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By *orthernMarvel OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Haydock

Judgement free area, so please be kind.

If this isnt your thing then scroll on by.

A question for the women. What is it about married men that you enjoy? I dont mean married and consenting, I mean playing away.

Those who do enjoy it, feel free to also reach out. 😅

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By *orthernMarvel OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Haydock

I doubt there isnt a single lady on here who hasnt shown an interest in a married guy...

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By *ayor 42nd StreetMan
11 weeks ago

Branston

My guess would be, I can have fun here but I don't have to drag him home afterward. have to add, it's kind of a redundant question on this site, isn't that what we are all here for in the first place, having fun with people we aren't supposed to?

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By *reen as JadeCouple
11 weeks ago

Cheshire

They are normally discreet and in need of fun xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Not found one yet to be honest doubt any will openly admit it on an open forum with the hollier than thou police watching and waiting to pounce and give judgement on us sinners!

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Their lack of morals gets me hot and bothered.

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By *etitehotwife4uCouple
11 weeks ago

wirral

The taboo side, it’s their business not ours, however, married men are the ones who tend to be the biggest let downs. Rarely do they admit to us they are married but mrs usually susses it quickly.

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
11 weeks ago

Norwich


"The taboo side, it’s their business not ours, however, married men are the ones who tend to be the biggest let downs. Rarely do they admit to us they are married but mrs usually susses it quickly. "

But does it stop you meeting them?

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By *esi70Man
11 weeks ago

Blackburn

I've never yet met anyone from this site and being married might be It. Every woman, from what I've seen, wants openness with a partner (for my partner to know) and that's not always possible because of many reasons. They don't seem to understand.

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By *endalshaggersCouple
11 weeks ago

Kendal


"Judgement free area, so please be kind.

If this isnt your thing then scroll on by.

A question for the women. What is it about married men that you enjoy? I dont mean married and consenting, I mean playing away.

Those who do enjoy it, feel free to also reach out. 😅"

The issue with this site, is a man cheating and playing away is abhorrent and frowned upon, but there's plenty of women doing the same yet they don't seem to be subject to the same judgment.

I would never cheat, neither would he, but we get messages from couples where one half (usually the man) wants to me me alone for sex and "keep it a secret".

We would never meet someone who we knew was married but wanted to play away, male or female. Consenting partners is different.

C xoxo

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By *hilcarol89Couple
11 weeks ago

Warrington


"They are normally discreet and in need of fun xxxx"

This

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

11 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I've never yet met anyone from this site and being married might be It. Every woman, from what I've seen, wants openness with a partner (for my partner to know) and that's not always possible because of many reasons. They don't seem to understand."

What you do is your business and nobody least of all strangers, can know your motives and reasons. However the same applies to you, you don't know their motives and reasons for not wanting to meet you. You don't seem to understand them either.

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By *esi70Man
11 weeks ago

Blackburn


"I've never yet met anyone from this site and being married might be It. Every woman, from what I've seen, wants openness with a partner (for my partner to know) and that's not always possible because of many reasons. They don't seem to understand.

What you do is your business and nobody least of all strangers, can know your motives and reasons. However the same applies to you, you don't know their motives and reasons for not wanting to meet you. You don't seem to understand them either. "

I want to meet a woman or couple who don't mind a married man and will understand that not all (female) partners want to 'play' and that some men have a need to. I for example, don't have any sort of sexual relationship with my wife for a few years and regularly have a wank, that's all I can do until i meet someone who will understand.

I'd like a friend first and anything more second, it's the company I need.

The above isn't meant to be a cry for help.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"...isn't that what we are all here for in the first place, having fun with people we aren't supposed to?"

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No.

I'm here to have sex with people that excite me. I'm not looking to do things I'm not supposed to.

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By *onnie 90Woman
11 weeks ago

Leeds


"I doubt there isnt a single lady on here who hasnt shown an interest in a married guy..."

