FabSwingers.com forum: Getting your wife into swinging

By *ecret_Passion777 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Manchester

Just curious, how did you guys go about getting your wife into sleeping with other men?

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By *otguy555Man
6 weeks ago

Bristol

We had been talking about a three some with my wife best friend and one night she surprised me with it. We had a awesome night. A bit later we were discussing it and she said she would love to try it with another guy. We invited one over and we all fucked all night. She loved it and so did I so we pretty much just carried on from there

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By *reamyduoCouple
6 weeks ago

cavan

It was my idea (wife)

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By *otguy555Man
6 weeks ago

Bristol

Good girl. Do you enjoy it still

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By *reamyduoCouple
6 weeks ago

cavan

Of course I do

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By *otguy555Man
6 weeks ago

Bristol

We love it. Hopefully we have a meeting tonight my wife is chatting with a guy now

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By *hurrock couple for funCouple
6 weeks ago

Thurrock

Took a while but finally got her to go for it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex

My husband talked to me.

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By *teve691000Man
6 weeks ago

West Midlands

For me and my x wife it all began with dirty talk during sex, which slowly escalated. I was mad on photography so put some pictures in the readers wives section of 3 magazines. Had tons of fan mail back and eventually met up with one of her fans. This became a regular 3 sum for us. We then started going to the clubs and even dogging. Fun times

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By *hurrock couple for funCouple
6 weeks ago

Thurrock

Brilliant

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By *ue and robCouple
6 weeks ago

ware

She knew I was a swinger before we got together took her to a party she loved it

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By *andb69Couple
5 weeks ago

leeds

"Just curious, how did you guys go about getting your wife into sleeping with other men?"

"Getting your wife..." Why do you assume (a) that it's the men pushing for it (b) women don't have a mind of their own and (c) why any men would want to "get" their wife to do something they were reluctant to do?

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By *arathon69manMan
5 weeks ago

Perranporth

My OH loves to invite other guys and girls ... leaves it to me to arrange ... we both enjoy meeting other couples and singles

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By *neeyedwillieMan
5 weeks ago

Darlington

I didn't get her into swinging nor do I get anything out of her with other men.

It's the other way around. She kept having fantasies about me bedding other women when we where in our 20s (and yes we have a couples account). That turned i to her joining in which in turn lead to me with other men's wives when we started meeting cuckold couples at social events. It's been a very fun adventure to say the least.

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By *oethecuck1Man
5 weeks ago

leeds

We had became friends with a couple whe we used to live in lanzarote got very d*unk at theirs one night ended up with her sat on his knee one thing led to another they went to bed together while his wife n I sat getting d*unk x

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By *estiswestMan
5 weeks ago

glasgow

Discussed it with my ex as a fantasy and went from there

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By *ir kinkyMan
5 weeks ago

munster

It was my ex that suggested to me first

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By *WCLOVERCouple
5 weeks ago

london

It was my idea (mrs) and I'm so happy his supportive

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By *alfback09Man
5 weeks ago

Peterboro

My wife had a affair and I found out but it turned me on that she was fucking around I suggested she could carry on as long as I knew so we began our swinging life

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By *uffhandymanMan
5 weeks ago

selby/peterborough

I get asked by lots of men to be the one to get their wives into swinging! They hire me but wives don’t know I work naked until hubby leaves and the flirting begins

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By *otuseater11Man
5 weeks ago

IRVINE

It was the ex wife that asked me about trying swinging.one night in bed she said how she always wanted to try a threesome with two men.our first threesome was around four weeks later and it was fantastic to see her playing with our cocks

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By *ffc290677Couple
5 weeks ago

sandy

We used to talk about our fantasy’s while we having fore play and I liked the idea of watching her with another man and really wanted to see that. I told her she should do it and she took a lot of convincing that I’d actually be ok with it but she agreed in the end but thought it better if I wasn’t there for the first time as was scared how I’d actually react so I agreed so long as she filmed bits on her phone and sent it to me at work. They was good videos and so horny when they started coming through to me. So relaxed with me watching her now though

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By *reen as JadeCouple
5 weeks ago

Cheshire

This was my idea that I put into my husband's head playing on the settee one night x

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By *hilcarol89Couple
5 weeks ago

Warrington

My idea I needed alot more x hubby accepts and goes along with it

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By *helroyCouple
5 weeks ago

Skegness

long story but glad we got into it

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
5 weeks ago

Leeds

Communication, trust & honesty is generally the way it works.

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By *BC N SQUIRTERMan
5 weeks ago

wimslow

Funny story-

I took the mrs out to a club, lovely place, chilled had some food,drink & danced. We met some lovely people.

The mrs thought it was strange when people started getting undressed around us lol.

