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how to get a girl into swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take her to the park.....

Top tip, make sure said park has swings!!

Job done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you do it? "

Let her come to it herself.... or it'll all end in tears.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't force her into it have you tried the art of conversation

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"How do you do it?

Let her come to it herself.... or it'll all end in tears..... "

If you have to ask us the answer is you can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to her about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her...... Simple as that!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

explore some fantasies when chatting to her and see if she fancies exploring some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met lots of couples at clubs where the females feels forced into doing it to keep their partner happy.

Madness - it should be a 2-way agreed partnership. Not 1 sided emotional blackmail.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We've met lots of couples at clubs where the females feels forced into doing it to keep their partner happy.

Madness - it should be a 2-way agreed partnership. Not 1 sided emotional blackmail.

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We've met couples socially where it's clear that one or the other (not always the woman)isn't happy about the situation. Needless to say we don't take things any further no one wants to be party to coercion or have sex with an unwilling partner.

Which is why OP you need to discuss swinging with whoever it is you'd like to join you and if their answer is no leave it there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask her about her fantasys and see if any of them could lead her in that direction see where you both end up, but just enjoy what u both have gently pushing boundrys, be open minded and accept where it may lead?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

communication..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely agree with the posters above who have met people with reluctant partners. I made that mistake once and never again!!! OP please approach the lady in question with tact and respect her answer. Your use of the word 'get' is concerning. Tread carefully and good luck.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Tell her you have a single profile on here and that you've participated in a gangbang without her knowledge or consent......

Problem solved......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you do it? "

Ask her if she says no then please don't push it

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

does she like porn ... start talking about swinging while watching and judge the reaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, talk to her. But accept that for many people, this lifestyle is not something they would be interested in so while she may be receptive she may be horrified.

And I'd echo all the other comments that there is little worse than a couple where one party is only involved to keep the other happy. They are usually easy to spot and it will never end well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something you can 'get' someone into. For us when we started seeing eachother we spoke about our sexual experiences and interests and it was clear we both had a kinky streak! It was something we had both always wanted to try and things developed from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you do it? "

Don't even try!

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Invite 20 or 30 naked people round ur house......see what happens....

Glad to be of service

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By *funcouple29Couple
over a year ago

norfolk/suffolk

it was her idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you do it? "

You sit down and talk about it honestly.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

If you want "get" her into swinging you could try the old " Here love does this rag smell like chloroform to you?" That may end you up in prison....

Or you could try talking to her, it took a couple of years talking about it before we were ready to try. We're glad we waited until we were both ready, now we love it.

Push her to hard/soon and you'll put her off for life...

Finally with swinging the woman is in charge. If you can't accept that you shouldn't be swinging!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've met lots of couples at clubs where the females feels forced into doing it to keep their partner happy.

Madness - it should be a 2-way agreed partnership. Not 1 sided emotional blackmail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't force her into it have you tried the art of conversation "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roofies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you do it? "

If she wanted to do it or was curious she would have said so by now,

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"How do you do it? "

she's got her own profile on here - didn't you know? Z

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