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Is anyone brave enough to go straight from Locktober into No-Nut November? And of course then there's always Denial December to look forward to seeing well 
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"She has been locked up since before October, but will be doing all 3 as we are committed to at least a years denial for her which won't end until next September. She has already done 5 months in the past so lets see how far this makes it! No sexy stories yet but we are off to a kink event this weekend which could end up with some very hot results! But one story we do have, be very careful walking past door handles in a chastity belt unless you want the most epic of wedgies! "That's amazing! I'll be honest I know absolutely nothing about female chastity at all. Is it something she can wear all day? The belts seem a lot more restrictive in general than cages do for us guys. And I'd imagine peeing is even more difficult / messy than for blokes as well? A year is such a commitment to denial - poor girl must be going out of her mind? I'd imagine a stiff breeze or a big sneeze could push her over the edge at this point | |||
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"That's amazing! I'll be honest I know absolutely nothing about female chastity at all. Is it something she can wear all day? The belts seem a lot more restrictive in general than cages do for us guys. And I'd imagine peeing is even more difficult / messy than for blokes as well? A year is such a commitment to denial - poor girl must be going out of her mind? I'd imagine a stiff breeze or a big sneeze could push her over the edge at this point "It is yeah, she can wear it for about 3 days before it becomes an issue and starts to dig a little. I normally let her have the morning and a couple of hours in the evening out of it for hygiene and comfort though, and of course an edge or two Peeing can be messy yeah and does require a certain movement she has had to master but in the main it's not bad now, at the start, yeah right fountain everywhere haha. It also has the added benefit that she can't wear jeans or leggings as it would show it off so get to see her in more skirts that can get quite short!
Oh she is yeah! Mind has turned to mush, if she's been watching any porn, browsing on here, or just some filthy thoughts come up it can make her lose focus for the rest of the day haha. It is a long time but she knows she will be 'better' for it, she eve | |||
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"My man thought he was doing Loctober but I have soldered his lock and we now have a man/sub in permanent chastity " Honestly that just seems dangerous to me, but you guys do you! | |||
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"That's amazing! I'll be honest I know absolutely nothing about female chastity at all. Is it something she can wear all day? The belts seem a lot more restrictive in general than cages do for us guys. And I'd imagine peeing is even more difficult / messy than for blokes as well? A year is such a commitment to denial - poor girl must be going out of her mind? I'd imagine a stiff breeze or a big sneeze could push her over the edge at this point
It is yeah, she can wear it for about 3 days before it becomes an issue and starts to dig a little. I normally let her have the morning and a couple of hours in the evening out of it for hygiene and comfort though, and of course an edge or two Peeing can be messy yeah and does require a certain movement she has had to master but in the main it's not bad now, at the start, yeah right fountain everywhere haha. It also has the added benefit that she can't wear jeans or leggings as it would show it off so get to see her in more skirts that can get quite short!
Oh she is yeah! Mind has turned to mush, if she's been watching any porn, browsing on here, or just some filthy thoughts come up it can make her lose focus for the rest of the day haha. It is a long time but she knows she will be 'better' for it, she eve"3 days is super impressive to be honest! The best I can manage in a cage is 2 or 3 days and even then it's really hard. Although to be fair I don't imagine your partner has nighttime boners to worry about
I've denied C for a month in the past, and honestly that turned her into a horny mess just at that. Plus when I finally did let her cum it involved quite a few forced orgasms 
I guess she's getting her own back on me now though!
I've got a bit (quite a bit of a bit actually) of a thing for women peeing so I think that'd drive me nuts in all the best ways possible 
You'll have to have a defib at the ready for when you do let the poor lady cum - she might just scream the house down | |||
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"3 days is super impressive to be honest! The best I can manage in a cage is 2 or 3 days and even then it's really hard. Although to be fair I don't imagine your partner has nighttime boners to worry about
I've denied C for a month in the past, and honestly that turned her into a horny mess just at that. Plus when I finally did let her cum it involved quite a few forced orgasms
I guess she's getting her own back on me now though!
I've got a bit (quite a bit of a bit actually) of a thing for women peeing so I think that'd drive me nuts in all the best ways possible
You'll have to have a defib at the ready for when you do let the poor lady cum - she might just scream the house down "Funnily enough when I finally let her cum she did in fact scream the house down via numerous forced orgasms from begging every day to be allowed to cum, to funnily enough not wanting to cum again because and this is a quote "I'm a fucking cunt" | |||
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"3 days is super impressive to be honest! The best I can manage in a cage is 2 or 3 days and even then it's really hard. Although to be fair I don't imagine your partner has nighttime boners to worry about
I've denied C for a month in the past, and honestly that turned her into a horny mess just at that. Plus when I finally did let her cum it involved quite a few forced orgasms
I guess she's getting her own back on me now though!
