FabSwingers.com forum: how many veris

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering what most veris a guy\girl has on there account?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive seen 109 on a fem, mostly meets too. Fairly off putting tbh

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've seen a black guy with a big cock in London profile with 112. Mostly multiple club meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive seen 109 on a fem, mostly meets too. Fairly off putting tbh"
why off putting? They could be social or club meets so multiple people met at one event and over a few years ,

its not fair to judge without knowing the facts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jeez that's alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive seen 109 on a fem, mostly meets too. Fairly off putting tbhwhy off putting? They could be social or club meets so multiple people met at one event and over a few years ,

its not fair to judge without knowing the facts

I didn't see any that said clubs, I admit I didn't read every one but the ones I did were the "she came to my house" types.

There is a hell of a lot of women that say they dont want guts with huge veri lists on here so why should I get stick for posting that?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've seen a black guy with a big cock in London profile with 112. Mostly multiple club meets. "

And you felt the need to mention his colour and size of his cock why?!!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Ive seen 109 on a fem, mostly meets too. Fairly off putting tbhwhy off putting? They could be social or club meets so multiple people met at one event and over a few years ,

its not fair to judge without knowing the facts

I didn't see any that said clubs, I admit I didn't read every one but the ones I did were the "she came to my house" types.

There is a hell of a lot of women that say they dont want guts with huge veri lists on here so why should I get stick for posting that? "

There's also a good few women post that the amount if veris don't matter so I wouldn't say you were getting stick, just differing opinions as is the norm on the forums, think I've got 50 odd veris from the nearly 18 months I've been in site, mostly play and if I had veris for repeat meets and folk who don't leave veris and kept those from users who've left, I'd be nearer to 100 than 50 by now -if that puts someone off, fair enough, I'll never know unless they felt the need to contact me to berate me!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

For a supposedly liberal and open group of folk, that's quite judgemental.

You don't like how many veris someone has - you're either jealous they're getting meets, or you can choose not to meet them. Simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my verifications are club meets but they don't say that and I wasn't ‘giving you stick‘ just offering another opinion

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Ive seen 109 on a fem, mostly meets too. Fairly off putting tbh"

That's one of the filters I use. If some is put off by a female having a lot of veris, then I don't meet them.

I have a lot of veris, but I have seen profile which leave me in awe. I always think 'lucky them'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

211 we have just counted on our profile.most are from same folk we meet regular,others one off times that havnt turned into anything more,earliest meet is 2009 right up to present, if it puts people off fine don't message us,if its ok feel free to.this is a swingers website for swingers,and we are swingers who like to swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen a black guy with a big cock in London profile with 112. Mostly multiple club meets.

And you felt the need to mention his colour and size of his cock why?!!

He was being kind and helping other people find the man in question to double his veri's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive seen 109 on a fem, mostly meets too. Fairly off putting tbh"

curious as to why that's off putting on a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive seen 109 on a fem, mostly meets too. Fairly off putting tbhwhy off putting? They could be social or club meets so multiple people met at one event and over a few years ,

its not fair to judge without knowing the facts

I didn't see any that said clubs, I admit I didn't read every one but the ones I did were the "she came to my house" types.

There is a hell of a lot of women that say they dont want guts with huge veri lists on here so why should I get stick for posting that? "

Do you not think it's a tad hypocritical to be on a swinging site and then be critical of people for having meets?

Out of interest what is the cut off point when it changes from acceptable to off putting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i thought the name of the game on here was meeting u cant win ....no veris no meet ...too many veris no meet xx and veris are only applicable if posted never know exactely how many meets someone has had xx what i say meet them and find out for yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen a black guy with a big cock in London profile with 112. Mostly multiple club meets.

And you felt the need to mention his colour and size of his cock why?!!

He also mentioned he lives in london.. Yet u don't question that..

So I would say by mentioning that he is black with a big cock and in a large populated area is what has made him popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have seen a woman with 276 but was a few months ago so probably be over 300 hundred now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive seen 109 on a fem, mostly meets too. Fairly off putting tbhwhy off putting? They could be social or club meets so multiple people met at one event and over a few years ,

its not fair to judge without knowing the facts

I didn't see any that said clubs, I admit I didn't read every one but the ones I did were the "she came to my house" types.

There is a hell of a lot of women that say they dont want guts with huge veri lists on here so why should I get stick for posting that?

Do you not think it's a tad hypocritical to be on a swinging site and then be critical of people for having meets?

Out of interest what is the cut off point when it changes from acceptable to off putting?"

There has been a thread on this subject before.

For me I don't like high numbers as I'm looking for like minded people and that's not how I work..

