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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like to read veris and have noticed many have people saying it was a great time and they cannot wait to see them again; then nothing after a year or more. This appears quite common.

Is it that after the first veri they do not write again or is it they do not meet? If they do not meet, is it bed knotching or were they not genuine in the veri?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I've got 2 veri's from one guy but probably wouldn't put any more up from the same person. Although saying that if it had been a while I would probably replace an old one with a new one.

I've seen lots of people post saying they don't display numerous veri's from the same person though.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only verify once after an initial meet. When you see the same person verifying a meet over and over I think it starts to look a bit like 'marking your territory'

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

We don't do loads of repeat veris, looks too much like staking a claim for my taste. We always write a veri for the 1st meeting & sometimes for the 2nd but never more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People tend to be pretty busy these days, so a lot of the time it can be pretty tricky for both parties to get a free slot in which to meet up - so if you're meeting just socially at first, even if you like one another, it can still be a while before you're both free to meet again, couple this with the offers they'll be getting from elsewhere (as obviously others will want to meet them too), then frequently that second meet fails to materialise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever do a 1st veri for the guys I meet, don't feel a need to do one every time I meet someone if its a regular/repeat meeting. I also tend to only display one veri per person I've met, unless it's very glowing or funny.

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By *exxxesCouple
over a year ago

Newbury / London

yes, usually just show the one verification on first meeting. if you verified every time you bumped into someone you knew at a club or something it could get a bit silly, just our opinion though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most veri's we will do for a person is two any more than that it feels like stalking or staking a claim, although its what's not said in a veri sometimes that can say more than what is said ( and something like cant wait to meet again is just one of those niceties that's said )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks a lot folks. The one veri per person seems to be the norm and explains why, when they say meet again, you see no more veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to read veris and have noticed many have people saying it was a great time and they cannot wait to see them again; then nothing after a year or more. This appears quite common.

Is it that after the first veri they do not write again or is it they do not meet? If they do not meet, is it bed knotching or were they not genuine in the veri?"

On our previous couples profile, Ruby and I used to do it slightly differently, in that we only displayed the most recent veri from someone. That way, those we didn't meet a second time only showed as the 'can't wait to meet again' type, and people we met more often only showed the most recent veri they left for us. There may have been others from them but we felt that would start to look a bit boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to read veris and have noticed many have people saying it was a great time and they cannot wait to see them again; then nothing after a year or more. This appears quite common.

Is it that after the first veri they do not write again or is it they do not meet? If they do not meet, is it bed knotching or were they not genuine in the veri?

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Most likley is the fact they dont see the need to verify again after all its the meet not the verification that most are after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet the same people over and over but we don't post new/fresh veri's every time we meet - seems pointless exercise

But to add a contradiction to my statement above immediately - there are some i have only met once or twice - but we still keep in touch

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