FabSwingers.com forum: Wink or message

By *ensherman333 OP Man
7 weeks ago

Newcastle/Durham

Which do you prefer for a first contact?

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By * Mrs ShyButNotShyWoman
7 weeks ago

Stafford

I prefer wink. If we both wink at each other then go ahead an message.

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
7 weeks ago

Bedale

Wink, we're not arrogant enough to think that people should write war and peace just to signal their interest and offer us the opportunity to signal ours.

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By *ilk_and_SilverCouple
7 weeks ago

Oxford

Wink. Then if mutual winks we message.

Although on occasion message is the go to xx

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By *ensherman333 OP Man
7 weeks ago

Newcastle/Durham

"Wink, we're not arrogant enough to think that people should write war and peace just to signal their interest and offer us the opportunity to signal ours. "

Totally agree x

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
7 weeks ago

Leeds

"Wink, we're not arrogant enough to think that people should write war and peace just to signal their interest and offer us the opportunity to signal ours. "

Agreed.

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By *inkster seekingMan
7 weeks ago

ponty

I don't mind either , think it's just breaking ice and seeing if it's any interest from other party

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By *ester.jamesMan
7 weeks ago

birmingham

"I prefer wink. If we both wink at each other then go ahead an message. "

This is my thoughts exactly. Simple way of saying hey without messaging without asking

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By *iscotti32Woman
7 weeks ago

gateshead

I barely look at winks.

I do wink others that I like the look of tho

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
7 weeks ago

here and there

We like both ,and a wink is a good way of seeing if you are both intrested x

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By *nkedguy777Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester

Wink first, then if I get a wink back I'll drop a message

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By *arathonfire82Man
7 weeks ago

eversley

I don’t mind either. I hear so often how women have inboxes brimming and they can’t keep up, so I often fear of a decent message that I’ve spent a good amount of time on, getting lost on the other messages. That’s not to say I won’t take the chance for those I find attractive, a simple wink though, shows a sign of appreciation, and if I get a mutual one back, even more reason to spend that time. I know, I know , winks can get lost too

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By *lamDunkDaSpunkCouple
7 weeks ago

Harpenden

I prefer Fabs, I find them much easier to go through 🤷🏼‍♂️

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
7 weeks ago

Home

I'm in

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
7 weeks ago

London & North Wessex Downs

"Wink, we're not arrogant enough to think that people should write war and peace just to signal their interest and offer us the opportunity to signal ours. "

I agree - although War and Peace is at least a good read!

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By *9naughtyfun69Couple
7 weeks ago

torbay

Both

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By *etwife8230Couple
7 weeks ago

Newport

Both x

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By *psidedown PineapplesCouple
7 weeks ago

Sussex

Both work for us 😊

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By *igboro01Man
7 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Message for me. A wink is a shy way to get someone to look at your profile

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By *as7643Man
7 weeks ago

staffs

Both work for me

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By *ityguyMan
7 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I prefer to wink and hopefully get a wink back then message

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By *helamontsCouple
7 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Either ...

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By *ustincider888Man
7 weeks ago

Preston Ish

I prefer to wink, then if they wink back I'll message

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By *Mar321Couple
7 weeks ago

London

Wink

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By *lueWonderMan
7 weeks ago

Preston.....ish

I don't mind receiving either of them.

But personally I tend to send a wink if I'm short on time.

So when I come back on I can see who's been of interest to me and then I can spend a bit of time composing a message if I feel like there could be a conversation to be had.

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
7 weeks ago

Lurgan

We prefer a message , at least you get a feel for the people messaging you rather than a random wink

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By *ardfun10Man
7 weeks ago

banbury

Wink is ok to see if there is a reaction but a message is more personal as long as it’s polite and respectful

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By *ensherman333 OP Man
7 weeks ago

Newcastle/Durham

"I prefer Fabs, I find them much easier to go through 🤷🏼‍♂️"

Different x

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
7 weeks ago

Greater London

"I prefer wink. If we both wink at each other then go ahead an message. "

Yeah this is the same for us, it works well until they don’t message after a reciprocal wink lol

Sarah xx

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By *olfandtazCouple
7 weeks ago

Bristol

Either works for us

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By *iandti2023Couple
7 weeks ago

Wokingham

Both? Wink indicates attraction and a message adds some context. Somehow, it seems a message allows one to rise above the superficial?

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By *punk n gushCouple
7 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

Either for us will message if we like the sound or look of people

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Alot of people don't respond to winks, but then moan with generic messages, a wink shows there's interest if you get a wink back you know it's OK to message, also women and couples get inundated with messages so there's a good chance they won't even see your messages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

I prefer winks and if like what you see then let’s talk

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By *shford_5Man
7 weeks ago

Ashford

A wink I think. Especially if from an unexpected source. Then, depending on mood, might send a flirty reply back.

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