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By *aterlite21 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Loughton

OK so I've been on here few quite awile now sent loads of messages I'm friends with a few ladies bit had not o e offer a message to me what the bloody hell am I doing wrong I'm single open minded adventurous polite but getting no action is there really more men than women on here ? RANT OVER LOL, come on

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

Your status would be enough to put me off.

Other than that your a bloke in a sea of 163930 blokes what makes you stand out? What effort other than mass messaging have you made to meet people? Socials? Clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Yeah was gonna say just go to a club if the being polite and kind stuff isn’t working on here x

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By *aterlite21 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Loughton

Wats wrong with my status lol go on then tell me im a big boy i can take criticism and don't hold back will ya lol

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By *rchitectMan
6 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Wats wrong with my status lol go on then tell me im a big boy i can take criticism and don't hold back will ya lol"
you are one of thousands of guys looking for a woman on here. You probably need to manage your expectations of this site.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds


"Wats wrong with my status lol go on then tell me im a big boy i can take criticism and don't hold back will ya lol"

"You" are horny & "need" a pussy.

You - selfish, need a pussy to fill your needs - what's in for said pussy owner??

It's a typical whiny bloke status who thinks he's owed some pussy because he's horny - just no 🤮

Now what is appealing about that for a women, from her point of view, come on, think about your target audience before posting, do you think a woman is going to read that and think wow this guy is amazing I'll meet him!

This site is full of self entitled men who think because "they" are horny someone else should sort it out, you have a hand due use it.

Your profile is all about you, your needs, not what you can offer, anything about why a woman should pick you.

You asked for not holding back.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

Hand **dude use it.....

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By *andPextraCouple
6 weeks ago

North West


"Wats wrong with my status lol go on then tell me im a big boy i can take criticism and don't hold back will ya lol

"You" are horny & "need" a pussy.

You - selfish, need a pussy to fill your needs - what's in for said pussy owner??

It's a typical whiny bloke status who thinks he's owed some pussy because he's horny - just no 🤮

Now what is appealing about that for a women, from her point of view, come on, think about your target audience before posting, do you think a woman is going to read that and think wow this guy is amazing I'll meet him!

This site is full of self entitled men who think because "they" are horny someone else should sort it out, you have a hand due use it.

Your profile is all about you, your needs, not what you can offer, anything about why a woman should pick you.

You asked for not holding back."

I was going to write something but this sums it up better than I could

As others have said the status would be enough for me to discount you.

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By *achelnMarkCouple
6 weeks ago

Mid Wiltshire


"Wats wrong with my status lol go on then tell me im a big boy i can take criticism and don't hold back will ya lol

"You" are horny & "need" a pussy.

You - selfish, need a pussy to fill your needs - what's in for said pussy owner??

It's a typical whiny bloke status who thinks he's owed some pussy because he's horny - just no 🤮

Now what is appealing about that for a women, from her point of view, come on, think about your target audience before posting, do you think a woman is going to read that and think wow this guy is amazing I'll meet him!

This site is full of self entitled men who think because "they" are horny someone else should sort it out, you have a hand due use it.

Your profile is all about you, your needs, not what you can offer, anything about why a woman should pick you.

You asked for not holding back."

Exactly this. Saved me the typing

Status, profile, and green arrow would add to our block list ..click..

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By *aterlite21 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Loughton

OK yer I get that spose it is a little bit crude , cheers

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

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By *ornycougaWoman
6 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat


"Wats wrong with my status lol go on then tell me im a big boy i can take criticism and don't hold back will ya lol

"You" are horny & "need" a pussy.

You - selfish, need a pussy to fill your needs - what's in for said pussy owner??

It's a typical whiny bloke status who thinks he's owed some pussy because he's horny - just no 🤮

Now what is appealing about that for a women, from her point of view, come on, think about your target audience before posting, do you think a woman is going to read that and think wow this guy is amazing I'll meet him!

This site is full of self entitled men who think because "they" are horny someone else should sort it out, you have a hand due use it.

Your profile is all about you, your needs, not what you can offer, anything about why a woman should pick you.

You asked for not holding back."

This. Those "my balls need emptying, who's around" type of status updates are absolutely revolting. You may find the odd woman who doesn't mind being used as a human fleshlight but most of us have standards and self respect.

And I like a fella to listen and learn. You have asked this same question on here repeatedly. I'm sure you have received great advice but you choose not to take it: it is much easier to instead moan about the frigid bints that won't put out.

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By *aterlite21 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Loughton

Well ya didn't hold back lol just for the record I'm not selfish self-centered just a normal red bloody guy who's starting a new a chapter in life ...

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By *aterlite21 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Loughton

Well ya didn't hold back lol just for the record I'm not selfish self-centered just a normal red bloody guy who's starting a new a chapter in life ...

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds


"Well ya didn't hold back lol just for the record I'm not selfish self-centered just a normal red bloody guy who's starting a new a chapter in life ... "

A normal red blooded guy doesn't go about asking for a vagina to cure his hornyness like she's some commodity available for your service.

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By *aterlite21 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Loughton

Wow what a feed back an I asked for that one didn't I lol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
6 weeks ago

Leeds


"Wow what a feed back an I asked for that one didn't I lol "

You did ask not to hold back, I CBA to switch back to my singles profile.

Mrs

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Covent Garden


"Wats wrong with my status lol go on then tell me im a big boy i can take criticism and don't hold back will ya lol"

Dear OP — this ^ could be a plausible indication of what's wrong. The good people of Fab will always understand if people have dyslexia but they will dislike all forms of •lazy teenage text speak•.

It's "What's", not "Wats". "LOL" isn't going to reflect well with some of the people on here.

If your messages resemble the above then don't be too surprised if you're not getting any replies. Your profile text also needs improvement; I couldn't find a single 'full stop' or any form of parenthesis. Apologies for being pedantic but if you don't fix the grassroots of your profile then other men will already have a headstart over you.

And yes, you are one of thousands and thousands of men on here. How does your profile stand out amongst the masses? What is unique about you and your profile?

Good luck OP. 🌈

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
6 weeks ago

Leeds


"Wats wrong with my status lol go on then tell me im a big boy i can take criticism and don't hold back will ya lol

"You" are horny & "need" a pussy.

You - selfish, need a pussy to fill your needs - what's in for said pussy owner??

It's a typical whiny bloke status who thinks he's owed some pussy because he's horny - just no 🤮

Now what is appealing about that for a women, from her point of view, come on, think about your target audience before posting, do you think a woman is going to read that and think wow this guy is amazing I'll meet him!

This site is full of self entitled men who think because "they" are horny someone else should sort it out, you have a hand due use it.

Your profile is all about you, your needs, not what you can offer, anything about why a woman should pick you.

You asked for not holding back.

This. Those "my balls need emptying, who's around" type of status updates are absolutely revolting. You may find the odd woman who doesn't mind being used as a human fleshlight but most of us have standards and self respect.

And I like a fella to listen and learn. You have asked this same question on here repeatedly. I'm sure you have received great advice but you choose not to take it: it is much easier to instead moan about the frigid bints that won't put out. "

I'm not even sure the odd woman wants to be some random dudes spunk bucket, but then again we are here.

Mrs

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By *orkshire UnicornWoman
6 weeks ago

Yorkshire

To echo my good friend MrsKOTCT, we like to feel like people, not human flesh lights. There’s being a “red blooded male” and then there’s being a entitled see you next Tuesday 😉

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By *aterlite21 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Loughton

OK I get the message

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