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i thought the name of the game on here was meeting u cant win ....no veris no meet ...too many veris no meet xx and veris are only applicable if posted never know exactely how many meets someone has had xx what i say meet them and find out for yourself x"
I was chatting to a guy last night who has returned after a time away, im not sure if he wants to meet up or not anyway, when I said go and look at my veris he said he doesnt go by them he prefers to meet the person and make his own opinion. he said he saw lady with 103, said it put him off, they mostly are from repeat meets i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also someone could have loads of veris but if you actual read them most are from socials and social meets xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like too many veris as a preference, like everyone on here has preferences. Thats all I was saying.

I'm now getting messages to my inbox about this!

Im not the only one who feels this way as its now been show on this thread yet im the only one people are commenting on???

Gives you hope for the people of this world doesn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive seen 109 on a fem, mostly meets too. Fairly off putting tbh

curious as to why that's off putting on a sex site. "

I was just thinking the sane thing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering what most veris a guy\girl has on there account?"

Does it matter?

I've seen lots and I've seen about 5 someone with loads of veris may put me off but depends on the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember lots meets only of coffee and social meets doesn't always mean sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget that people can choose which veris they display so someone could have had 109 meets but only display 9 veris.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've seen a black guy with a big cock in London profile with 112. Mostly multiple club meets.

And you felt the need to mention his colour and size of his cock why?!!

He was being kind and helping other people find the man in question to double his veri's

I mentioned it just because I can....without any sneaky nasty negative jealous insinuating reason at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't forget that people can choose which veris they display so someone could have had 109 meets but only display 9 veris. "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I dont like too many veris as a preference, like everyone on here has preferences. Thats all I was saying.

I'm now getting messages to my inbox about this!

Im not the only one who feels this way as its now been show on this thread yet im the only one people are commenting on???

Don't worry, I got a comment too with a little crosspatch emoticon.

Gives you hope for the people of this world doesn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh the question should be how many is to many?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy had 109 verifications, im sure a lot of women will be put off too. Dont see an issue with what op said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy had 109 verifications, im sure a lot of women will be put off too. Dont see an issue with what op said. "

don't know. I know a guy with a lot of verifications, more than me if you count the time on site. Yet he has the women falling over themselves to meet him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy had 109 verifications, im sure a lot of women will be put off too. Dont see an issue with what op said.

don't know. I know a guy with a lot of verifications, more than me if you count the time on site. Yet he has the women falling over themselves to meet him"

Yeah im sure there are women who will still meet him but it would also put off many women I would have thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 2451.

I don't show them all, obviously.

Wouldn't want to look like a tart.

And besides - I did balls up on a few.

I kept writing "I met me today and had a great time with myself" and "Wow - you have to meet this guy - I'm amazing!!"

Schoolboy error!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive seen 109 on a fem, mostly meets too. Fairly off putting tbh

That's one of the filters I use. If some is put off by a female having a lot of veris, then I don't meet them.

I have a lot of veris, but I have seen profile which leave me in awe. I always think 'lucky them'."
We got lots of veris .its about fun .if you don't like it dont meet us I say.it is a site for adult fun after all not dating.lol.some of ours are socials but most are play veries.poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 2451.

I don't show them all, obviously.

Wouldn't want to look like a tart.

And besides - I did balls up on a few.

I kept writing "I met me today and had a great

time with myself" and "Wow - you have to meet

this guy - I'm amazing!!"

Schoolboy error!

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lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen 236 on one lady's profile. Admittedly I haven't read them but on quick glance they seem to be in groups of about up to 10 per date. Good on her and good luck I say. Not for me but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few on here above 200 although there is one well above 300 but as you can hide them who really knows who has what and does it really matter anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a swinging site, use it how you want to use it, if you meet different people all the time or have a select few you play with its upto you, each to there own.

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon

Oxymoron?..hundreds of veris/people are put off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people might think if theres hundreds of verifications then they have played with hundreds of people, there are profiles on here with only a few verifications but they have probably played with alot more than the profile would suggest. At the end of the day this is a swinging site so people cant be shocked when others swing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the flip side, if someone has hundreds of verification's would you not think ‘wow they must be amazing after all that practice‘

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I am surprised at some of the judgemental comments I thought swingers were supposed to be tolerant and open minded!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeez that's alot"

What is 'a lot'? You're on here as you want to be in the Swinging World, are you not? You are here to have sex with a wide variety of others, are you not?

I have a little surprise for you - so is everyone else on here, and lots of them are making every effort to achieve that.

So, is it any surprise that someone may have a lot of veris on display on their profile? Not in my book. And does it matter over what time period they were accumulated? No.

And have you ever stopped to consider that VISIBLE veris are absolutely NO indication of the truth? A person/couple showing ONE veri 'may' have chosen not to show the other 500. That is entirely possible.

