FabSwingers.com forum: Cannot accommodate cannot travel

By *ay40x OP Man
13 weeks ago

Bromley

How does that even work? I’m intrigued…

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By *nesCouple
13 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams

It means he doesn’t want his wife to find out.

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By *opman121Man
13 weeks ago

stoke on trent

Never get a reply when I see it on there profile , I ask how do u meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"It means he doesn’t want his wife to find out. "

Lol, good point. 😅

A lot of CACT on single women's profiles too, and I always wondered how it works...

Do they expect to be picked up and dropped off (if so, would it still count as "travel"?)? Quick shag behind the local Budgens, walking distance? Online/cam only?

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't think it's that difficult to understand really, they don't drive so need to meet local - club/hotel/yours.

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By *ay40x OP Man
13 weeks ago

Bromley

"I don't think it's that difficult to understand really, they don't drive so need to meet local - club/hotel/yours.

Then that would involve some form of travel surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Can only meet somewhere between their front garden and Tescos car park.

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By *onnynclaireCouple
13 weeks ago

Reading

It would be better if there was a “willing to travel 20 miles” for example.

We can travel here and there but not willing to spend an hour or so driving somewhere to be let down, made to feel uneasy etc and then head home again.

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By *ay40x OP Man
13 weeks ago

Bromley

"Can only meet somewhere between their front garden and Tescos car park."

Brilliant

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

"I don't think it's that difficult to understand really, they don't drive so need to meet local - club/hotel/yours.

Then that would involve some form of travel surely? "

If you are getting extremely picky, travelling would include walking to a room for sex, but let's have some common sense here, it really isn't hard to understand.

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By *ongAndThick123Man
13 weeks ago

Leeds

It means only meeting locally.

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By *ellhungvweMan
13 weeks ago

Cheltenham

It means don’t bother wasting your time on them because they will just end up wasting yours.

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By *izzy69Man
13 weeks ago

London

"It means only meeting locally. "

This! There should be a third option of "local" or perhaps a mile radius option where you can enter a number

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
13 weeks ago

Sheffield

To me it would mean local, or clubs.

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By *iss DevilWoman
13 weeks ago

Bedford

I currently have that on my profile because I am not meeting. When/if I start meeting again, I would probably keep it the same as I'm mostly interested in meeting at a club. Only once I know I can trust the person, I'd be happy to accommodate.

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By *ndianLuxCouple
13 weeks ago

West midlands

Means time wasters.

Ask them about meet and they will go round and round the chat. lol

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By *ay40x OP Man
13 weeks ago

Bromley

"Means time wasters.

Ask them about meet and they will go round and round the chat. lol "

Totally agree

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By *olly MistlehoeWoman
13 weeks ago

Somewhere

I have can travel on mine because I can up on local transport. However, apparently even putting that I can't drive on my bio doesn't stop people expecting it. Had a few folk seem to think it'd be perfectly reasonable to expect me to fund a taxi 30-40mins distance either way... Which I'm not going to do 😅

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By *uckfunCouple
13 weeks ago

North Coast

Local area meets only, won’t/cant travel any distance.

Hope that helps

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By *uckfunCouple
13 weeks ago

North Coast

Then surely he would travel rather than meeting locally?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
13 weeks ago

chichester

"It means don’t bother wasting your time on them because they will just end up wasting yours."

Generally accurate i find

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
13 weeks ago

Maidstone

I love it when people are confused by this. Means my job is done and the profile works as intended

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By *ashful_at_firstMan
13 weeks ago

Canterbury

Bit of a Catch 22, if you put Can`t accom, everyone assumes don`t want the wife to know, if you put Can (which I can but in hotels, my partner doesn`t know) then the assumption is that people expect to come round any time...

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By *izzy69Man
13 weeks ago

London

"I love it when people are confused by this. Means my job is done and the profile works as intended

There's only one word for you - EVIL! Evil I tell ya!

