FabSwingers.com forum: "What are you looking for?"

By *endalshaggers OP Couple
7 weeks ago

Kendal

We seem to be asked this question practically every chat (especially new chats) that we have.

We've put what we're after in our profile text - granted, it may not dot every single I or cross every single T in descriptiveness but still gives people a decent enough outline without being too nitty gritty and splitting hairs.

Is this just a generic question everyone asks everyone or do people not read profiles anymore and just look at pics/videos?

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
7 weeks ago

Leeds

No, people don't read shit, it's a generic question and tbh I ask it a lot, most of the replies to that question shows they haven't read my profile so it's a great filter eg - woman of couple messages, I ask what your looking for, she replies in a more polite way a performing monkey to fuck me while my man has a wank.... Profile not read, question did the job, blocked.

Mrs

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By *ot Wife BeckyCouple
7 weeks ago

Torrox Costa Spain

We're always getting asked the same thing.

Think it's a combination of things, mainly because they can't be bothered to read our profile.

Like you, we try to include enough details without making it boring.

But you'll always get similar messages. And it's mainly a single guy who's the originator.

We always tell them that if they don't have the patience to read a profile, what will they be like in bed trying to pleasure a lady..?

Strangely enough, we never back from them..

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By *ikeC81Man
7 weeks ago

harrow

Tbh I used to have a really wordy profile

Now my profile is to the point. This is what I am looking for this is something about me. If people say not interested then block and move on

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By *ibLeiMan
7 weeks ago

Manchester

People don’t read profiles and even if they do, a lot of them don’t care. These people evidently don’t value their own time and that truly baffles me…

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
7 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

We get it all the time, we put it down to the average male on here

a, not reading profiles

b, unimaginative

c, try the same approach with everyone

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By *andPextraCouple
7 weeks ago

North West

We have had 3 today- variations of what you looking for.

As we answered in a previous forum, we always answer back “the tv remote”, as it’s generally true. i swear it has legs…

But it is an annoyance. If someone wants to play with me, I don’t think it’s unreasonable that they should read the profile to see if we are compatible besides them thinking I look ok.

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By *n at the DeeP endCouple
7 weeks ago

Manchester

80% of our chats start (and therefore end) with "hows u xx"

15% do quickly reach "what you looking for"

Yawn

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By *MCMan
7 weeks ago

London/EA

"80% of our chats start (and therefore end) with "hows u xx"

15% do quickly reach "what you looking for"

Yawn"

Received ‘how’d you xx’ from a couple last week whose status ironically said ‘guys make some effort with your messages!’ Yet they still couldn’t even put the effort in to spell their two word opener correctly 😬

But yes the amount of ‘what’re you looking for’ messages is relentless at the minute…

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By *n at the DeeP endCouple
7 weeks ago

Manchester

"80% of our chats start (and therefore end) with "hows u xx"

15% do quickly reach "what you looking for"

Yawn

But yes the amount of ‘what’re you looking for’ messages is relentless at the minute… "

Love a bit of irony

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
7 weeks ago

Wolvo

I think i need to start beating them to the punch

i do get asked ‘wot u lukin 4?’ and it is annoying as its answered on my profile. I find ppl may go then and read it but also try to tell me they're exactly who i’m looking for when infact they're not. So if i ask them first they cant then lie 😁

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By *ayPrimeMan
7 weeks ago

Leeds

I’m surprised this happens to be honest, I’ve never seen a bio that doesn’t suggest what someone wants (or at least what they don’t want, usually described to the point of concern).

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By *issmorganWoman
7 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I don't reply to this anymore, I've explained in my profile that I'm not looking to meet anyone new just now.

Im also very clear about things in it, so it just shows they've not bothered to read any of it.

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man
7 weeks ago

Chislehurst

Maybe just a conversation starter

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By *ayPrimeMan
7 weeks ago

Leeds

"Maybe just a conversation starter "

Maybe but it’s also a bit like applying for a job with a CV then having to fill in an application form on arrival.

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By *bflirtyCouple
7 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

We get a lot of this but can end up as an entertaining conversation.

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By *heseeker73Man
7 weeks ago

witney

Just so everyone knows I'm looking for nice and naughty females and couples to enjoy and explore new experiences with. So now everyone knows, not to much to ask for is it?

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By *WB85Man
7 weeks ago

Staffordshire

To be honest on our couples profile we always ask this question.

Profiles are often out of date as we've found on many occasions.

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By *endalshaggers OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Kendal

Another day, another "so what are you looking for" despite 3 views of the profile within 5 minutes and a wink 🙃

We've borrowed the "tv remote" joke though!

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