FabSwingers.com forum: Bi husband

By *ifes2short!! OP Man
13 weeks ago

newtownabbey

Has anyone constantly put off telling his wife he is bisexual? When you finally did it, what did they say and how did they react?

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
13 weeks ago

London

"Has anyone constantly put off telling his wife he is bisexual? When you finally did it, what did they say and how did they react?"

My partner was completely fine with it, she's bi too though.

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By *ifes2short!! OP Man
13 weeks ago

newtownabbey

"Has anyone constantly put off telling his wife he is bisexual? When you finally did it, what did they say and how did they react?

My partner was completely fine with it, she's bi too though."

Now that would be perfect for me. Unfortunately it's not the case with her

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By *ichelleCDTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Stratford

Yes

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By *vaRose43Woman
12 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

My husband is bi, I’m straight…. Was never an issue for either of us.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
12 weeks ago

Cheshire

Told my ex wife before we got married about my crossdressing and bisexuality. Not an issue because I was upfront about it from the start.

I believe people’s sexuality can change over time, so if yours has, it would be an idea to have that conversation but be ready to deal with the consequences good or bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

My wife knew before we started dating.

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By *andT1970Couple
12 weeks ago

sw london

Depends on your wife I guess...Mine is totally aware ive had oral sex with Men and she loves it....I don't fancy Men one bit but am turned on by Cock and always found it kinky !

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By *aradiselost747Couple
12 weeks ago

dundonald

Having a bi husband is the actual best. Getting to share cock takes any niggle of selfishness out of me being a lil slut lol

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By *ieandteaseMan
12 weeks ago

Wiltshire

I've told my fb but she has no interest in other cocks

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
12 weeks ago

London

"Told my ex wife before we got married about my crossdressing and bisexuality. Not an issue because I was upfront about it from the start.

I believe people’s sexuality can change over time, so if yours has, it would be an idea to have that conversation but be ready to deal with the consequences good or bad.

I have told a couple of ex girl friends that I was bi. One freaked out, but then apologised and said it was fine. The other thanked me for my honesty.

I suppose it depends on your partner - if they are in the scene hope that they would be more open about sexuality.

I also agree with the comment above - sexuality can and does change as we age and change.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
12 weeks ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"Told my ex wife before we got married about my crossdressing and bisexuality. Not an issue because I was upfront about it from the start.

I believe people’s sexuality can change over time, so if yours has, it would be an idea to have that conversation but be ready to deal with the consequences good or bad.

Would agree with Steph about change over time,

curiosity has come to me later in life too

It's not an issue for us personally but as Steph says be sure you are

prepared for what follows if you are thinking of doing it Op,

it may shatter her world and need lots of reassurance and support.

On the other hand, it may come as no great surprise to her lol

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By *erfHerder74Man
12 weeks ago

Inverclyde

I guess having a partner you should be able to be honest and talk about thing's

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By *SCouple81Couple
12 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

It happened naturally for us. We talked about it and she is very supportive. It lead to amazing meets and playing with guys. Communication is the most important part and we can talk about everything.

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By *ifes2short!! OP Man
12 weeks ago

newtownabbey

"My husband is bi, I’m straight…. Was never an issue for either of us. "

Did he tell you he was bi or did you find out?

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By *ifes2short!! OP Man
12 weeks ago

newtownabbey

"Depends on your wife I guess...Mine is totally aware ive had oral sex with Men and she loves it....I don't fancy Men one bit but am turned on by Cock and always found it kinky !"

I'm just like that too. Don't fancy men but the sex aspect of it turns me on.

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By *ifes2short!! OP Man
12 weeks ago

newtownabbey

"Depends on your wife I guess...Mine is totally aware ive had oral sex with Men and she loves it....I don't fancy Men one bit but am turned on by Cock and always found it kinky !"

Sound like you've got the perfect relationship.Wish my wife thought bi guys were sexy.

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By *ifes2short!! OP Man
12 weeks ago

newtownabbey

"Having a bi husband is the actual best. Getting to share cock takes any niggle of selfishness out of me being a lil slut lol "

Both being by sounds like the perfect marriage lol. Not jealous at all lol.