I've got a bit (quite a bit of a bit actually) of a thing for women peeing so I think that'd drive me nuts in all the best ways possible
You'll have to have a defib at the ready for when you do let the poor lady cum - she might just scream the house down
Funnily enough when I finally let her cum she did in fact scream the house down via numerous forced orgasms from begging every day to be allowed to cum, to funnily enough not wanting to cum again because and this is a quote "I'm a fucking cunt" "Haha yes that sounds familiar! I think our record is 14 forced orgasms. C loses the ability to speak and often hyperventilates so needs a fair bit of aftercare to bring her down (and remind her to breathe)
When we first met C hadn't done any kink at all, and when I told her that she'd beg me to let her cum she didn't believe me. After that she *really* didn't believe me when I said I'd have her begging me to stop
The mindfuckery of it is just exquisite, and it's (mostly) nice being on the receiving end now so that she can get her own back a little (although I ain't gonna manage 14 orgasms back to back hah!) | |||
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"My man thought he was doing Loctober but I have soldered his lock and we now have a man/sub in permanent chastity Honestly that just seems dangerous to me, but you guys do you!" it took us a long while to get a perfect cage fit etc specification was key he wore it unknowingly for 3 months to test out doing cleaning hair control etc and it was perfect I have also had advice from others our biggest problem will be flying lol | |||
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"A couple of my friends told me about this, one of them is in and I think the other wants to be. I understand why people do it, however, it's not something I would like to partake or indeed hold a key for. " That's more than fair enough! It absolutely isn't for everyone and to be honest when you first suggest it to someone who hasn't come across it before, it does sound weird! Why would anyone want to have their cock locked up and not be able to have sex!? It definitely can take some explaining, but for me it's the mindfuck + denial that makes the orgasm at the end so, so, so much more intense than normal. Plus I'm just a kinky sod in general | |||
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"My man thought he was doing Loctober but I have soldered his lock and we now have a man/sub in permanent chastity Honestly that just seems dangerous to me, but you guys do you! it took us a long while to get a perfect cage fit etc specification was key he wore it unknowingly for 3 months to test out doing cleaning hair control etc and it was perfect I have also had advice from others our biggest problem will be flying lol " I guess it's just because it kinda goes against SSC and even RACK? It's not super safe because when he does try to get hard, it can really pull on the balls and cut off circulation turning them a very scary shade of purple and eventually will cause serious lasting damage. It's also very difficult (if not practically impossible depending on the cage) to revoke consent at a later date. Appreciate there probably are ways to get it off if it came to that, but they're not quick in an emergency and not risk-free when removing (unsure if you could safely remelt the solder). But as I say, if it works for you guys that's great! | |||
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"My man thought he was doing Loctober but I have soldered his lock and we now have a man/sub in permanent chastity Honestly that just seems dangerous to me, but you guys do you! it took us a long while to get a perfect cage fit etc specification was key he wore it unknowingly for 3 months to test out doing cleaning hair control etc and it was perfect I have also had advice from others our biggest problem will be flying lol I guess it's just because it kinda goes against SSC and even RACK? It's not super safe because when he does try to get hard, it can really pull on the balls and cut off circulation turning them a very scary shade of purple and eventually will cause serious lasting damage. It's also very difficult (if not practically impossible depending on the cage) to revoke consent at a later date. Appreciate there probably are ways to get it off if it came to that, but they're not quick in an emergency and not risk-free when removing (unsure if you could safely remelt the solder). But as I say, if it works for you guys that's great! " There is an emergency and very quick exit for him should it be required | |||
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"My man thought he was doing Loctober but I have soldered his lock and we now have a man/sub in permanent chastity Honestly that just seems dangerous to me, but you guys do you! it took us a long while to get a perfect cage fit etc specification was key he wore it unknowingly for 3 months to test out doing cleaning hair control etc and it was perfect I have also had advice from others our biggest problem will be flying lol I guess it's just because it kinda goes against SSC and even RACK? It's not super safe because when he does try to get hard, it can really pull on the balls and cut off circulation turning them a very scary shade of purple and eventually will cause serious lasting damage. It's also very difficult (if not practically impossible depending on the cage) to revoke consent at a later date. Appreciate there probably are ways to get it off if it came to that, but they're not quick in an emergency and not risk-free when removing (unsure if you could safely remelt the solder). But as I say, if it works for you guys that's great! There is an emergency and very quick exit for him should it be required " Ah that's good! | |||
