FabSwingers.com forum: Do chubby men get over looked

By *aveywazza OP Man
12 weeks ago

Huyton

I feel like not many people like chubby or fat men

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By *heelz69Man
12 weeks ago

Manchester

"I feel like not many people like chubby or fat men"

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

Do chubby ladies get overlooked?

Are all guys looking for a 6ft slim blonde - no.

Same applies to men.

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By *heelz69Man
12 weeks ago

Manchester

"Do chubby ladies get overlooked?

Are all guys looking for a 6ft slim blonde - no.

Same applies to men.

Not by me I love ladies of all ages, shapes and sizes

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By *YDB75Man
12 weeks ago

East Yorkie

Yes we do…as soon as they see your a chunky monkey the chat goes dry

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By *ormalcouple1974Couple
12 weeks ago

plymouth

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By *oxy jWoman
12 weeks ago

taunton somerset

men of all types get over looked kust because of the sheer number of men to how few couples n women there are especially when you think half the couples and womens profiles are fake run by single guys add in those on here who dont play too that does not leave many real people for the ridiculous amount of men to meet add in attraction and preference its quickly becomes almost impossible for most men

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By *allipygousMan
12 weeks ago

Leicester

I feel that short, black sexagenarians get overlooked on this site too 🥹

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By *allipygousMan
12 weeks ago

Leicester

"I feel that short, black sexagenarians get overlooked on this site too 🥹"

In good shape though 💪🏾

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By *23RouteCouple
11 weeks ago

Huddersfield

We don’t mind !

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By *omRachCouple
11 weeks ago

Wirral

"Do chubby ladies get overlooked?

Are all guys looking for a 6ft slim blonde - no.

Same applies to men.

Not I, I absolutely adore Size 16 and above.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
11 weeks ago

Ends

It’s tough if you’re fat. I definitely find that. But of course there are people out there that like you for you.

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By *allipygousMan
11 weeks ago

Leicester

"Do chubby ladies get overlooked?

Are all guys looking for a 6ft slim blonde - no.

Same applies to men.

I agree, certain women will get more attention than others but please, let's not pretend that if you have breasts and a vagina it matters not how attractive you are you will get more attention than the most attractive man.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I like guys with some meat on the bone.

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By *illingToHelpMan
11 weeks ago

Oldham or South Shore

Do chubby guys get overlooked?

I mean, I certainly look over chubby guys… especially if they’re wearing tight work trousers.

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By *ast and the curious01Man
11 weeks ago

Dundee

Loser mentality, if you don't like it. Change it.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
11 weeks ago

LONDON

I'm on the chunky side but I still get meets. It must be my great smile and winning personality

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
11 weeks ago

Cheshire

"I'm on the chunky side but I still get meets. It must be my great smile and winning personality

This is the right approach looks and appearance are everything. Your confidence and conversation skills correct demeanour play just a big part.

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By *ornyGuy69400Man
11 weeks ago

Mid Wales

My attraction is fuller figure women, size 16++ always has and always will be!

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By *allipygousMan
11 weeks ago

Leicester

"I'm on the chunky side but I still get meets. It must be my great smile and winning personality

Nah, it's your 8 inch penis

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
11 weeks ago

chichester

"Do chubby ladies get overlooked?

Are all guys looking for a 6ft slim blonde - no.

Same applies to men.

Women have an advantage on here. They have a vagina so it counteracts alot of of usual preferences with some guys .

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

It’s about attraction no? Some may be attracted to the chunkier man some may like a skinnier man it’s just about personal preference

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By *oiluvfunMan
11 weeks ago

Penrith

"men of all types get over looked kust because of the sheer number of men to how few couples n women there are especially when you think half the couples and womens profiles are fake run by single guys add in those on here who dont play too that does not leave many real people for the ridiculous amount of men to meet add in attraction and preference its quickly becomes almost impossible for most men"

Nail on the head

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

We have only ever hoated fat guys because our threeways are bi and hubby is attracted to big boys.

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By *wabathMan
11 weeks ago

Bath

I’m a ex rugby player who is a bit chubby. Don’t get any meets but age (55) doesn’t help either xx

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Lads, we are flattered but cool it with the dick pics 😂

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By *ullsfan77Man
11 weeks ago

Torquay

I am on the larger side but I am not putting my lack of success down to that only. Take a cross section of 100 profiles on this site. My rough guess is that 90 of these are single men, 5 are couples (some of which may be a single male pretending to be a couple), the remaining 5 being women. These wimen will be overwhelmed with messages and won’t physically have the time to read them all. I saw this when my wife had a profile on another site.

I believe that not being able to accommodate is probably a bigger minus point for me than my appearance. Even if my wife and I had a couples profile, we have kids at home, so this would not change. Unfortunately, anyone with a lot of choice at their disposal is always going to choose a nice comfortable and private bed rather than the back of a car.

