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"This happens to me a lot, gay/bi men continually messaging offering “BJ now” or “Cum use my mouth” and so on. Occasionally a single male page will do it! I see other straight men complaining of it too! My question is, how is that acceptable, if a straight guy harassed a gay guy to fuck his Mrs there would be huge outcry of harassment and accusations of picking on the lbgqt community" use your filters and block them easy as that | |||
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"This happens to me a lot, gay/bi men continually messaging offering “BJ now” or “Cum use my mouth” and so on. Occasionally a single male page will do it! I see other straight men complaining of it too! My question is, how is that acceptable, if a straight guy harassed a gay guy to fuck his Mrs there would be huge outcry of harassment and accusations of picking on the lbgqt community" Yet you don’t block them from messaging 🤷♀️ | |||
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"This happens to me a lot, gay/bi men continually messaging offering “BJ now” or “Cum use my mouth” and so on. Occasionally a single male page will do it! I see other straight men complaining of it too! My question is, how is that acceptable, if a straight guy harassed a gay guy to fuck his Mrs there would be huge outcry of harassment and accusations of picking on the lbgqt community" Ok there’s a blatant flaw there. Gay men generally don’t have a Mrs. Fab also seems to have lots of members who use straight on their profile but in reality are much more hete  exible or bi and not yet ready (or afraid of bi-phobia) and therefore amenable to MM play.
The old adage also applies, if you don’t ask you don’t get.
You have the power to take control of this. Block men from messaging you, job done, or simply ignore-delete-block anyone who does.
You mention harassment, that implies multiple messages from the same guy and if that’s the case block them. You don’t owe a reply or explanation. Just block and if it’s bad report the harassment to admin.
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"Ok I could block all men, but have invites to party’s and meets from men on previous profiles. So I’d be blocking them too. Yes they get blocked but had been just deleting. Regardless, it’s not acceptable behaviour and I personally think if the shoe was on the other foot it would be a whole different scenario. Like some messages are begging like come on, sexual orientation doesn’t make a difference to anyone behaving correctly and definitely doesn’t give a reason for someone to loose self respect for themselves by beggin a straight man to let him suck his coxk" We get a lot of straight guys messaging us, thinking they are “THE ONE” that’s going to change our mind and fuck wifey. Chill out dude, if your not going to use your message filters that’s on you, just block and delete | |||
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"Everyone, I know I could use message filters, but I’ve chatted with men about certain things, met some with there fwb I just think it’s a weird thing and a sign of something deeper when someone completely ignores someone’s sexual orientation because they feel like it. Straight men messaging lesbian woman would be viewed completely different " The amount of single straight lads in here that message me to meet their wives is insane!! | |||
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"Everyone, I know I could use message filters, but I’ve chatted with men about certain things, met some with there fwb I just think it’s a weird thing and a sign of something deeper when someone completely ignores someone’s sexual orientation because they feel like it. Straight men messaging lesbian woman would be viewed completely different " I didn’t say to use filters, I said if you don’t use them that’s on you. What about the straight men messaging us? Doesn’t bother me, I just delete and block. | |||
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"Fancy a bum?" Big gay following lol | |||
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"Exactly if u don’t ask u don’t get or block em " Exactly had a few people block me over the years so no harm, saves asking twice | |||
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"Take it as a compliment Block single guys from messaging you " I do  | |||
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"I get a lot of this "Tbf though you have contacted multiple times about fucking me .. Sasha… ? | |||
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"Everyone, I know I could use message filters, but I’ve chatted with men about certain things, met some with there fwb I just think it’s a weird thing and a sign of something deeper when someone completely ignores someone’s sexual orientation because they feel like it. Straight men messaging lesbian woman would be viewed completely different " It’s just fabswingers. It isn’t that serious chap. Just block users / ignore. Your a man profile you won’t be get getting that many messages each day that make it hard for you to quickly purge them. Website is full of horny cunts all wanting a punt so it’s expected mist won’t read / care about profile description | |||
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"I keep getting 'straight' guys wanting to fuck me senseless. But I'm chilled-out so who cares. "I guess sometimes beauty transcends gender…. And to be fair!!! 🔥 | |||
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"I always get "straight" guys message me for fun!" But that’s kind of my point the OP isn’t responsible for that and he’s saying he doesn’t want it. When I was younger it was harder to take no for an answer but now it’s about respecting that when someone makes it clear in their profile . In the same respect this is a swinging hook up site so unless you’ve made your boundaries clear then to a certain extent it’s going to happen. Some straight guys in that moment are up for it and then other days they aren’t. There was an older married guy who appeared on fabguys had a good few months got it out of his system and is now only on here to meet women. That’s his choice and good for him others it’s different | |||