Thankfully she was game and joined in.

she/ we had a brilliant night.

We haven’t looked back since.

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By *otwifecplCouple
5 weeks ago

bham

I told her quite early on when dating about my hotwife fantasy. She considered leaving me but instead thankfully gave it a go. Now we have a super strong / super hot relationship 7 years on

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By *evonrobMan
5 weeks ago

Kingsbridge

Highly erotic thread this…..

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By *winging_couple300Couple
5 weeks ago

Doncaster

We had a chat about how to spice things up, thought about dogging but it was February at the time so decided on going to a club and whilst we’re very sporadic in visiting clubs we still keep our toes in so to speak.

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By *bxanfCouple
5 weeks ago

Shadow Moses, Stourbridge

She asked if the idea of a threesome would be hot. Then I said yes.

We don't have that long epic story like most I'm afraid 😂

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By *ecret-64Couple
5 weeks ago

Wrexham

My wife has always been bi sexual and new it from a very young age. She craved pusdy asxwe grew older. Swinging was a way she could satisfy that need with me involved. No cheating just full fem on fem sex which she needs.

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By *aughty driverMan
5 weeks ago

Romford

I believe it should be her choice the best you can do is just put your thoughts forward

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By *eekendVixenCouple
5 weeks ago

Leicester

I fantasied about it for years before being brave enough to discuss it with her.

We watched a channel 4 documentary and had a frank discussion afterwards about trying something. We thought about meeting other couples but neither of us were into it. When we read about hotwife / stag vixens that was a big catalyst.

Vixen wasn’t sure to start with but she took to it pretty quick!

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
5 weeks ago

Port Talbot

We had spoken about it (mostly when d*unk) then on holiday in Tenerife a few years back, we just took the plunge and went to a club. It was so hot!!

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By *r John WickMan
5 weeks ago

The Continental

I didn’t ’get her’ into it.

We fell into it together after a bunch of fantasy talk during sex.

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By *ykel_and_LizzyCouple
5 weeks ago

Brecon

We just really enjoyed random camming with folks and decided to take it up a notch.

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By *ubs4fun797Couple
5 weeks ago

Bedford

I must be in the minority it was Jess who got me into it

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By *rs k mr ACouple
5 weeks ago

glasgow

We saw a programme about 10 year ago with the hitwife thing . Then we attended a club about 6 year ago .

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By *SCouple81Couple
5 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

We were talking about it for really long time and eventually decided to give it a go. It was our decision and nobody had to push the other person into doing anything we weren't comfortable with. The best thing is being in it together.

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By *ueandbillCouple
5 weeks ago

Leyland

We had been talking about it for a while but Sue was always a little nervous about taking it further

Then one day we were out shoping and in different stores. When she came to meet me a guy held the door open for her and began to chat her up unaware of me standing a few yards away. it was a huge turn on for me and i nearly ripped her clothes off when we got back to the car.

When she saw how much i enjoyed it she decided to take the plunge and loved it

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By *irldnCouple
5 weeks ago

Brighton

My wife and I both did a bit of swinging before we met. For a few months we were just getting to know each other and becoming more adventurous as our sex life “matured” then it came up in conversation about fantasies.

The girlfriend I got into swinging with progressed from watching Eyes Wide Shut at cinema, to visiting fetish clubs (initially just dressing up and voyeur), to playing at fetish clubs, to meeting couples privately who we initially met in fetish clubs, then full on swinging.

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By *heFooFuckersCouple
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

It was the wife that got us into sharing. She initially suggested that we go to a lap dancing club so she could learn some stripper moves. She got 4 private dances and loved the attention from the girls. She got talking to one of the girls about swinging and torture gardens. We watched a few channel 4 documentaries and booked up to visit a club. We've been addicted ever since

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By *uds1Couple
5 weeks ago

lanark

Wife got us into it,but a long story

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By *ouseofhoneyCouple
5 weeks ago

North West

Wife had plenty of experience with other girls and we used to talk about in bed and it drove mad.... just escalated from there

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By *ocketman20Man
5 weeks ago

Douglas

We started by being watched by a female work colleague who wanted to watch a couple fuck.

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By *ewsexycplCouple
5 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Fantasy in sex about adding others and using dildos etc. Then just asked if she would like to try it, to my amazement she said yes and we've never ever looked back!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
5 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"My husband talked to me. "

Wow who would think that was best way to approach it!!!!! (Me being sarcastic and wondering why that is not obvious to all the "single males" asking this question lol

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Show them your profile and verifications OP. That should get the conversation moving quickly 😂

Usually, it's me bringing my partners into it. I'm very open from the start about who I am and what I enjoy. I've taken a few people for their first ever swingers club visit at this point 💜

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