So how can you - and why should you - draw conclusions about anyone solely based on how many veris they chose - note! THEY CHOOSE - to display????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find huge numbers of verifications off putting, and personally think around 10 or so should be fine - all you need is just enough to let prospective meets know you're genuine and worth meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I've seen, when people complain about the amount of veri's someone has its usually ringing alarm bells signalling someone who is here for the wrong reasons. There are several I've come across who seem to treat it more as a dating site than a swinging site. It's one thing to get to know the basics about someone but some of these people want to get to know everything about you.... If I wanted that I'd join a dating site :/

At the end of the day whether someone shows 1 veri or 100 on there profile it means nothing. For starters who's to say they haven't met a lot more than that but have chosen not to show the majority? What about the people we meet away from this site?!

I seem to get turned down a lot because of the veri I have on my profile, she has openly met a lot. I don't have a problem with that because even if she (or anyone else) had been having bareback sex with these people because when it comes to me, I always play safe so I'm not going to catch anything that I can pass on to anyone else. It's hypocracy at its best.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"If a guy had 109 verifications, im sure a lot of women will be put off too. Dont see an issue with what op said. "

And some won't (I've played with and verified the London guy mentioned previously with 100+ veris). I don't take issue with the OP, I'm just adding my tuppence worth into the mix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do people actually count the numbers of veris on other people's profiles?

I see numbers like 103, 109, 236.... that's very accurate lol

I dare you to count mine and get the correct number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find huge numbers of verifications off putting, and personally think around 10 or so should be fine - all you need is just enough to let prospective meets know you're genuine and worth meeting."

Sounds like your ego can't cope with the possibility you won't measure up to other meets someone has had. Someone leaving and returning could have had more meets or someone hiding many but you are obviously intimidated by them.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"On the flip side, if someone has hundreds of verification's would you not think ‘wow they must be amazing after all that practice‘

or a bit 'shagged out'..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do people actually count the numbers of veris on other people's profiles?

I see numbers like 103, 109, 236.... that's very accurate lol

I dare you to count mine and get the correct number

Next thing we'll see in profiles is 'Will only meet people with less than 10 verifications'. And of course, that one wouldn't be open to abuse, would it...?????

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Can't say i go round counting, whats on show isnt a true representation anyway as people have the choice to not show some if they wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was messed about by someone who has 19 on their profile so they are not always an indication of a person being genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive seen 109 on a fem, mostly meets too. Fairly off putting tbh"

I bet it wouldn't be off putting if you had that many women wanting to meet you

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"do people actually count the numbers of veris on other people's profiles?

I see numbers like 103, 109, 236.... that's very accurate lol

I dare you to count mine and get the correct number

There is a bit on your profile that tells others how many verifs you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do people actually count the numbers of veris on other people's profiles?

I see numbers like 103, 109, 236.... that's very accurate lol

I dare you to count mine and get the correct number

There is a bit on your profile that tells others how many verifs you have

Is there?? I never knew that! Where is it?

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Ive seen 109 on a fem, mostly meets too. Fairly off putting tbhwhy off putting? They could be social or club meets so multiple people met at one event and over a few years ,

its not fair to judge without knowing the facts

I didn't see any that said clubs, I admit I didn't read every one but the ones I did were the "she came to my house" types.

There is a hell of a lot of women that say they dont want guts with huge veri lists on here so why should I get stick for posting that?

Do you not think it's a tad hypocritical to be on a swinging site and then be critical of people for having meets?

Out of interest what is the cut off point when it changes from acceptable to off putting?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found the bit where it says number of published verifications but not the total number.

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport

I'm more of a Find em, Fuck em, Forget em sort of girl. I ain't looking for a soul mate or getting to know someone better. So I just class someone with a large amount of veries as a player, using the site in the way it was designed to be used.

Jenny.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"I've found the bit where it says number of published verifications but not the total number."

Jeez, so you want to know their inside leg measurements too?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"I've found the bit where it says number of published verifications but not the total number."

That's only available to Platinum Supporters and above - I've read a few real stinkers, it's no wonder folk don't display them all

And if you think hiding your profile stops us seeing what you've got...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Are people genuinely surprised at attitudes given the number of profiles with "not hardened swingers like some on here" and "not looking to sleep with the whole of Fab?"

Verifications only put me off if the person has 100 verifications...from the same person: well that's not entirely true, also if they've met someone I don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with crystal wheels.. This is a swinging site and not a dating site.. If a person has one verification or 150 what's the difference? If I look at a profile and I'm interested in the person/persons it doesn't matter to me how many veris they may have accuired. As long as they meet my standards and tick my boxes..

Some people have more spare time for meets than others too.. which makes a huge difference!!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

If anyone is put off by my veris then they are not the kind of person I would want to meet. So, in a way, they act like another kind of filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have 3 on show, i could have 100 hidden....i mean i dont but you would never know

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Ive seen one with a good 150 meets + .. I hotlisted her and told her so in anticipation of potentially meeting. She blocked me for being a stalker at my 1st message lol

bet 1/2 of them weren't worth the shag - not that im bitter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We really do have 154 ...... and hide them because the profile looks ridiculously long.

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