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By *efinitely Maybe 94 OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

On the coast

Why do particularly single males but not solely as some alleged couples think.

Hi

Hey there

Good Afternoon

or 1 limited line comment "your Mrs is fit" is going to inspire an actual response ?

Curious why such lack of any effort would expect any response. Similarly to the friends request & zero anything.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
6 weeks ago

Leeds

I'll respond to one line if I like the profile, I don't expect an essay.

Mrs

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
6 weeks ago

Inverness

Yeh it feels a bit pointless replying to them when all they say is “Hey” 🤨

Maybe it’s because they are messaging multiple accounts or maybe they have no patter 😬

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By *imandherNSFWCouple
6 weeks ago

Barnstaple


"I'll respond to one line if I like the profile, I don't expect an essay.

Mrs "

We agree but the conversation needs to pick up and become more interesting. X

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Sometimes laziness and apathy prevails on here, with the hope that any lack of effort will lead to gold-plated success.

We live in sad times. 🌿

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By *lbtpjCouple
6 weeks ago

stoke on trent

I prefer the short and sweet sometimes. I don’t read if I get a big paragraph as a first message.

Mrs

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds


"I'll respond to one line if I like the profile, I don't expect an essay.

Mrs

We agree but the conversation needs to pick up and become more interesting. X"

Oh definitely, one word back and forth is irritating, but I would reply to one line if I liked the look of them.

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
6 weeks ago

Southend

While I usually try to avoid short, one sentence stories, I can see the counterpoint to this.

It's frustrating when you type out a long message and refer to parts of the profile etc and get no reply. Not even a "thank you but not interested".

At a certain point it's easy to see why some people can't be arsed any more.

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By *linyMan
6 weeks ago

Manchester/London

I’ve had this exact thing twice in the last 2 weeks. Single word messages “Hey x” and “Hi” so I replied with the same amount of effort “Meh x”

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By *andPextraCouple
6 weeks ago

North West

We often have a status that points out of we can read the message in its entirely with out opening it we bin it.

We would like some effort, if we message people, we do.

Having said that

8 out of 10 men messages do exactly what we don't want.

Gives an indication they have done nothing more than looked at a photo and not read the profile.

It's a good way for us to people out.

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By *uncouple153Couple
6 weeks ago

Abergavenny

Most frustrating thing is spending time writing a long message and get a one word 'thanks' reply.

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By *ockinthevanMan
6 weeks ago

wigan

Dunno.

Replies to my inbox

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By *ubyRonCouple
6 weeks ago

Lancashire

You know what, I get it. We are bad at replying to single males, I'd be sending one liners too after the amount of messages they send with no reply. It must be crazy

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By *ee69Man
6 weeks ago

glasgow


"Most frustrating thing is spending time writing a long message and get a one word 'thanks' reply."

It is a try to think out my messages band convo but everyone different

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By *ornycougaWoman
6 weeks ago

NOT IN THE UK Wherever I lay my hat


"While I usually try to avoid short, one sentence stories, I can see the counterpoint to this.

It's frustrating when you type out a long message and refer to parts of the profile etc and get no reply. Not even a "thank you but not interested".

At a certain point it's easy to see why some people can't be arsed any more."

The problem with saying "thanks but no thanks" is that most guys respond wanting to know why you turned them down - or worse - send abuse along the lines that they were only bin raking when they sent those 14 earlier messages

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By *eyeYCouple
6 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

We respond with the same level of effort.. 🤷

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

It is so they can send alot of messages in a short amount of time.

Cast a big enough net and eventually you get a fish.

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By *efinitely Maybe 94 OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

On the coast


"We respond with the same level of effort.. 🤷"

Zero effort zero rewards, especially when obviously not read profiles in 1st place.

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By *zami89Man
6 weeks ago

Stockton-on-Tees


"You know what, I get it. We are bad at replying to single males, I'd be sending one liners too after the amount of messages they send with no reply. It must be crazy "

amen that's a sensible answer

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