FabSwingers.com forum: To old

By *ranny hunter OP Man
7 weeks ago

Durham

Hi can I just ask is 69 to old for a male on here.having no luck about to give up.

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By *lexander195699Man
7 weeks ago

Ashford

Dont give up. I am only a year behind you. Had great experiences.

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By *ranny hunter OP Man
7 weeks ago

Durham

Never get any meets on here I’m I doing something wrong

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By *ife NinjaMan
7 weeks ago

Dunfermline

You're in a sea of thousands. My advice, pop along to club F in Stanley. Not far from you, and nobody needs to know your age

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By *lan157Man
7 weeks ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

"Never get any meets on here I’m I doing something wrong "

Have you been to local social meets ? If not then that is something you are doing wrong ?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
7 weeks ago

chichester

Nope it may just be slower. Though clubs are better bet

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By *lexander195699Man
7 weeks ago

Ashford

"Never get any meets on here I’m I doing something wrong "
I am probably not the best person to give advice. Stick with it, be relaxed and courtious. Rejections are inevitable given the proportions male v female.

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By *r Simon TemplerMan
7 weeks ago

Blackpool North Shore

I remember putting something similar on my status....a couple messaged me and said yes you are, I thought who made them the age police

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By *ecoming_InvisibleMan
7 weeks ago

Bury

Judging from 100s of profiles I must have looked at 50 - 55 is the usual 'limit. The factor in all the other 'requirements' and, well ...

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By *ardfun10Man
7 weeks ago

banbury

Hopefully we are never to old

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By *evonrobMan
7 weeks ago

Kingsbridge

"Hopefully we are never to old"

I’m older than you. Seem to be having a decent amount of fun! I do wish I was 30 though but that’s another story!

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By *7VYMan
7 weeks ago

Orbit

"Hi can I just ask is 69 to old for a male on here.having no luck about to give up. "

Nope, perhaps you're looking in the wrong place, or expecting too much of this site?

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By *ranny hunter OP Man
7 weeks ago

Durham

Any other free swingers sites

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

East Sussex

The truth is that the older you are the fewer opportunities you will have on fab. It's a good idea to adjust your expectations and ensure that you're contacting people who are looking for your age group.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Any other free swingers sites"

Not that we know of and it's against forum rules to mention other sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

To be honest "Hey grannies I'm great in bed. Women who know and love me don't want to fuck me. Come fuck me. Behind their back." is not a strong sales pitch at any age.

There are LOADS of older people who play. Some of them make it easier for themselves.

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By *rhugesMan
6 weeks ago

Cardiff

Guys you are not going to get any meets on here at all. Honestly I've given up just loot at the forum posts now

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Bristol

Oh hell no.

I quote often meet a guy in his mid 70's...

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By *23RouteCouple
6 weeks ago

Huddersfield

My wife likes older men !

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By *agatoXXXMan
6 weeks ago

Mordor

"Hi can I just ask is 69 to old for a male on here.having no luck about to give up. "

55 is too old

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
6 weeks ago

chichester

I have met loads of older men in saunas / nude beach they seem to do fine

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By *punk n gushCouple
6 weeks ago

new milton

Down where we are we struggle to find older men which is My preference I'm always told age is just a number so keep trying

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By *EX-SMan
6 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"Hi can I just ask is 69 to old for a male on here.having no luck about to give up. "
Hell no. Just a shame your not near me

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By *urbo321123Man
6 weeks ago

BEWDLEY

I've seen a few profiles where couples want a nice guy who is over 60 only.

It's not easy for any age if you are a single guy in here just because of the amount of competition.

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By *ene FairfaxMan
6 weeks ago

Dover

"Down where we are we struggle to find older men which is My preference I'm always told age is just a number so keep trying "
How old are you then as my real age is slightly more than my fab age (like many) pmsl

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
6 weeks ago

Northampton

Probably too old to wasting time on here.

Not too old to get out in the clubs and have a great time.

There’s a group of guys similar age at VA. We bump into them all the time and they are living their best lives

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By *hades Of GreyMan
6 weeks ago

North Leeds / LS20

"Hi can I just ask is 69 to old for a male on here. Having no luck about to give up. "

Your profile is the only thing that others can judge you by, perhaps yours needs some attention? There are definitely swingers out there who are into older guys, but to improve your meret rate go to a club.

