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By *anchesterGuy1 OP   Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester

So I have often wondered about this,

I know that most accounts on here are accessed by both of the couple, but who first broached the subject of this sort of lifestyle?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
7 weeks ago

Norwich

A fwb that we've known for nearly 20 years told us about Fab.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
7 weeks ago

Leeds

We both did, we had the talk about fantasies and we came here.

We have our couples profile & I have this to meet women.

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By *anchesterGuy1 OP   Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester


"We both did, we had the talk about fantasies and we came here.

We have our couples profile & I have this to meet women.

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That interesting,

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By *bflirtyCouple
7 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

Used to use the other site beginning with S but when we went to clubs everyone was saying they were on Fabs. This was many years ago and the other site has really gone down hill now.

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By *nesCouple
7 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams


"Used to use the other site beginning with S but when we went to clubs everyone was saying they were on Fabs. This was many years ago and the other site has really gone down hill now."

Same as above… and from MK too!

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
7 weeks ago

Ipswich

We had a conversation very early on in pur relationship about our kinks. Mr said group sex. A month later Mrs suggested we create a profile here and explore.

Honesty from the outset

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By *andPextraCouple
7 weeks ago

North West

Watched a documentary on ch5 about clubs and thought it would be a good thing to try once. 40 odd club visits later ended up on here to try to control the quality of who we can engage with, as clubs can be hot and miss. Weirdly though we still seem to have more joy at clubs

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By *cott73Man
7 weeks ago

brighton

They came looking and they found me (they didn't)

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By *ap-scarCouple
7 weeks ago

Sleaford

Always talked about imagining someone joining us whilst we were having sex and thought why not.....

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By *ink and inkedCouple
7 weeks ago

Essex

We met at a swinging club 9 years ago

It was instant attraction

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By *litalicious_CoupleCouple
7 weeks ago

Durham City

After talking with good friends who had dipped their toes around 10 years ago. Then we found PDI by accident and the inquisitive thoughts grew. It's taken many years and lots of conversations but we decided to give it a go.

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By *uxom redCouple
7 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

I Red was sorting a threesome out for Dicks 40th ,stayed here since .

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By *rJandMrsJCouple
7 weeks ago

Hyde

We ended up on a app that asked sexy questions to get to know about the others sexual thoughts and boundaries and ended up here after one of the questions was, would you go to a sex club.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
7 weeks ago

Manchester

We knew each other vaguely for a number of years. At some point I mentioned that I had been involved in the swinging scene with a previous girlfriend. Little realising it hooked her curiosity.

She seemed to me to be a very conservative but incredibly beautiful kind of girl at that time. Little did I realise how depraved her fantasies were.

Once we started dating she literally begged me to treat her like a slut and let others use her body. Even I was shocked at what she was prepared to do!

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By *otyorkshire01Couple
7 weeks ago

Perth, Australia

We had a naughty Twitter account and we got messages asking if we were on fab.

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By *aggy dollsCouple
7 weeks ago

Bradford

We we're both on here as singles but met on tinder.

Mr H

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By *alandNitaCouple
7 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I was looking for golf instruction...

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By *rsMxCouple
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

G was on the scene before we met....he introduced me to Fab and I've never looked back

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By *anchesterGuy1 OP   Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester


"We had a conversation very early on in pur relationship about our kinks. Mr said group sex. A month later Mrs suggested we create a profile here and explore.

Honesty from the outset"

That's a way that I tried to make it happen, I think that would be the most natural way

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By *unglevipsCouple
7 weeks ago

Somerset

When we became interested, lots of internet searching for the most popular site…

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By *anchesterGuy1 OP   Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester


"We we're both on here as singles but met on tinder.

Mr H "

Wow really, so you found out after you met on tinder that you we both on here too?

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By *anchesterGuy1 OP   Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester


"We had a naughty Twitter account and we got messages asking if we were on fab. "

Guilty as chartered I also previously had a naughty twitter account for years, it is what started my curiosity for this sort of life style many moons ago

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By *anchesterGuy1 OP   Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester


"We knew each other vaguely for a number of years. At some point I mentioned that I had been involved in the swinging scene with a previous girlfriend. Little realising it hooked her curiosity.

She seemed to me to be a very conservative but incredibly beautiful kind of girl at that time. Little did I realise how depraved her fantasies were.

Once we started dating she literally begged me to treat her like a slut and let others use her body. Even I was shocked at what she was prepared to do!"

I bet that was a great night though when she asked lol

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By *heFooFuckersCouple
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

Lifestyle chat started after watching some dictionaries on channel 4 and 5. It was mainly suggested by Mrs, then agreed by Me

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By *anchesterGuy1 OP   Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester


"We ended up on a app that asked sexy questions to get to know about the others sexual thoughts and boundaries and ended up here after one of the questions was, would you go to a sex club. "

What's the app called, for research h purposes of course....

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By *olfandtazCouple
7 weeks ago

Bristol

I had been involved in the swingers lifestyle for years before I met taz, it came up at the same time we discussed BDSM, she wanted to try it all and now we are here

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By *anchesterGuy1 OP   Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester


"We met at a swinging club 9 years ago

It was instant attraction "

Well I imagine that is another natural way of it happening

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By *anchesterGuy1 OP   Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester


"Watched a documentary on ch5 about clubs and thought it would be a good thing to try once. 40 odd club visits later ended up on here to try to control the quality of who we can engage with, as clubs can be hot and miss. Weirdly though we still seem to have more joy at clubs "

I am trying with the idea of a club but not sure I am confident enough to attend on my own

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By *aggy dollsCouple
7 weeks ago

Bradford


"We we're both on here as singles but met on tinder.

Mr H

Wow really, so you found out after you met on tinder that you we both on here too?"

Yep and the kink lifestyle site too.

Mr H

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By *bostCouple
7 weeks ago

glasgow

All Mrs. Mr just along for the ride….

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By *anchesterGuy1 OP   Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester


"We we're both on here as singles but met on tinder.

Mr H

Wow really, so you found out after you met on tinder that you we both on here too?

Yep and the kink lifestyle site too.

Mr H "

Mr H you are both very lucky, keep the dream alive bud

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By *anchesterGuy1 OP   Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester


"All Mrs. Mr just along for the ride…."

So how did that all come about then

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago


"So I have often wondered about this,

I know that most accounts on here are accessed by both of the couple, but who first broached the subject of this sort of lifestyle?"

Great question, as a lot of couple would never do this to be fair.

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By *bostCouple
7 weeks ago

glasgow


"All Mrs. Mr just along for the ride….

So how did that all come about then "

We were lying in bed one night and Mrs just said she quite fancied women and would like to explore that. After more chat she decided we start a profile on here.

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By *rJandMrsJCouple
7 weeks ago

Hyde


"We ended up on a app that asked sexy questions to get to know about the others sexual thoughts and boundaries and ended up here after one of the questions was, would you go to a sex club.

What's the app called, for research h purposes of course...."

It's called spicer. Go to Google, type in spicer apk download. I can send you screenshots of what it looks like. It's amazing.

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By *neandone200Couple
7 weeks ago

Nottingham

we found cap dag (south of France) on our travels and that got us in to it, researched and visited a club on our return to the UK, somehow found that the club was on fab and that as they say is it.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
7 weeks ago

Oxford

Quite early on in or relationship, I (male half) got caught caught red handed having a bit of “Five on one” with my porn magazines. At first i was mortified and thought she would hit the roof but she didn’t, she simply sat on the bed, asked what i was looking at? What turned me on about the images ? And the started telling me what she found hot. We ended up playing with ourselves whilst flicking through the pages and discussing fantasies etc and the rest is history

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