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By *lumb-man OP   Man
7 weeks ago

west sussex

I’m sure it’s not just me but I find it so difficult sending that initial message any advice is welcome.( it maybe down to my anxiety)

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

Obviously keep it polite, reference something within their profile - something that intrigues you, something that interests you, and ask them an open-ended question that necessitates more than a yes or no answer.

Don't message indiscriminately. Be genuine. 🌿🌿

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By *lumb-man OP   Man
7 weeks ago

west sussex


"Obviously keep it polite, reference something within their profile - something that intrigues you, something that interests you, and ask them an open-ended question that necessitates more than a yes or no answer.

Don't message indiscriminately. Be genuine. 🌿🌿"

I do all the above and without much success in getting replies maybe it’s just me ha ha

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
7 weeks ago

Inverness


"Obviously keep it polite, reference something within their profile - something that intrigues you, something that interests you, and ask them an open-ended question that necessitates more than a yes or no answer.

Don't message indiscriminately. Be genuine. 🌿🌿"

Good advice 👌

Especially the open-ended question, give them a reason to reply.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
7 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Obviously keep it polite, reference something within their profile - something that intrigues you, something that interests you, and ask them an open-ended question that necessitates more than a yes or no answer.

Don't message indiscriminately. Be genuine. 🌿🌿

I do all the above and without much success in getting replies maybe it’s just me ha ha "

Then I guess they're just not that into you 💜

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By *lumb-man OP   Man
7 weeks ago

west sussex


"Obviously keep it polite, reference something within their profile - something that intrigues you, something that interests you, and ask them an open-ended question that necessitates more than a yes or no answer.

Don't message indiscriminately. Be genuine. 🌿🌿

I do all the above and without much success in getting replies maybe it’s just me ha ha

Then I guess they're just not that into you 💜"

Would certainly seem that way

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By *yreGuy99Man
7 weeks ago

Doesn't matter

I'm somewhat the same. I personally have given up on messages/meets and now just use forums here and there.

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By *23RouteCouple
7 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Just say hi !

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