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By *punk n gushCouple
6 weeks ago

new milton

"Down where we are we struggle to find older men which is My preference I'm always told age is just a number so keep trying How old are you then as my real age is slightly more than my fab age (like many) pmsl"

We're early 50s

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By *avexxMan
6 weeks ago

cheshire

on here op its to old just come on here for a bit of fun forums,,, like others have said visit clubs.

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By *ene FairfaxMan
6 weeks ago

Dover

We're early 50s"
same here which is no age at all, I still think I am in my 40s lol

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
6 weeks ago

Coventry

As a guy you're never too old to have no luck on here

On a serious note it's hard out here for guys in general. You're totally not too old because not everyone is that concerned about age and loads of people around your age still enjoying the scene (not necessarily through fab). But of course pragmatically speaking although your age is not a barrier it will limit your options (I think you know that). But doesn't mean there isn't fun out there to be had.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
6 weeks ago

Norwich

"I remember putting something similar on my status....a couple messaged me and said yes you are, I thought who made them the age police

You asked, they answered!

Or did you only want the right (for you) answer?

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By *punk n gushCouple
6 weeks ago

new milton

We're early 50s same here which is no age at all, I still think I am in my 40s lol

We wish we were younger

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By *ewbootsandpanties99Man
6 weeks ago

Darkest South East Surrey

"Hi can I just ask is 69 to old for a male on here.having no luck about to give up. "

You've had at least two meetings according to your verifications, that's more than most men on here.

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By *r TriomanMan
6 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Although it feels like Fab is no place for old men, I still persevere as its a good way of keeping in touch with the Swinging scene.

I haven't had a meet of fab in nearly a year but that's the thing about this site, things change all the time so I always feel that my luck will change too; also, some say "you make your own luck", which is why I also go to clubs.

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By *izandpaulCouple
6 weeks ago

merseyside

"Hi can I just ask is 69 to old for a male on here.having no luck about to give up. "

I'd recommend using FAB as a guide for socials, you will then enter the world of real meets and as a single fella be in a small minority, in the FAB chatters world you will be just one in a huge majority, got to give yourself the best chances swinging and life has to offer.

If you are presentable, chatty, not a limpet the real swinging world is a great place.

We've met a few gents over 60+ and they certainly get around.

One is at parties, socials, met him in France and Canaries he's also a font of knowledge on swinging places too.

Good luck.

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By *ene FairfaxMan
6 weeks ago

Dover

We're early 50s same here which is no age at all, I still think I am in my 40s lol

We wish we were younger "
I certainly had a lot of fun from my late 20s onwards but very comfortable in my age now. Hence still enjoying myself

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By *punk n gushCouple
6 weeks ago

new milton

We're early 50s same here which is no age at all, I still think I am in my 40s lol

We wish we were younger I certainly had a lot of fun from my late 20s onwards but very comfortable in my age now. Hence still enjoying myself

We been in and out the scene for 27 years but had more energy when younger so the scene was much better how much longer we can stay in the scene I don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Wife likes older gents

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Have had an amazing 10 years on here but approaching 60 and think it's getting time to retire gracefully lol

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By *eedsmale36Man
6 weeks ago

Leeds

"Hi can I just ask is 69 to old for a male on here.having no luck about to give up. "

Have you tried Saga holidays ?

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By *aTina HeadTurnerWoman
6 weeks ago

Travelling

Probably more to do with the fact you’re cheating on your partner than your age, unless they know you’re on here but I can’t see that being mentioned on your profile so many people will assume it’s not the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"Probably more to do with the fact you’re cheating on your partner than your age, unless they know you’re on here but I can’t see that being mentioned on your profile so many people will assume it’s not the case."

Think this is definitely an age posting rather than morality or judging one .....

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

There are definitely lots on here playing behind partners backs , both male and female so I cannot see that being a valid reason.

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By *avenjane7Couple
6 weeks ago

colne

Soon as I turned 60 we noticed we are not getting the interest from cpls or fems, plenty of single m though for the Mrs lol. I do feel fit people say I don't look 60, so it's just the number that I think kills it.

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
6 weeks ago

Norwich

I've had a few meets and some fun at a club, but agree it's not easy and get my fair share of rejections and no shows

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By *NormalMan01Man
6 weeks ago

Harrogate

*too old.

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By *erfHerder74Man
6 weeks ago

Greenock

No, I’ve had intercourse with a 69year old man

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Nowt wrong with 69

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