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"This happens to me a lot, gay/bi men continually messaging offering “BJ now” or “Cum use my mouth” and so on. Occasionally a single male page will do it! I see other straight men complaining of it too! My question is, how is that acceptable, if a straight guy harassed a gay guy to fuck his Mrs there would be huge outcry of harassment and accusations of picking on the lbgqt community" Welcome to what women get, every single day, only we get it a lot more graphic, personal and directed. Just block and move on with your day. | |||
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"I always get "straight" guys message me for fun! But that’s kind of my point the OP isn’t responsible for that and he’s saying he doesn’t want it. When I was younger it was harder to take no for an answer but now it’s about respecting that when someone makes it clear in their profile . In the same respect this is a swinging hook up site so unless you’ve made your boundaries clear then to a certain extent it’s going to happen. Some straight guys in that moment are up for it and then other days they aren’t. There was an older married guy who appeared on fabguys had a good few months got it out of his system and is now only on here to meet women. That’s his choice and good for him others it’s different " Yeah true I just don't get why put straight on there profile, but that's just my opinion. | |||
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"Just block men from messaging you. " Agree with this completely why give them the opportunity to message you if you don’t want anything to do with them? | |||
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" Yeah true I just don't get why put straight on there profile, but that's just my opinion. " Sexuality isn’t that simple, some are just horny and open minded so keep their options open. It’s their choice. I think it’s called “fab straight” lol. Agreed that just respect people and accept we all have our own likes and dislikes I don’t think it should be confused with one group specifically doing it to another | |||
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"Everyone, I know I could use message filters, but I’ve chatted with men about certain things, met some with there fwb I just think it’s a weird thing and a sign of something deeper when someone completely ignores someone’s sexual orientation because they feel like it. Straight men messaging lesbian woman would be viewed completely different " ----------------- I don't think anyone's condoning people contacting others who don't match their preferences. Nobody's said it's ok. Why does how others might or might not be treated trouble you? | |||
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"This happens to me a lot, gay/bi men continually messaging offering “BJ now” or “Cum use my mouth” and so on. Occasionally a single male page will do it! I see other straight men complaining of it too! My question is, how is that acceptable, if a straight guy harassed a gay guy to fuck his Mrs there would be huge outcry of harassment and accusations of picking on the lbgqt community" Think it's par for the course on here, I get them from guys listed as straight too .🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️ | |||
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"90% of messages I get are from men with 'straight' on their profile, wanting gay sex." Same here | |||
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"Why can't people just use their filters " Because guys invite me to house party’s with couples and Iv met a few people that Iv remained friends with | |||
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"Why can't people just use their filters Because guys invite me to house party’s with couples and Iv met a few people that Iv remained friends with " a simple no of your not interested | |||
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"Why can't people just use their filters Because guys invite me to house party’s with couples and Iv met a few people that Iv remained friends with a simple no of your not interested " That’s what I do  | |||
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"Why can't people just use their filters Because guys invite me to house party’s with couples and Iv met a few people that Iv remained friends with a simple no of your not interested That’s what I do "and a polite piss off if they won't take no for an answer 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"Why can't people just use their filters Because guys invite me to house party’s with couples and Iv met a few people that Iv remained friends with " The ones you've already spoken to will still be able to message even after putting the filter on | |||
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"This happens to me a lot, gay/bi men continually messaging offering “BJ now” or “Cum use my mouth” and so on. Occasionally a single male page will do it! I see other straight men complaining of it too! My question is, how is that acceptable, if a straight guy harassed a gay guy to fuck his Mrs there would be huge outcry of harassment and accusations of picking on the lbgqt community" are you bragging or complaining | |||
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"This happens to me a lot, gay/bi men continually messaging offering “BJ now” or “Cum use my mouth” and so on. Occasionally a single male page will do it! I see other straight men complaining of it too! My question is, how is that acceptable, if a straight guy harassed a gay guy to fuck his Mrs there would be huge outcry of harassment and accusations of picking on the lbgqt community Ok there’s a blatant flaw there. Gay men generally don’t have a Mrs. Fab also seems to have lots of members who use straight on their profile but in reality are much more hete exible or bi and not yet ready (or afraid of bi-phobia) and therefore amenable to MM play.
The old adage also applies, if you don’t ask you don’t get.
You have the power to take control of this. Block men from messaging you, job done, or simply ignore-delete-block anyone who does.
