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By *lowhands7 OP   Man
12 weeks ago

South Leicestershire

There is generally a type of club, for example those that are sauna/jacuzzi based requiring you to walk around naked or with a towel and those that are night club based. What is your preference and why?

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By *aomilatteCouple
12 weeks ago

Midlands

We're too old for normal night clubs . So we love swinging clubs with a nightclub vibe 😊

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

12 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Dress up, rather than dress down.

Not everyone is comfortable stripping as soon as they're in so not always the most inviting environment for newbies.

Plus there can be a tendency for some men to assume that because women are in a towel/lingerie or naked, that it means they can get 'handsy'. In all my years of clubbing I've seen far less incidents of unwanted touching in clubs where people are clothed.

Non dress down clubs don't mean people don't strip. It just creates a more balanced environment in terms of social vs play settings in my mind, and gives people a chance to talk, drink and get to know someone before contemplating getting naked with them.

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By *he Black ExperienceMan
12 weeks ago

banbury

Having been to both I kinda like the dress down version.

I hate having to undress, take off shoes nd belts and where do I hang this up in the play room or leave it on a sticky floor. Nope not for me.

I like the idea of walking around in towels or lingerie and the sneaky peaks of what may be "on the menu" if we link up

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By *bi HaiveMan
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12 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Having been to both I kinda like the dress down version.

I hate having to undress, take off shoes nd belts and where do I hang this up in the play room or leave it on a sticky floor. Nope not for me.

I like the idea of walking around in towels or lingerie and the sneaky peaks of what may be "on the menu" if we link up"

Dry clubs have locker rooms, just like wet clubs. 😉

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By *SCouple81Couple
12 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

Jacuzzi / sauna works for us better.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Kink.

But I prefer dress up clubs with a dress down in play areas policy.

I want time to be dressed and settle into the atmosphere before stripping.

I don't want fully clothed people in play areas where I'm next to naked.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
12 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Personally I hate clubs that have a big emphasis on dressing up, I did that when I was a child.

Other than that, it's more the type of event rather than the type of club that attracts us.

Couples and single ladies nights are always our preference.

Mr.

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By *forfuntimesCouple
12 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Kink.

But I prefer dress up clubs with a dress down in play areas policy.

I want time to be dressed and settle into the atmosphere before stripping.

I don't want fully clothed people in play areas where I'm next to naked."

This- exactly same for us...

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By *lowhands7 OP   Man
12 weeks ago

South Leicestershire

Some really interesting views and preferences on here. I too dislike the clothed in the same room as me when naked situation.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
12 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

I like both, so the arrangement at VA and Liberty Elite. Arrive dressed up - daring as you like and then later on dressed down towels, lingerie, nakedness…

I’m fine with dress down immediately though- Chameleons for example.

I don’t like clothes-on clubs where it’s strip off temporarily to play and then clothes back on.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
12 weeks ago

Leeds

The ones that do women's only events 😂

Mrs

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
12 weeks ago

Stoke

We prefer none dress down clubs, we both hate standing around in underwear, it's so unnatural.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
12 weeks ago

Tamworth

I like both. I enjoy dressing up but equally I like picking a dress down outfit.

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By *ife NinjaMan
12 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Hot tub or pool please

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By *JcuriousCouple
12 weeks ago

Derby

Night club based.

You can dress down if you want too but it's also not compulsory.

Miss S x

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
12 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Definitely dress down for me. The dress up aspect is stressful for me, I go to a club to relax not to stand around feeling uncomfortable, so I like the no pressure spa feel.

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By *ethefabtwoCouple
12 weeks ago

coventry

Naked or towels suit us best at clubs. Private meets different of course

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By *onderlust69Couple
12 weeks ago

Central belt


"There is generally a type of club, for example those that are sauna/jacuzzi based requiring you to walk around naked or with a towel and those that are night club based. What is your preference and why?"

Dress down clubs are good for experienced swingers because everyone has to dress down but dress up clubs are good for newbies

We prefer dress down

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By *he Silver FuxMan
12 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Definitely dress down for me. The dress up aspect is stressful for me, I go to a club to relax not to stand around feeling uncomfortable, so I like the no pressure spa feel. "

I don’t think I’ve ever seen you with clothes on, and I think that’s marvellous

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By *uckslut and MCouple
12 weeks ago

Poole

Ones I can get fucked in. Me in lingery, men in next to nothing. Pants, towels or naked. It's such a faff, and breaks flow of play, of they have to undress. Plus the ones who just unzip - just no. The zip, belt and trouser button just hurt. If I've gone to the effort, at least pull your trousers down.

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By *awgessgingeWoman
12 weeks ago

Barnsley

Hi guys can people help out an message me some spots round my area for dogging sites please thankyou

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
12 weeks ago

Middle England

On balance dress down. It's a pain getting dressed and then undressed to play. Even in dress down eg Chams the ladies have so much choice; for men less so unless you're creative.

But with dress up again it can get a bit uncomfortable if you're relatively dressed down and everyone else is going around pretty much fully clothed. With dress down everyone is on the same level.

Also whilst I'm at find a few dress up clubs don't bother enforce a dress code so ripped jeans, dirty trainers etc are acceptable.

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By *qushDivineCouple
12 weeks ago

Gloucester

Dress down.

We’ve been to a few dress up places and always feel uncomfortable. It’s like you’re trying to talk to strangers in a pub which neither of us are very good at.

Having your kit off is a good leveller

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
12 weeks ago

Norwich


"Naked or towels suit us best at clubs. Private meets different of course"

Would agree, love group nakedness and having to struggle to undress when getting offer to play is a faff

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
12 weeks ago

Norwich


"Dress down.

We’ve been to a few dress up places and always feel uncomfortable. It’s like you’re trying to talk to strangers in a pub which neither of us are very good at.

I'll go with that, and if in hot tub all the better

Having your kit off is a good leveller "

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By *carlettxWoman
12 weeks ago

Essex


"There is generally a type of club, for example those that are sauna/jacuzzi based requiring you to walk around naked or with a towel and those that are night club based. What is your preference and why?"

Personally I dislike dress down clubs … I make the effort to look sexy and don’t want to walk around in a towel lol

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By *n at the DeeP endCouple
12 weeks ago

Manchester

We've only beem to Cupid's which is dress down and we do love it but want to check out some other clubs.

Can anyone recommend some dress up clubs in the North? Or anywhere for that matter, we have some time to get away for a few days soon.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
12 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


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I don’t think I’ve ever seen you with clothes on, and I think that’s marvellous "

Hahaha! A few weeks ago I had just arrived at Chams and there was a little traffic at the bottom of the stairs so I was waiting to go up, still dressed, a guy I don't know did a comedy style double-take and blurted "oh my god it's you! I didn't recognise you with clothes on!" 😆

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