FabSwingers.com forum: Have you told anyone?

By *erICorknow OP Couple
7 weeks ago

cork

People you know have you told them you like to swing and that you’ve had 3 somes etc? How’d they react?

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By *otguy555Man
7 weeks ago

Bristol

We have told a few of our friends and we have found out that they are also interested in the scene. We have had some brilliant nights with them getting naked and playing x

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
7 weeks ago

London

Never told anyone but a few people have found out. Generally, absolute shock

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By *exy_mixed_coupleCouple
7 weeks ago

Hinckley

Yes and ended up in a threesome with then

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By *ur little secret 20Couple
7 weeks ago

manchester

My sister found out! She was more curious and asked loads of questions. X

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By *herry delightWoman
7 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Many years ago when I first started swinging with my now Ex husband, we had to tell my sister as she was looking after the children and wanted to know the name of the hotel we were staying at just incase.

It was a swinging hotel in the gran canaries.

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By *umagain58Man
7 weeks ago

London

Yes lots know but yeah some don’t at work. I don’t worry about it

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By *eniandMikeCouple
7 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Have a couple in mind, we would love to tell lol and fuck!! Sadly don’t think it will happen!!!!

Jxx

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By *erICorknow OP Couple
7 weeks ago

cork

We both have told people, we told her sister and brother in law they went and had a swap the week later! We’ve told a few friends they weren’t that surprised

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By *erICorknow OP Couple
7 weeks ago

cork

It’s always a risk because you don’t want to ruin a friendship

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
7 weeks ago

here and there

Most of our friends know and some of our family x

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By *erICorknow OP Couple
7 weeks ago

cork

Yes some of herself’s family know and 1 has caught us .. himself would be more open about it.

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By *JandCMCouple
7 weeks ago

cardiff

We have both told 1 person each that we regard as our best friends.

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By *iganlad80Man
7 weeks ago

wigan

Told my sister last week she was cool with it. She told me she'd been dogging etc too

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By *ean directMan
7 weeks ago

havant

Told a good mate said I’d be looking for he rest of my life.

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By *r TriomanMan
7 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I've got some very close friends at work that I've told, they have never judged me

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By *cotty_01ukMan
7 weeks ago

birmingham

Told my close mates, they said they would never do it but respect what I do

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By *neeyedwillieMan
7 weeks ago

Darlington

"People you know have you told them you like to swing and that you’ve had 3 somes etc? How’d they react? "

My wife and I got busted years ago in my freinds group. A freind saw some photos he shouldn't have of me, my wife and another woman.

Didn't give a shit.

Later on family and kids found out.

No one cares.

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By *omRachCouple
7 weeks ago

Wirral

Only one person i/we know is aware of our lifestyle kinks - and he only knows cos he has joined us.

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By *irtyKittenCouple
7 weeks ago

Southampton

Best just kept to these circles, too many judgemental people about.

It can lead to problems.

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By *r N Mrs BobCouple
7 weeks ago

Nottingham

We’ve told some select friends and all been really cool with it. Extremely curious and hundreds of questions when I was telling them and when they know we’ve been to a party !

Mrs b xx

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

I’ve told a couple of close friends and one family member, none of them are shocked or surprised.

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
7 weeks ago

Carmarthen

I am open about it to most people bar work colleagues.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

No, I’ve not told people I know unfortunately swinging still seen as that joke, where you shouldn’t be doing it, and a bit of a taboo, even though if most where honest they would all want too.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
7 weeks ago

Leeds

A couple of friends know & randomly my dad does too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't tell anyone about my sex life apart from the people involved in it.

I don't have a problem with anyone who does discuss those things with mates though, just don't discuss me with them

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By *r SensualMan
7 weeks ago

London

My twin sister knows as I do but doesn’t judge nor wants to know granular details for obvious reasons…

Also quite a few of my non-swing friends know as well, it got to a point where they weren’t buying me not getting up to anything in my spare time whenever we’d catch up and they’d ask what I’m doing with myself.

Said it’s not for them but are happy for me that I’ve found something I enjoy. They had a lot of questions and I did have to dispel a few myths they had

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
7 weeks ago

London

Only a couple of friends know. Interestingly, I am much more discreet to older friends who I have known for longest (and know best) than with newer friends.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
7 weeks ago

Scarborogh

"People you know have you told them you like to swing and that you’ve had 3 somes etc? How’d they react? "

No we have kept this to us.

We have one set of friends that we think have worked it out, but they have not specifically asked us 🤣.

Our little secret.

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By *r John WickMan
7 weeks ago

The Continental

No.

It’s nothing to do with being secretive or deceitful.

My sex life is none of their business, and wouldn’t discuss it even if I was a vanilla monogamist.

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
7 weeks ago

Thurrock

Our close friends know they ask questions sometimes but they don’t understand it part of why we like to make swinging friends because they get it and you can talk more openly

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