FabSwingers.com forum: How "ballsey" are you to go on a blind social meet?

By *ink Desires OP Man
7 weeks ago

Sheffield

It's usually rational to want to see a face picture before a meet.

Being counterintuitive... Would you ever go on a blind social meet?

It's rather fun. It's like opening a Christmas cracker... You never know what's inside until you've pulled it

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By *unner6969Man
7 weeks ago

Bucks/London/Oxford

"It's usually rational to want to see a face picture before a meet.

Being counterintuitive... Would you ever go on a blind social meet?

It's rather fun. It's like opening a Christmas cracker... You never know what's inside until you've pulled it

Yes, done it a few times - two weren’t good, one was beyond amazing, others were amazing.

So, in general, it has worked out well.

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By *ink Desires OP Man
7 weeks ago

Sheffield

"It's usually rational to want to see a face picture before a meet.

Being counterintuitive... Would you ever go on a blind social meet?

There you go!

I have had similar. One where the conversation dried up before my coffee was cold lol

One was off the scale.

It's rather fun. It's like opening a Christmas cracker... You never know what's inside until you've pulled it

Yes, done it a few times - two weren’t good, one was beyond amazing, others were amazing.

So, in general, it has worked out well."

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By *jk1978Couple
7 weeks ago

Cheshire

We were chatting to a couple for weeks arranged a social but as we were new completely forgot to ask for face pics but ended up having a great night out with them

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By *ink Desires OP Man
7 weeks ago

Sheffield

"We were chatting to a couple for weeks arranged a social but as we were new completely forgot to ask for face pics but ended up having a great night out with them "

I know it's a bit of a gamble but I'm getting more ever increasingly convinced those meets you described become the best. Even if it's just friendship

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By *icecouple561Couple
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7 weeks ago

East Sussex

Only if I was absolutely sure they wouldn't be expecting sex.

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By *ink Desires OP Man
7 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Only if I was absolutely sure they wouldn't be expecting sex. "

Yes that's sensible and can appreciate the apprehension for ladies... Always on your own terms

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By *laudiuAsMan
7 weeks ago

london

I would never turn down a girl, or a date

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By *entishGuy55Man
7 weeks ago

Gravesend

I had a 'blind social date' yesterday. We chatted over coffee for 2 hours so must be an indication it went well. She left me good verification as well.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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7 weeks ago

East Sussex

Group socials are blind dates in a way. We used to enjoy them.

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By *mwirralMan
7 weeks ago

wirral

No problem with blind social, it is only a social, so just enjoy

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By *issmorganWoman
7 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

If it as only going to be a social and that was understood, then maybe.

Generally I'm wary of people who don't want to send a face pic though and it might be quite cringe if you actually met someone you knew in real life.

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By *he Gentleman 4uMan
7 weeks ago

Aston

Yes i would definitely do this

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
7 weeks ago

your head

No.

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By *rs k mr ACouple
7 weeks ago

glasgow

No way . Mrs k

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By *bisfunMan
7 weeks ago

sutton

Have gone to a couple of peoples houses without seeing a face pic, although after a lot of chatting

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By *ampire69Man
7 weeks ago

Birmingham West Midlands

part of the fun is the surprise at the end, its not allm about just looks !

loks cant convey personality sexuality and not even chemisry fully

yes i have done blind meets with a very high rate of sucess so yes go for it

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
7 weeks ago

Inverness

Wouldn’t risk it

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Central

Wouldn't generally do it, I'd prefer to pick a random that I've seen first

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By *exySiren01Woman
6 weeks ago

RCT

Not a chance lol

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By *allySlinkyWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm going on one this afternoon

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 weeks ago

Belfast

I've had lots of social meets where I knew beforehand that it would never go beyond that social so how they looked was irrelevant.

I only meet after chatting for weeks or even months so in many cases we didn't exchange pics and just said what type of car we were driving.

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By *ittleLiasonsWoman
6 weeks ago

Birmingham

Personally, I wouldn't. It creates a situation where either I could be not attracted to them or them not attracted to me and it's a conversation that could have been avoided. They can have the best personality in the world but physical attraction is important and I wouldn't waste my own or their time by risking it.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

Not a chance, time is precious & I'm not wasting it.

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By *unner6969Man
3 weeks ago

Bucks/London/Oxford

"I would never turn down a girl, or a date "

And that is precisely why this site fails single men; be more selective

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By *orty and niceMan
3 weeks ago

Nearby to you

"It's usually rational to want to see a face picture before a meet.

Being counterintuitive... Would you ever go on a blind social meet?

It's rather fun. It's like opening a Christmas cracker... You never know what's inside until you've pulled it

Yes because personality is the key for me, dont like miserable people

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By *eardedguy800Man
3 weeks ago

Kidderminster

No. They need to see my ugly face 🤣

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By *ave9930Man
3 weeks ago

York

Yes, definitely

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By *ampire69Man
3 weeks ago

Birmingham West Midlands

yes i have done blind meets and i have to say i find them very very exciting, i dont show pictures for a very simple reason WORK i cant risk being recognised due to my job simple as that and i know many others also have the same reason. Better to meet a person have a drink or a coffee see if there is a spark, i always invite other person to select a public place of choice by them. i have been lucky had several meets and only one fail and that was mutual choice.

so yes for me go for it it works a picture does not reflect a personality or better than a face to face chat

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By *oxy jWoman
3 weeks ago

somerset

nope and its nothing to do with being ''ballsey''and more to do with im not going to waste my time ..

if 99% of men do nothing for me on fab then the chances a blind meet is not going to work is also 99%..

swinging is select and reject its simple find someone you are sexually attracted to and have fun not spend a few hours with someone who is a turn of nope my time is my time and i wont waste it

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By *iss KinkWoman
3 weeks ago

North West

No I wouldn’t

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
3 weeks ago

chichester

no there are far too many freaks on this website to risk that

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By *ampire69Man
3 weeks ago

Birmingham West Midlands

ha ha its the freaks as you put it that make life interesting ha ha

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By *dmundwilsonMan
3 weeks ago

Llandudno

"Only if I was absolutely sure they wouldn't be expecting sex. "

Only if I was absolutely sure they wouldn't be expecting sex. [/quote

I like idea of a meet to just see if intimacy is a likely. I can’t imagine expecting it. Not for either party. Desire is sexy.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
3 weeks ago

chichester

"ha ha its the freaks as you put it that make life interesting ha ha"

Not when they try to stab you, rob you , catfish , ...

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
3 weeks ago

Sheffield

Never in a million years. Our spare time is valuable and scarce, don't want to be wasting it

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
3 weeks ago

Sheffield

No never. Would just be pointless.

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By *penminddmanMan
3 weeks ago

Lisburn

Even seeing pics beforehand In my experience it may as well have been a blind date 🤣🤣🤣

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By *lanenakedMan
3 weeks ago

near you

I would.

Happy to go on a social date with any of the ladies I've sent messages or or had conversation with. You can suss out attraction in the flesh 100 times better than with days and weeks of messaging and pictures.

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