Think again. I'm not sure where you get that idea from but it's incorrect.

I'd never meet a married guy. I'd never want to be part of a horrible deception. The ones that say "well, at least I'm being honest about being married". My thought is not to your wife you're not.

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By *aydar99Man
11 weeks ago

Rochester

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By *as0046Man
11 weeks ago

stourbridge


"They are normally discreet and in need of fun xxxx

This"

Im single and discreet. Hot wife fun is the best but it rare that you get anything. I think it’s just this site at the moment. Too many keyboard worries and people wanking.

We do need to tell people sex is way better then wanking lol

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By *moothshaftMan
11 weeks ago

Coventry


"I've never yet met anyone from this site and being married might be It. Every woman, from what I've seen, wants openness with a partner (for my partner to know) and that's not always possible because of many reasons. They don't seem to understand.

What you do is your business and nobody least of all strangers, can know your motives and reasons. However the same applies to you, you don't know their motives and reasons for not wanting to meet you. You don't seem to understand them either.

I want to meet a woman or couple who don't mind a married man and will understand that not all (female) partners want to 'play' and that some men have a need to. I for example, don't have any sort of sexual relationship with my wife for a few years and regularly have a wank, that's all I can do until i meet someone who will understand.

I'd like a friend first and anything more second, it's the company I need.

The above isn't meant to be a cry for help."

Soooo well put.

This is EXACTLY the same as my predicament.

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By *orthernMarvel OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Haydock

The ladies I have spoken with in the past say they enjoy a married man because they like to know they have that ability to make him stray.

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By *arysueCouple
11 weeks ago

West Wales

Its up to him if he plays away , obviously not getting what he is looking for at home

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By *herrybakewellCouple
11 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We don't meet married people where their partners don't know. I don't need someone else drama landing on our door step.

On my solo account I would always been more attracted to married or men in a relationship where their partners know. They just feel more respectful than any time I've tried meeting a single man.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I don’t meet married people think it’s wrong…

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
11 weeks ago

chichester

Married men are supposedly less likely to stalk / harass

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By *as0046Man
11 weeks ago

stourbridge


"Married men are supposedly less likely to stalk / harass "

🤣🤣 I’ve got half a dozen stalking me

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
11 weeks ago

chichester


"Married men are supposedly less likely to stalk / harass

🤣🤣 I’ve got half a dozen stalking me "

Banging in your door ? Messsging your phone all hours

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By *as0046Man
11 weeks ago

stourbridge

Nope keep telling me about there wives and keep asking to meet.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
11 weeks ago

chichester


"Nope keep telling me about there wives and keep asking to meet. "

lol I am talking about real meets not online

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By *as0046Man
11 weeks ago

stourbridge

Oh yeah. I had one follow me to a meet with a couple then he messaged them as well. Real weird one 🤣

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By *razymindMan
11 weeks ago

Dublin mainly


"Married men are supposedly less likely to stalk / harass "

Thats possibly one of reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"Judgement free area, so please be kind.

If this isnt your thing then scroll on by.

A question for the women. What is it about married men that you enjoy? I dont mean married and consenting, I mean playing away.

Those who do enjoy it, feel free to also reach out. 😅"

What people do in their own lives is up to them, but personally I don't have any sexual arousal about objectifying an unwilling participant's potential pain for my own jollies.

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By *as0046Man
11 weeks ago

stourbridge


"Judgement free area, so please be kind.

If this isnt your thing then scroll on by.

A question for the women. What is it about married men that you enjoy? I dont mean married and consenting, I mean playing away.

Those who do enjoy it, feel free to also reach out. 😅

What people do in their own lives is up to them, but personally I don't have any sexual arousal about objectifying an unwilling participant's potential pain for my own jollies.

