FabSwingers.com forum: Trying catch a break

By *enfella4u OP Man
over a year ago

staffs

Hi fellow fabbers this year has been hell and I was sat thinking’s guys try so hard at times with messages etc, and get no reply and 90% of the time not even a reply how can we better ourselves in order to try get some meets as I know I’m very genuine and discreet and clean and typical male always horny ha ha. Very good at massages and very good with my tongue too. Any advice given would be appreciated or even if there is a horny female or couple out there that wud be up

For some fun message me let’s chat xxx

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By *assion8Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Profile text looks good, my only bit of advice would be to ditch all the cock pics and videos (or make them for friends only).

First impressions are everything on here, and if anyone checks out your profile will see all the cock pics and not even bother scrolling down to the text.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Stop relying on fab solely. Go to a social or a club. This goes for all, not just single men. Attraction is key for most.

Never understand people that say they are genuine and respectful as that should be a given.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I think the fact that you ask how we can better ourselves probably sums up where you are going wrong.

The problem with threads like these is that everyone who comments will have different suggestions and it then becomes a box ticking exercise.

You will never appeal to everyone no matter what you do and therefore asking what we can do to better ourselves rather than just focusing on yourself and standing out from the crowd will only lead to further disappointment.

If people don't respond to your messages it often has little or nothing to do with the message and more to do with the fact that they don't see anything that appeals to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile for me is way too cock heavy, yes you need one for the sex but we need to like the rest of you too.

If your starting messages with sexy talk you probably won't get far.

Your a penis in a sea of 284020 penis what makes you stand out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop relying on fab solely. Go to a social or a club. This goes for all, not just single men. Attraction is key for most.

Never understand people that say they are genuine and respectful as that should be a given. "

I can safely say this and the other advice about so many cock pics is the best. Socials are amazing to get started but I myself find that I’m very.. shy and clunky at the best of times in social interactions. Joys of being neurodivergent. I do have a couple friends though who want to help once I’m ready to start going to events again so that’s a Positive!

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