FabSwingers.com forum: First time with a couple

By *heekyChapUK OP Man
14 weeks ago

South East

Good evening fellow fabbers! Hoping a few of you guys may be able to give me some advice.

I’ve got my first meet with a couple (MF) lined up for next week. I’m a confident guy and I’m sure I won’t be shy in the company of another man but I want to ensure I meet the expectations of my companions for the night. Is there anything in particular that couples would perhaps expect from me, which I might not be so accustomed to from a 1 on 1 meet? All support and pointers is much appreciated

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By *layfullsamMan
14 weeks ago

Solihull

"Good evening fellow fabbers! Hoping a few of you guys may be able to give me some advice.

Talk to the couple about the meet and what they’re looking for might be a good idea ?

Other more experienced might know better

Good luck

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By *heekyChapUK OP Man
14 weeks ago

South East

Thanks Sam, we have spoke of course. I just don’t want to come across like a complete plonker with things that would usually go unsaid.

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
14 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

So long as your not a dickhead

Just be yourself, don't push or rush things,

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By *heekyChapUK OP Man
14 weeks ago

South East

Thanks guys!

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By *heekyChapUK OP Man
13 weeks ago

South East

The meet went great, thanks for everyone’s help!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
13 weeks ago

Coventry

"The meet went great, thanks for everyone’s help! "

That's great to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"The meet went great, thanks for everyone’s help! "

Good man.

I’ve only done it once and was really respectful of the man as he was in charge and of course, his wife.

Glad you enjoyed it. .

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By *ave1976XXXMan
13 weeks ago

newmarket

"Good evening fellow fabbers! Hoping a few of you guys may be able to give me some advice.

The best advice I can give is the advice I was given when I started to play with couples. Don’t over think, don’t stress and enjoy!!

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By *heekyChapUK OP Man
13 weeks ago

South East

Can’t wait to find another couple

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
13 weeks ago

Coventry

To continue this topic for us:

Firstly and naturally be clean and fresh. Bring some protection (of the rubber sort, not a knuckle duster or tasser).

Although both our intrest is the Mrs remember Mr has to like you, know he can work well with you and believe your worthy of his good woman who he adores. So remember your attention to building raport with Mr is just as important as with Mrs.

Again we agree, dont over think, just come to us as you. Meet us, both of us with respect on a human level as equals. Be open and honest with us as we would you. We're looking for people who'll work well with us as a team and who can communicate well. Don't try and tell us what we want to hear or be fake or be an act. Just be genuine you and tell us what you think and want too. And be receptive to us and know how to listen/read the room (naturally no one is a mind reader and why honest communication all round is key). We want people who can express their needs and we want them to get what they want out of this too.

Hopefully if everyone feels comfortable around each other and free we'll all have a great time that flows naturally and fulfill everyone's desires.

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By *heekyChapUK OP Man
13 weeks ago

South East

Thanks so much for your informative reply, I’m sure this will help not just myself, but many others aswell x

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
13 weeks ago

near you...

Be on time

Be respectful

Bring condoms

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By *r_LickCouple
13 weeks ago

aberdeen

"Good evening fellow fabbers! Hoping a few of you guys may be able to give me some advice.

I know when we’ve met single guys, I’ve spoken to them for a while to build up trust and see that we all are suited to each other and happy that he knows what we are looking for and our boundaries and we listen to him to see what his expectations are for a couple meet, then if everyone is happy we arranged the meet and there was no

Awkwardness when we met. We’ve only had 4 meets with guy’s in the past but we all had an amazing time and each one of the guys asked to to meet again so they must have been happy with the meet so we must have done something right