FabSwingers.com forum: Mrs is in two minds..

By *ecret_Passion777 OP Man
19 weeks ago

Manchester

Hi guys, I’ve been a member of Fab for a little while, my Mrs knows about it and I’ve asked her if she’d ever fancy making a couples account together.. she likes the thought of it, but then eventually changes her mind saying “Let me lose some more weight first before we do anything like that”…

I mean, I tell her all the time how a lot of men much prefer the ‘thicker’ chunkier lady lol, but hey ho it’s whatever makes her feel good, isn’t it.

I can’t send any more pictures in messages on here, so was wondering if any one would wanna see her and see what you think, maybe give her a confidence boost for f you know what I mean?

Cheers guys

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
19 weeks ago

East Sussex

You can't show her pictures from a single profile unless you're on them and she can't be identified.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

The important thing to understand about low self confidence, it has nothing to do with words especially from strangers. You have to feel good about yourself and like yourself enough that opinions of others do not matter. Let her work on herself and you work on making her feel good, then you can talk about a couples profile. Until you are on the same page, I'd stay well clear of it. It will only open doors to arguments, insecurities and challenges in the relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"The important thing to understand about low self confidence, it has nothing to do with words especially from strangers..."

I agree that words (especially from strangers) can't magically improve self esteem, but words such as "thicker and chunkier" will definitely not help

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By *vaRose43Woman
19 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

"The important thing to understand about low self confidence, it has nothing to do with words especially from strangers...

I agree that words (especially from strangers) can't magically improve self esteem, but words such as "thicker and chunkier" will definitely not help"

I disagree on the words front. As a thicker, chunkier, fat lass. I call a spade a spade. None of those words are derogatory or insulting. At no point did he add any of the typical insult prefixes like “disgusting, vile, stinking”that some trolls on the site do.

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By *ingerie lover1TV/TS
19 weeks ago

Cardiff

I was in to minds when dressing Infront of people as clothes and lingerie don't always fit in the right way

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By *iker JackMan
19 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

So she doesn’t want a joint account because she feels she wants to lose some weight

So your answer is to post photos of her to random people on the internet

Aren’t you a charmer

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