You mention harassment, that implies multiple messages from the same guy and if that’s the case block them. You don’t owe a reply or explanation. Just block and if it’s bad report the harassment to admin.
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"I take it as a compliment If someone likes you that’s fine by me " I totally agree it's nice to know people find you easy on the eye. | |||
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"I imagine it must be a pain the ass, gay guys pestering you. Just state you're only into hetro sex at the top of your profile and not into gay activities whatsoever and you definitely don't want a penis coming anywhere near your mouth or ass. That should do the trick. " You would think that would work. But in reality it doesn’t. | |||
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"Why can't people just use their filters " Again from experience guys will simply edit their profile to straight. Make contact then edit it back to bi or whatever after they get a knock back. | |||
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"This happens to me a lot, gay/bi men continually messaging offering “BJ now” or “Cum use my mouth” and so on. Occasionally a single male page will do it! I see other straight men complaining of it too! My question is, how is that acceptable, if a straight guy harassed a gay guy to fuck his Mrs there would be huge outcry of harassment and accusations of picking on the lbgqt community" And this, is why message filters were invented! Or... The block button. | |||
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"Ok I could block all men, but have invites to party’s and meets from men on previous profiles. So I’d be blocking them too. Yes they get blocked but had been just deleting. Regardless, it’s not acceptable behaviour and I personally think if the shoe was on the other foot it would be a whole different scenario. Like some messages are begging like come on, sexual orientation doesn’t make a difference to anyone behaving correctly and definitely doesn’t give a reason for someone to loose self respect for themselves by beggin a straight man to let him suck his coxk" Can I ask …. Do you get abusive messages sent to from them?? Trust me I can promise you the messages you might receive outweigh the nasty vile shit most of us get sent and also I get constant messages from men (not that I ever complain) and I’ve the same guys constantly messaging! Don’t be thinking your in any way special everyone gets some form of it and as others have said …. BLOCK!!! | |||
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"Ok I could block all men, but have invites to party’s and meets from men on previous profiles. So I’d be blocking them too. Yes they get blocked but had been just deleting. Regardless, it’s not acceptable behaviour and I personally think if the shoe was on the other foot it would be a whole different scenario. Like some messages are begging like come on, sexual orientation doesn’t make a difference to anyone behaving correctly and definitely doesn’t give a reason for someone to loose self respect for themselves by beggin a straight man to let him suck his coxk Can I ask …. Do you get abusive messages sent to from them?? Trust me I can promise you the messages you might receive outweigh the nasty vile shit most of us get sent and also I get constant messages from men (not that I ever complain) and I’ve the same guys constantly messaging! Don’t be thinking your in any way special everyone gets some form of it and as others have said …. BLOCK!!!" Abusive and inappropriate messages are inexcusable. Not only do we immediately block we happily share the writer’s identity with our fab friends to warn them off. | |||
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"What do people think is reasonable? If a straight guy checks out my profile I’ll usually drop them a line asking if they are interested then leave it at that. A surprising number are wanting it" I agree with this. The amount of Fab Str8 guys that are actually bi curious or bi was an eye opener to me years ago. Now, I am a equal opertunity player.  | |||
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"What do people think is reasonable? If a straight guy checks out my profile I’ll usually drop them a line asking if they are interested then leave it at that. A surprising number are wanting it" No, I think that's annoying, to be honest. People look at lots of profiles for different reasons - could be something you said on a forum etc. That said, on the OP - it's really easy to block men messaging so you need never be bothered or worse, harassed. But I've had about 4 messages today from "straight" guys so I can see why some guys take random pints. | |||
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"This happens to me a lot, gay/bi men continually messaging offering “BJ now” or “Cum use my mouth” and so on. Occasionally a single male page will do it! I see other straight men complaining of it too! My question is, how is that acceptable, if a straight guy harassed a gay guy to fuck his Mrs there would be huge outcry of harassment and accusations of picking on the lbgqt community" Lol US Bi guys get harassed by 'straight guys' on here every day too lol.  I can't post anything on here without at least one 'straight' guy begging to suck my cock or for me to fuck them.
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"But yet some single guys think it's OK to pester women who have made it clear they aren't looking for men. " you can always hide your profile oh I see you have. | |||
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"This happens to me a lot, gay/bi men continually messaging offering “BJ now” or “Cum use my mouth” and so on. Occasionally a single male page will do it! I see other straight men complaining of it too! My question is, how is that acceptable, if a straight guy harassed a gay guy to fuck his Mrs there would be huge outcry of harassment and accusations of picking on the lbgqt community" Just to point out that this is not welcomed by some bi and gay guys too (well me anyway) | |||
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