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"People seem to focus on the message when the truth is, it comes down to attraction. You could send the most perfect message but if they don't find you attractive, they won't reply. The best thing you can do is only contact people who's profile actually resonates with what you and they are looking for, you meet the right people that way. " In agreement with this. Although sometimes I do look at some profiles and wonder how on earth anyone found them attractive. But hey each to their own | |||
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"When I get a message I go straight to their profile and look, their profile not the message determines if I reply or not. I wouldn't to you for several reasons. You haven't asked for profile advice so I won't give it. " You look absolutely stunning by the way x | |||
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"When I get a message I go straight to their profile and look, their profile not the message determines if I reply or not. I wouldn't to you for several reasons. You haven't asked for profile advice so I won't give it. You look absolutely stunning by the way x" Thank you 🙃 | |||
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"People seem to focus on the message when the truth is, it comes down to attraction. You could send the most perfect message but if they don't find you attractive, they won't reply. The best thing you can do is only contact people who's profile actually resonates with what you and they are looking for, you meet the right people that way. " Exactly this. If we're going to message someone : A, We look at their profile. B, Are they looking for the same as us? C, are we a match on looks/appearance? If all that matches, we'll most probably message. If not, we scroll on. And it's exactly the same when we receive a message. | |||
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"Main thing is don’t let it affect your self esteem. You can still be desirable and get no interest on here. There’s lots of competition, a lot of swingers are not always looking for single guys and it’s not always easy for peoples true personality and strengths to shine through a profile. I had a couples profile on here a couple of years ago, and whilst we had loads of interest and conversations we never met anyone off here. It’s not as simple as you think getting 4 people to agree to meet for sex. So don’t feel bad! Get yourself to a club or a social event and you’ll have better luck " Wise words there | |||
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"People seem to focus on the message when the truth is, it comes down to attraction. You could send the most perfect message but if they don't find you attractive, they won't reply. The best thing you can do is only contact people who's profile actually resonates with what you and they are looking for, you meet the right people that way. " This! I think it helps once you’ve had a few meets and get verified. Some people don’t want to engage. Maybe they don’t find you attractive or interesting. | |||
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