that have been on here for over a year with no verifications are fakes...I believe this to be the case. What's your thoughts?

I wouldn't say they're fake really it could be any one of the above given reasons. Plus it could take a while specially for us single guys for obvious reasons! I've

been here for just over 3 months now i

think but no veris. It can be alarming

sometimes but i'm not too worried

about it tbh...specially on seeing some

people, like a few above, don't base

their decisions on verifications."

Maybe they base their decisions on the colour of the towel?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have been on here for 5 yrs and had my first meet after 2 months, it took me 9 months & several meets to get verified, although I didn't ask for one.

I have my green tick, but choose not to show them, quite a few have since left the site.

I didn't frighten them all off though, as there are still a few left

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Yes, you lose veris if they leave the site, and if you block them, or they block you. But I think the tick stays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, just thinking is it fair to assume people that have been on here for over a year with no verifications are fakes...I believe this to be the case. What's your thoughts?

I wouldn't say they're fake really it could be any one of the above given reasons. Plus it could take a while specially for us single guys for obvious reasons! I've

been here for just over 3 months now i

think but no veris. It can be alarming

sometimes but i'm not too worried

about it tbh...specially on seeing some

people, like a few above, don't base

their decisions on verifications.

Maybe they base their decisions on the colour of the towel? "

Actually i've been complimented on that, which was a pleasant surprise

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By *ekyllandHyde OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Thanks guys interesting replies xx

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I guess if I liked the look of the verified or not, I'd chance a message. If we got talking, I'd ask why they couldn't meet.

For single guys, its really hard, and it does depend what you are looking for from the site too.

Not everyone wants to notch their bedpost into wood shavings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a considerable amount of time out from the scene in meeting people. However, I enjoyed the reading the forums and chatting to people..Keeping my toes in if you understand me.. Once I was ready to start meeting again then the real fun started once more..

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By *ral.steveMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

Single men don't get meets on here so no veris but not fake

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