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"Mrs here…. I’m doing locktober here but not in chastity. Just edging and denial and sheer discipline. Mr is free to cum and go as he pleases though! (Pun intended!) Liking the idea of no-nut November and denial December though. Maybe il have my next orgasm in 2025 "You could climax to the NYE countdown - that'd be a way to see in the new year
Just don't overshoot the countdown pr you might have to wait until 2026  | |||
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"Mrs here…. I’m doing locktober here but not in chastity. Just edging and denial and sheer discipline. Mr is free to cum and go as he pleases though! (Pun intended!) Liking the idea of no-nut November and denial December though. Maybe il have my next orgasm in 2025
You could climax to the NYE countdown - that'd be a way to see in the new year
Just don't overshoot the countdown pr you might have to wait until 2026 "Oh wow that’s a challenge and a half isn’t it! I’ll let you know how that one goes. An extra 12 months on top would be exceptionally painful I must say | |||
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"Mrs here…. I’m doing locktober here but not in chastity. Just edging and denial and sheer discipline. Mr is free to cum and go as he pleases though! (Pun intended!) Liking the idea of no-nut November and denial December though. Maybe il have my next orgasm in 2025
You could climax to the NYE countdown - that'd be a way to see in the new year
Just don't overshoot the countdown pr you might have to wait until 2026
Oh wow that’s a challenge and a half isn’t it! I’ll let you know how that one goes. An extra 12 months on top would be exceptionally painful I must say "Honestly I'd be humping the furniture after 3 months. Goodness knows what weird household objects I'd be grinding up against after 6
I'm quite happy sticking to just the one month | |||
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"Mrs here…. I’m doing locktober here but not in chastity. Just edging and denial and sheer discipline. Mr is free to cum and go as he pleases though! (Pun intended!) Liking the idea of no-nut November and denial December though. Maybe il have my next orgasm in 2025
You could climax to the NYE countdown - that'd be a way to see in the new year
Just don't overshoot the countdown pr you might have to wait until 2026
Oh wow that’s a challenge and a half isn’t it! I’ll let you know how that one goes. An extra 12 months on top would be exceptionally painful I must say
Honestly I'd be humping the furniture after 3 months. Goodness knows what weird household objects I'd be grinding up against after 6
I'm quite happy sticking to just the one month "I agree there hahaha Maybe il consider three if one goes well!!!  | |||
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"Mrs here…. I’m doing locktober here but not in chastity. Just edging and denial and sheer discipline. Mr is free to cum and go as he pleases though! (Pun intended!) Liking the idea of no-nut November and denial December though. Maybe il have my next orgasm in 2025
You could climax to the NYE countdown - that'd be a way to see in the new year
Just don't overshoot the countdown pr you might have to wait until 2026
Oh wow that’s a challenge and a half isn’t it! I’ll let you know how that one goes. An extra 12 months on top would be exceptionally painful I must say
Honestly I'd be humping the furniture after 3 months. Goodness knows what weird household objects I'd be grinding up against after 6
I'm quite happy sticking to just the one month
I agree there hahaha
Maybe il consider three if one goes well!!! "Hah, and what's the criteria for it having gone well? | |||
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"I find the concept of extended denial really hot in theory, but for me the less sex i have, the less i want it. After a few months, I'd probably not care. How do you counteract that? I suppose if you live with a partner there can be teasing and edging to keep the interest going, but not everyone does (or wants to) live with a partner 🤔" Yes as a person participating alone i could see how the urge would wane after so long. For us a couple though tease and denial are the enticement, as you mentioned Also as an enm couple and only me locked (Mrs), thats added another hot component to it in itself | |||
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" Yes as a person participating alone i could see how the urge would wane after so long. For us a couple though tease and denial are the enticement, as you mentioned Also as an enm couple and only me locked (Mrs), thats added another hot component to it in itself "I didn't mean doing it alone, just to clarify. It is the giving up control to another that piques my interest, doing it solo wouldn't really press any buttons for me. I think my partner would probably enjoy it too. But I meant that I think separate living spaces makes it difficult to put in to practice. | |||
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" Yes as a person participating alone i could see how the urge would wane after so long. For us a couple though tease and denial are the enticement, as you mentioned Also as an enm couple and only me locked (Mrs), thats added another hot component to it in itself
I didn't mean doing it alone, just to clarify. It is the giving up control to another that piques my interest, doing it solo wouldn't really press any buttons for me. I think my partner would probably enjoy it too. But I meant that I think separate living spaces makes it difficult to put in to practice. "Ah i see! I think there'd be plenty of innovative ways to accomplish it accross separate living spaces. Would just require high levels of discipline | |||
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