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By *riendly BiMan
11 weeks ago

I'm definitely overlooked on here. Most are looking for the 6 foot plus Adonis with a 7" or above thick cock. Unfortunately I look more like Oliver Hardy than Tom Hardy 😂

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By *enelope2UWoman
11 weeks ago

Fife

I like real men who have a personality that compliments mine, who are intelligent, who are genuine polite, and kinky that compliments mine.. the wrapper is irrelevant to me

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By *iss Boot LoverTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Tetbury

Happy to meet big guys and girls. Not a problem for me.

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By *enelope2UWoman
11 weeks ago

Fife

"I am on the larger side but I am not putting my lack of success down to that only. Take a cross section of 100 profiles on this site. My rough guess is that 90 of these are single men, 5 are couples (some of which may be a single male pretending to be a couple), the remaining 5 being women. These wimen will be overwhelmed with messages and won’t physically have the time to read them all. I saw this when my wife had a profile on another site.

Exactly this.. fully single no kids and I'm not interested in being someone's sneak, secret, or afterthought.

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
11 weeks ago

Tamworth

"Do chubby ladies get overlooked?

Are all guys looking for a 6ft slim blonde - no.

Same applies to men.

You are exactly what we would look for in a lady

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By *ussle SproutMan
11 weeks ago

the middle

I don’t seem to do to bad

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

As a chubby guy I sometimes think so but then I find a woman or couple that are interested and I just forget about others that may have overlooked me I find it better not to dwell on those who aren’t interested in me

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By *riendly BiMan
11 weeks ago

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
11 weeks ago

Leeds

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

How do we know we're being overlooked because we're chubby and not for some other reason.

I think I'm overlooked simply because I'm not the kind of guy they like the look of

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
11 weeks ago

Somerset

"How do we know we're being overlooked because we're chubby and not for some other reason.

I think I'm overlooked simply because I'm not the kind of guy they like the look of "
Not judging as requested, but I would seriously consider making your profile pic private. Imagine the carnage that would ensue if your wife finds out you are looking for sex on a swingers site and are bi ( which may come as another surprise to her). Her sister, best mate, work colleague etc may be here too and feel obliged to tell her. Sounds like a sure fire way to halve your assets.

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By *adetMan
11 weeks ago

South of Ipswich

Plenty like a man with a bit of meat on his bones. I personally love the feeling of a man's weight on top of me

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"How do we know we're being overlooked because we're chubby and not for some other reason.

I think I'm overlooked simply because I'm not the kind of guy they like the look of Not judging as requested, but I would seriously consider making your profile pic private. Imagine the carnage that would ensue if your wife finds out you are looking for sex on a swingers site and are bi ( which may come as another surprise to her). Her sister, best mate, work colleague etc may be here too and feel obliged to tell her. Sounds like a sure fire way to halve your assets. "

Looks like he took your advice.

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By *punk n gushCouple
11 weeks ago

deal

We have meet chubby guys as a larger couple we tend to look for people similar to us but have also been with skinny ones

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By *urry BlokeMan
11 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I think I get overlooked by women for 5 reasons

1. My (lack of) height (can't change that)

2. My age (can't change that either)

3. I openly state that I am bi

4. My build

5. The fact I am hairy

Throw into the mix that I don't do overnighters, I rarely accom, I'm not into chatting for months on end before a social, I won't blow smoke... and, yeah, my chances of meeting a woman (outside of a club) are slim to non-existent

So, my build may be an issue to some, but it isn't the main inhibitor for many

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By *ansduoCouple
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

Hard to look over a chubby guy, given the size of his belly.

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By *ositiveVibesJBxMan
11 weeks ago

Birmingham/Wigan

I’m a chubby guy and I don’t think that has anything to do with it, however we all have our preferences so no one can be criticised for that. It is purely a numbers game. It’s all about standing out from the crowd which will never happen in here.

Which is why clubs and parties are the best option. You get to meet new people and show other characteristics you have which you just simply can’t in here.

It’s your journey and it’s all down to you what you make of it xxx

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By *ullsfan77Man
11 weeks ago

Torquay

"I think I get overlooked by women for 5 reasons

1. My (lack of) height (can't change that)

2. My age (can't change that either)

3. I openly state that I am bi

4. My build

5. The fact I am hairy

So, my build may be an issue to some, but it isn't the main inhibitor for many"

I agree that it is quite often other reasons rather than carrying a bit of timber-I think for me it’s more the reason that I can only very rarely accommodate and that as I very openly state, I am married (wife knows I am on this site) and that we play separately. Basically if there were two profiles-mine and another-almost identical-but the other guy was unattended and could accommodate, then guess who will always come out on too? Given a huge choice-it would be a comfortable bed with zero risk of drama. So you are certainly right about other reasons being more likely than appearance alone. I could lie and say I am single but I won’t do that.

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By *ansduoCouple
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Hard to look over a chubby guy, given the size of his belly."

This was a joke by the by.

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