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By *heOneAndOnly666Man
13 weeks ago

Exmouth

I would see that as they require being picked up and taken somewhere, and then dropped off again.

Can't travel, they don't have a car or want to use public transport etc.

That's my theory anyway

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By *nalleesaMan
13 weeks ago

Northwich

"Can only meet somewhere between their front garden and Tescos car park."
lol made me smile xx

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By *umblefunMan
13 weeks ago

London/ South East

"Can only meet somewhere between their front garden and Tescos car park.lol made me smile xx"

Maybe try doggy style in a shopping trolley?

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By *irldnCouple
13 weeks ago

Brighton

It means local only but not in their house. Simple really!

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

It's a useful filter for fantasists, cammers, people who have sex with people they wouldn't want in their home AND wouldn't visit the home of, and those who interpret forms in incompatible ways.

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By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Mayfair

Cannot accommodate is self explanatory. Cannot travel means that they do have the ability to leave their home and socialise/meet within their locale. However they are not willing or able to travel further afield or miles and miles away. Makes sense really.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
13 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I see it as they can travel but maybe rely on public transport or maybe they just meet in clubs.

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By *arry monk40Man
13 weeks ago

Telford

Up against lamppost end of street

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
13 weeks ago

near you...

It means hotel. It always means hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Because we only meet people at clubs.

If we put "can travel" we will get asked to go to peoples houses. This way it is nice and clear that we wont host and wont travel to anyone.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
13 weeks ago

Norwich

" but let's have some common sense here, it really isn't hard to understand.

This

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By *amantha_NiteTV/TS
13 weeks ago

The Lake District

"How does that even work? I’m intrigued…"

Its a tactic used to stop people pressurising when they point out "your profile says you DO accomadate or DO travel,so they assume they must accomadate or travel to everyone who contacts them

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By *rightonsteveMan
13 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"How does that even work? I’m intrigued…"

They shag on their back doorstep

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By *eyeYCouple
13 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

"It means he doesn’t want his wife to find out. "

That! Lol

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By *riel13Woman
13 weeks ago

Northampton

Local... Not at theirs

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By *hundercat85Man
13 weeks ago

Grimsby

It means they can do either if circumstances allow but not to be expected by default

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By *he Silver FuxMan
13 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"Can only meet somewhere between their front garden and Tescos car park."

Between the bins at the back lane.

Remember, If they have to use their mobility scooter it counts as ‘travel’

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By *he Silver FuxMan
13 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"I would see that as they require being picked up and taken somewhere, and then dropped off again.

Can't travel, they don't have a car or want to use public transport etc.

That's my theory anyway"

Well, you’re wrong, it actually means that their Ankle Tag will go off if they stray too far from their designated ‘home’.

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
13 weeks ago

south coast IOW

I put I can travel. I also say clearly I have to get a ferry as I’m on an island. I still get guys 100 miles away expecting me to pop round at midnight. Unfortunately my magic carpet is a bugger to start in the rain.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
13 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

Means they're in prison

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By *he Silver FuxMan
13 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"Means they're in prison "

“Let’s meet at some bars near me”

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By *eediousMan
13 weeks ago

Smallville

It means they are either here to chat, maybe meet at clubs only, which translates to having your time wasted if you don’t want to do those same things.

Lots of fun people on here who will give you unforgettable experiences; focus on those and it’s all good.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
13 weeks ago

Chatham

They can't accommodate and don't travel past local area, maybe?

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By *heOneAndOnly666Man
11 weeks ago

Exmouth

Hey!! I once had both for a while and I don't have or never had an ankle tag! 😂🤣

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By *orphia2003Woman
11 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

They are looking at meeting locally at hotels / events / clubs etc.

I don't accommodate but when meeting I was happy to travel locally, but as I don't drive I'm reliant on public transport. If someone else is going the travelling, I was happy to pay for hotel.

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