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By *Mar321Couple
12 weeks ago

London

I said to my wife I’m very bi curious and I try to with another man and she can’t wait to watch me

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By *inkyfox99Man
12 weeks ago

Surrey

"Depends on your wife I guess...Mine is totally aware ive had oral sex with Men and she loves it....I don't fancy Men one bit but am turned on by Cock and always found it kinky !"

Same I’m not gay, I don’t fancy one at all but turned on playing a cock sometimes and love the kinkyness of it!

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By *inkyfox99Man
12 weeks ago

Surrey

"I said to my wife I’m very bi curious and I try to with another man and she can’t wait to watch me

we could let her watch you perform on me

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By *ya123Couple
12 weeks ago

Atherstone

I’m bi and naturally dom in our relationship, my partner knows I have a past of having fun but not the full extent (always fun to surprise her). I didn’t tell her as I was unsure how to broach the topic but when we set up lifestyle profiles I listed myself as bi so she knew then, plus it features in our chats with other couples and she hasn’t objected to the thought of me and the other guy having some fun.

Incidentally happy to chat and see if we get along with anyone who sees this haha

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
12 weeks ago

London

"Told my ex wife before we got married about my crossdressing and bisexuality. Not an issue because I was upfront about it from the start.

I believe people’s sexuality can change over time, so if yours has, it would be an idea to have that conversation but be ready to deal with the consequences good or bad.

I have told a couple of ex girl friends that I was bi. One freaked out, but then apologised and said it was fine. The other thanked me for my honesty.

I suppose it depends on your partner - if they are in the scene hope that they would be more open about sexuality.

I also agree with the comment above - sexuality can and does change as we age and change. "

I should add that I am sure another suspected when she went through my computer and found the gay porn.

Another, after I told her, said that she always suspected that I wasn't completely straight. Good intuition.

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
12 weeks ago

London

"I’m bi and naturally dom in our relationship, my partner knows I have a past of having fun but not the full extent (always fun to surprise her). I didn’t tell her as I was unsure how to broach the topic but when we set up lifestyle profiles I listed myself as bi so she knew then, plus it features in our chats with other couples and she hasn’t objected to the thought of me and the other guy having some fun.

Incidentally happy to chat and see if we get along with anyone who sees this haha "

Would be happy to chat!

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

It’s like a taboo there either going to totally love the idea and wanted it, or going to be totally disgusted and thing why aren’t females enough

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By *usybee26Woman
12 weeks ago

Londonderry

My hubby told me he was bi and cross dresser 2 yrs ago after being married 36 yrs it was a shock at first and took me a while to come to terms with it .

But all good now

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
12 weeks ago

London

"My hubby told me he was bi and cross dresser 2 yrs ago after being married 36 yrs it was a shock at first and took me a while to come to terms with it .

But all good now"

Did he tell you before or after you guys started swinging?

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By *ony MannMan
12 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

I have a friend, she is bi, I don't think I told her I was bi.

But we enjoy sex together and we do share partners....mostly men, there are so many more men here.

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By *ifes2short!! OP Man
12 weeks ago

newtownabbey

"I said to my wife I’m very bi curious and I try to with another man and she can’t wait to watch me

Now that sounds like the perfect wife material lol.

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By *am1337Man
12 weeks ago

Plymouth

I'd love to worship a couple where husband is bi x

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By *otuseater11Man
12 weeks ago

IRVINE

There's no harm in being honest with your wife .tell her for years how you wanted to tell her but couldn't find the right words she might just surprise you and say she had a idea you were bi and everything will workout just fine

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By *ee642024Woman
12 weeks ago

Crook

My ex husband left when i found out he liked men after 8 years of marriage. I even found the man he was meeting.and he came to my home with me to confront my ex together. It was not a good time.

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By *izzybicplCouple
12 weeks ago

wisbech

I knew wife was already bi and thats always fun but she asked if i would try wanking a guy for her and if in the mood suck him and she got excited when I said yes i would... Now we wait for the right couple to have bi fun with ... one day perhaps...one day

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By *ifes2short!! OP Man
12 weeks ago

newtownabbey

I would love to share a guy with my wife. Both of us sucking his cock and him fucking us both but I know she wouldn't entertain the thought.

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