FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters

By *otty Biker OP Man
15 weeks ago

Warrington

Is it just me ? Our is fab getting worse for time wasters, everyone moans about single guys but honestly ladies and couples seem to be as bad ... I'm sure it used to be better ?

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By *carlettxWoman
15 weeks ago

Essex

There’s always been time wasters

One of the reasons I meet at clubs. Serious contenders don’t mind and if they don’t show I still have a blast

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

She has a blast...•°*

........ ⬆️

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By *aomilatteCouple
15 weeks ago

Midlands

It seems exactly the same as 6 years ago to us. What you may not realise is when you're exchanging messages with a couple you're probably exchanging messages with the Man, it's likely his partner has no knowledge of the messages. We also go to clubs and have occasional real fun without the pointless message ping pong 🏓

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By *ubmissive guyMan
15 weeks ago

Liverpool

I don't understand time wasters. I mean you go through all the effort, find someone, arrange a meet and then back out. What happens in that time of chatting and arranging a meet and actually meeting ? do they have a play and lose interest. Its like doing the Lottery for years you finally win then dont pick up your prize

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Some are picture collectors. They want the sexy chat of what we will do when you meet up and then don't meet because generally they aren't who they say they are.

Loads of couples are just men.

And single woman seem to be men

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
15 weeks ago

Leeds

Don't think it's got any worse, people get branded a time waster because they've chatted and decided no you aren't for me, which is ridiculous.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
15 weeks ago

Sheffield

"There’s always been time wasters

One of the reasons I meet at clubs. Serious contenders don’t mind and if they don’t show I still have a blast

My approach also. I don’t rely on fab for meeting people.

And never underestand those that do, then complain about it.

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By *andD300Couple
15 weeks ago

london

It might help though if the people asking in a message read the profiles properly.

We recently recieved a message from a couple nearish to us and we (thought) we had a good connection.

The guy then asked D if he would fuck his wife while he fucked me. D explained more than once that we’re not swingers but the guy just kept pushing with the questions. Imagine meeting them in a club!!

We don’t like to block people but we did on this occasion.

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By *andKCouple
15 weeks ago

Wrea Green

"Is it just me ? Our is fab getting worse for time wasters, everyone moans about single guys but honestly ladies and couples seem to be as bad ... I'm sure it used to be better ?

What do you consider to be time wasting OP? X

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By *havenhaven2Man
15 weeks ago

Perth

"Some are picture collectors. They want the sexy chat of what we will do when you meet up and then don't meet because generally they aren't who they say they are.

Loads of couples are just men.

And single woman seem to be men "

Exactly, I can normally tell by the way a chat is going if it’s a guy pretending to be a girl

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By *havenhaven2Man
15 weeks ago

Perth

For the love of me I can’t understand why guys pretend to be women while chatting on here!!!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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15 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Is it just me ? Our is fab getting worse for time wasters, everyone moans about single guys but honestly ladies and couples seem to be as bad ... I'm sure it used to be better ?

What do you consider to be time wasting OP? X"

This is the important question!! 💯

To some, just being turned down after a few messages is timewasting. 🤷‍♂️

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By *osey WalesMan
15 weeks ago

La La Land

"There’s always been time wasters

One of the reasons I meet at clubs. Serious contenders don’t mind and if they don’t show I still have a blast

Agree.

Fab is just one of many tools to meet people. I use fab mainly to keep track of socials and club nights.

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By *carlettxWoman
15 weeks ago

Essex

"There’s always been time wasters

One of the reasons I meet at clubs. Serious contenders don’t mind and if they don’t show I still have a blast

My approach also. I don’t rely on fab for meeting people.

And never underestand those that do, then complain about it."

That’s right , it’s a platform for finding out what’s going on etc

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By *carlettxWoman
15 weeks ago

Essex

"There’s always been time wasters

One of the reasons I meet at clubs. Serious contenders don’t mind and if they don’t show I still have a blast

Agree.

Fab is just one of many tools to meet people. I use fab mainly to keep track of socials and club nights.

Exactly what I do now

I hate endless chat on here as I get bored with chatting about what they are going to do to me BS

Come and impress me in person

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By *iss DevilWoman
15 weeks ago

Bedford

"It might help though if the people asking in a message read the profiles properly.

This, very much so! Am I classed as a time waster if I point out to people who message me that I'm not currently meeting and to read my profile? If people read profiles in the first place, they'd save themselves a lot of unnecessary grief.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
15 weeks ago

Stoke

"There’s always been time wasters

One of the reasons I meet at clubs. Serious contenders don’t mind and if they don’t show I still have a blast

We're pretty much now on the same page these days

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By *carlettxWoman
15 weeks ago

Essex

"There’s always been time wasters

One of the reasons I meet at clubs. Serious contenders don’t mind and if they don’t show I still have a blast

We're pretty much now on the same page these days

Just is so much easier isn’t it ?

(Your pics are 🔥 btw)

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By *andD300Couple
15 weeks ago

london

"There’s always been time wasters

One of the reasons I meet at clubs. Serious contenders don’t mind and if they don’t show I still have a blast

We're pretty much now on the same page these days

Just is so much easier isn’t it ?

(Your pics are 🔥 btw) "

So is your video. D

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By *ikeC81Man
15 weeks ago

harrow

I think some people would consider me a timewaster as I don’t ask people if they would be interested in playing. So end up chatting loads

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By *endalshaggersCouple
15 weeks ago

Kendal

It all depends on how you view it to be honest.

Some people genuinely do seem to like talking the talk but can't/won't walk the walk. Some people like to meet exclusively in clubs or other settings, so if your're not up for that then seems pointless messaging in the first place. Others may want to chat for a long time to build up confidence/trust.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
15 weeks ago

Stoke

"There’s always been time wasters

One of the reasons I meet at clubs. Serious contenders don’t mind and if they don’t show I still have a blast

We're pretty much now on the same page these days

Just is so much easier isn’t it ?

(Your pics are 🔥 btw) "

Thank you for the compliment, and likewise

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By *otty Biker OP Man
15 weeks ago

Warrington

"Some are picture collectors. They want the sexy chat of what we will do when you meet up and then don't meet because generally they aren't who they say they are.

Loads of couples are just men.

And single woman seem to be men "

Yeah that's very true, had a number of so called couples who turned out to be single gay men, who think they'll somehow talk a straight guy into bed ...durrr !

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By *otty Biker OP Man
15 weeks ago

Warrington

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