FabSwingers.com forum: Anal Lube

By *ewey1234 OP Man
7 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Me and a long time FWB are currently making a little bit of progress into the world of anal.

Admittedly we've only gone as far as to getting the head of my cock inside her and perhaps another half inch before it becomes to much. Stupidly we've repeatedly used a bit of spit as lube and think it's probably about time for an upgrade.

Anyone out there with some tips and tricks to make the process easier OR can recommend a good lube for us to use?

Thank you in advance. Anal is driving her wild but we are just frustrated that it always ends up being a quick play due to pain etc.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Herts

I use Lubido.

Key thing is once you’re in, stop for a minute and let her relax (while you’re in her I mean).

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By *nfinatefun8Couple
7 weeks ago

Hawyards Heath

pjur Back Door Relaxing -... https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B01GP0YWIO?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Absolutely the best one without doubt!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Herts

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By *ewey1234 OP Man
7 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"I use Lubido.

Key thing is once you’re in, stop for a minute and let her relax (while you’re in her I mean). "

Thank you for the suggestion. Do you prefer water based over silicone lube? I'll be honest I'm not very knowledgeable in the difference

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
7 weeks ago

chichester

I d glide is good I find

Or my usual trusy is called spunk lube. It’s a hybrid

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By *ewey1234 OP Man
7 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"pjur Back Door Relaxing -... https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B01GP0YWIO?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Absolutely the best one without doubt!"

I'd forgotten about this brand. I've used this many moons ago and can remember it being decent then.

I think the biggest battle is my girth. But hopefully I'm time she becomes used to it?..

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By *asepaul71Man
7 weeks ago

Buxton

Good old faithful KY jelly works as a great lube

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Herts

"I use Lubido.

Key thing is once you’re in, stop for a minute and let her relax (while you’re in her I mean).

Thank you for the suggestion. Do you prefer water based over silicone lube? I'll be honest I'm not very knowledgeable in the difference "

Personally I do just because water based is less chemical. Ultimately it’s what she feels comfortable with. Maybe get a water and a silicon based one snd try each - could be quite fun finding the perfect line

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Herts

"I use Lubido.

Key thing is once you’re in, stop for a minute and let her relax (while you’re in her I mean).

Thank you for the suggestion. Do you prefer water based over silicone lube? I'll be honest I'm not very knowledgeable in the difference

* perfect lube

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By *nfinatefun8Couple
7 weeks ago

Hawyards Heath

The silicon lasts so much longer and doesn’t break down and get tacky. I’d say for anal silicon is best… also the advice above… enter and hold and let her relax around you. Should be a little more successful then!

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By *dtanyaTV/TS
7 weeks ago

gallowayshire

Super slik water based is good

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By *astMeetsWestCouple
7 weeks ago

Bristol

WD40 does the trick. Can also use it for multiple other jobs around the house

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By *evilswhoDareCouple
7 weeks ago

West yorkshire

"WD40 does the trick. Can also use it for multiple other jobs around the house

Good for tight screws

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
7 weeks ago

London

Just a bit of spit? ouch...

I use liquid silk, I like it and it looks like cum. Win win

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By *p4itfilthMan
7 weeks ago

Leeds

This is great. Thee best. Or maybe ky classic

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By *ittynzWoman
7 weeks ago

Richmond

Im fair new to this myself and my fwb uses lube and nice finger or two to warm up area and prep for his cock and all in all it’s a pretty fucking amazing experience

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By *nalleesaMan
7 weeks ago

Bangor

Coconut oil...try it amazing

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By *atgirlknobinCouple
7 weeks ago

ish

Baby oil

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Darlaston

Water based libido anal ease it has a relaxant in it was what I use to use these days just a bit of man made spit does the job 😀

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By *ogan WillowCouple
7 weeks ago

Leeds

If unsure, or wanting more play before cock entry, try fingers. Maybe with clitoral stimulation too. Have lube, (KY) to hand.

When ready, penetrate, with the head only, wait to adjust to the sensation and then slide in gently. Go all the way and stop, wait, appreciate the anticipation of what is going to follow.

Consider clitoral play as you fuck.

Then, let the fun really begin!

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By *ilver_foxxx69Man
7 weeks ago

Falkirk

I’ve used coconut oil and normal lube in the past. One of the things I did when doing anal for the first time with a partner that was difficulty was lots of lube. She was on all fours and and I was playing with her behind and as she came from that I eased in to her as she was coming. Then it was just easing in and letting her relax till I was fully inside and then slowly built up till we were fucking hard

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
7 weeks ago

chichester

"Baby oil"

Baby oil erodes condoms over time though is issue. Well unless you are going raw then it’s great as lube yes

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
7 weeks ago

Norwichish

M normally so wet that we can use that

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By *enrythe8thMan
7 weeks ago

worthing

Hi all you amazingly sexy naughty rascals

I adore anal

Adore eating pussy and ass slot

Cant help myself

Butter is king

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By *enrythe8thMan
7 weeks ago

worthing

Hi all you amazingly sexy naughty rascals

I adore anal

Adore eating pussy and ass slot

Cant help myself

Butter is king

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By *aramel.desiresMan
7 weeks ago

London

Cold pressed virgin coconut oil, it even sounds exotic. Brilliant for cooking, massages, creaming your foot and as anal lube. Also has antibacterial properties too. Don't purchase from a health food store get it from Aldi or Lidl. £3.59ish.

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By *ddfellowMan
7 weeks ago

Newferry, wirral

Butter (if you know you know)

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
7 weeks ago

SW Scotland

Liquid silk for us

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By *avexxMan
7 weeks ago

cheshire

"Butter (if you know you know)"
,, clover

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By * and RCouple
7 weeks ago

lincoln

Fist it is definitely the best lube we have found. They do a range of water based and silicone lubes.

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By *rcuriousmouseMan
7 weeks ago

in town...

I"ve always found a good starting point is a nice oily massage, straddle her ass and help her relax. Before long, you'll both be naked and your cock will be sliding against her hole whilst you continue the massage....

Its a huge turn on for both, even without any penetration but if you wanna move forward fingers are great in this position too. Best of luck - use plenty of whatever lube you try!

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Leicester

Lubido for water based

ID Millennium for silicon

Prefer silicon

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By *bisfunMan
7 weeks ago

sutton

Water based lube is best love honey do some good lubes that have worked well for me

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By *oastofReadingMan
7 weeks ago

Reading

I've used water based and silicon based and they are both very good.

Definitely put some lube on your fingers and on the arse and work it with one, then two etc.

Then the bum should be ready for your cock with a bit of lube on the helmet and slowly go in. Take your time and gradually work up the pace that they are happy with.

If they need time, slow it down and rest. It's better to go easy than to jam it up there and start hammering away. Do that and she'll never let you near her arse again.

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