"

😳😳

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By *r.XratedMan
11 weeks ago

Liverpool/New York

Subconsciously women like men who have women around them. Wives, girlfriends, even mates. They validate him

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By *arysueCouple
11 weeks ago

West Wales

I have happily meet married men , it make no difference if they want that bit extra lol

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I don’t meet married people think it’s wrong…"

But your answer doesn't keep to the spirit of this thread or the OP's question.

He's asking •what• they enjoy about it because it's already a given that they're married and playing without consent.

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By *oandstephCouple
11 weeks ago

Bradford


"Subconsciously women like men who have women around them. Wives, girlfriends, even mates. They validate him "
fuck that couldnt think of anything worse 🤣🤣wife is enough female interaction

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"Judgement free area, so please be kind.

If this isnt your thing then scroll on by.

A question for the women. What is it about married men that you enjoy? I dont mean married and consenting, I mean playing away.

Those who do enjoy it, feel free to also reach out. 😅

What people do in their own lives is up to them, but personally I don't have any sexual arousal about objectifying an unwilling participant's potential pain for my own jollies.

😳😳"

Just saying we have so many ways of fulfilling people's fantasies, why restrict ourselves to one where someone could potentially get hurt?

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By *ee69Man
11 weeks ago

glasgow

I’m a married man , long story and no longer intamite with wife she is older and had health problems etc , has asked me to leave in past but a look after her am needed round the home and with kids etc , I tell people and am honest about my situation, most run a mile and a understand. A don’t judge people but can understand people’s experiences and reservations too. Been thankful to have previously had a fwb but most ladies uninterested

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By *ark n kimCouple
11 weeks ago

Durham

No interest at all in anyone cheating.male or female.

It's not swinging.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
11 weeks ago

Reading


"I’m a married man , long story and no longer intamite with wife she is older and had health problems etc , has asked me to leave in past but a look after her am needed round the home and with kids etc , I tell people and am honest about my situation, most run a mile and a understand. A don’t judge people but can understand people’s experiences and reservations too. Been thankful to have previously had a fwb but most ladies uninterested "

Does your wife know about fab?

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By *ee69Man
11 weeks ago

glasgow


"No interest at all in anyone cheating.male or female.

It's not swinging."

Not a swinger a use among other apps sites as a tool to chat to and possibly meet a new girl , it’s more laid back on here than some other sites

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By *ee69Man
11 weeks ago

glasgow


"I’m a married man , long story and no longer intamite with wife she is older and had health problems etc , has asked me to leave in past but a look after her am needed round the home and with kids etc , I tell people and am honest about my situation, most run a mile and a understand. A don’t judge people but can understand people’s experiences and reservations too. Been thankful to have previously had a fwb but most ladies uninterested

Does your wife know about fab?"

She knows about my fwb

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By *oxy jWoman
11 weeks ago

taunton somerset


"No interest at all in anyone cheating.male or female.

It's not swinging."

yet there are 1000s of swinging couples who prefer married ... see alot online will feel the have to call it out so they can fit in with the tiny forums mentality but in real life dont care .... its the same with the forum safe sex people they want to be seen as fitting into the forums but in reality its different ....

these forums are tiny really tiny most of fab wont cum near them a lot of lifestyle swingers avoid them

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By *ee69Man
11 weeks ago

glasgow


"No interest at all in anyone cheating.male or female.

It's not swinging.

yet there are 1000s of swinging couples who prefer married ... see alot online will feel the have to call it out so they can fit in with the tiny forums mentality but in real life dont care .... its the same with the forum safe sex people they want to be seen as fitting into the forums but in reality its different ....

these forums are tiny really tiny most of fab wont cum near them a lot of lifestyle swingers avoid them"

A just say what a think on them , find some folk like a giggle , many folk like you have described too , a lot a so called swingers on here but a lot a folk on for , nsa , fwb and other stuff it’s more than just a swingers site now plus it’s free so will attract folk because of that too a find

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By *ee69Man
11 weeks ago

glasgow

If it suits them or what they want it’s swinging but if no it’s cheating lol seems to be the way lol

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