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What to take as a gift for a couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 weeks ago

Got my first meet at a couple’s house tonight. Met a good few people on here but always hosted or visited hotel rooms and got straight down to business.

I’m actually a bit nervous about it. Not about the meet itself but showing up at someone’s house, sitting chatting in the living room

living room etc.

What should I take? Wine, Flowers, a sexy gift for both of them?

Serious question and appreciate some ideas.

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By *inkyAlchemyCouple
6 weeks ago

Corby

I'd just recommended taking your own drinks and find out what drink they like and a bottle for them too. You don't need to go over the top!

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By *arla SwingerWoman
6 weeks ago

Somewhere

Do not take flowers

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By *eyond PurityCouple
6 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Just a bottle of something - we wouldn’t be bothered if you didn’t bring anything but it’s nice if you did.

Flowers/chocolates etc are not required

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 weeks ago

Thanks all

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By *bcplCouple
6 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

No gift needed at all don’t feel bad lol take a drink if you don’t want to go in empty handed lol

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By *he Silver FuxMan
6 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Bottle of wine anything else is going to be awkward

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
6 weeks ago

Coventry

I think the best gift you can bring is smelling nice, you're own condoms and you're own personal drink.

As for anything else not expected, although recognise the sentiment. But the trouble with a gift is it risks being misconstrued or just adding a slight awkwardness with some. However ever if you do, some disposable and non personal. Personally I'd say you can't go wrong with a nice big box of chocolates (with the added bonus you may get to share them later with them too).

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By *arla SwingerWoman
6 weeks ago

Somewhere


"I think the best gift you can bring is smelling nice, you're own condoms and you're own personal drink.

As for anything else not expected, although recognise the sentiment. But the trouble with a gift is it risks being misconstrued or just adding a slight awkwardness with some. However ever if you do, some disposable and non personal. Personally I'd say you can't go wrong with a nice big box of chocolates (with the added bonus you may get to share them later with them too)."

Each to their own but I'd view chocolates as weird Saying that I did take someone a book I'd bought them, so what the hell do I know

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By *he Silver FuxMan
6 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I think the best gift you can bring is smelling nice, you're own condoms and you're own personal drink.

As for anything else not expected, although recognise the sentiment. But the trouble with a gift is it risks being misconstrued or just adding a slight awkwardness with some. However ever if you do, some disposable and non personal. Personally I'd say you can't go wrong with a nice big box of chocolates (with the added bonus you may get to share them later with them too)."

I think chocolates is a bit like flowers - it’s like for the lady of the house… but you’re meeting a couple.

Just looking good, clean, presentable as said above.

Always ask if it’s a shoes off house straightaway

Just because the lady is wearing high heels doesn’t mean you can keep yours on too.

The other bit of advice…. It’s not every couple home meet but most of them…..Know when to leave, don’t be that guy that lingers beyond it being awkward. They may even offer a cup of tea or whatever but they’re just being polite, they need you gone so that they are still feeling it when they fuck each others brains out. You’ll know when sex with you has finished, grab your things and go and let them enjoy the most important bit for them… the time after you’ve gone..

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
6 weeks ago

Coventry

And the two above comments is why gifts are a bit of a minefield and safer not to. Just concentrate on yourself presentation. Because even with chocolates some find this strange or just see it as a gift for the lady.

Personally we'd be chuffed with some chocolates. I Mr would definitely consider it a gift for both of us not just a gift for the lady and we'd definitely share. Unless you handed them straight to Mrs and said this is for you, the I would be miffed

So I guess just play it safe and not bother. Although probably 9/10 times as long as its reasonably safe most would take a gift with the intension ment.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
6 weeks ago

Leeds

Just a bottle of something for you all, I find gifts a little strange, unless it's been discussed beforehand.

Mrs

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By *uksungCouple
6 weeks ago

wednesbury

Good bottle of bubbly for jen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
5 weeks ago

So - I took a bottle of champagne in the end and it was immediately popped and shared.

Thank you for all of the comments above.

I should add that we had a VERY lovely evening - thank you all for putting me at ease!

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