FabSwingers.com forum: Do you get nervous before a first meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you get nervous before a first meet?

I'd have to admit I do. Not enough to spoil it but I sometimes wonder if the person I am meeting will turn out to be what they portrayed themselves as. Most of the time its been fine as there has been lots of talking beforehand but a couple of times I've thought "Help, get me out of here!!"

I always like to talk on the phone quite a bit before meeting. I think the sound of someones voice tells alot...

Certainly helps me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes mate I do, but then again I'm nervous before all the meets, even if its just social. Kate is just the opposite, she's always full of the joys of spring, lol.

If it wasn't for her, I don't think I'd get a shag, lol. I'd probably run a mile if a lady approached me on my own. Don't think I could play as a single, lol. Kate's my security blanket, lol

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

always always always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both get nervous but it's part of the turn on. Always nervous about how soon to move along to the play part.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Always nervous before a first meet - its all part of the excitment of this way of life for us

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

yep!!! for good reason in a couple of instances but agree with others on here - its all part of the fun!!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"Always nervous about how soon to move along to the play part."

That seems the hardest nut to crack!

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We are both really nervous on our first meet but we soon get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never! I never contact anyone they always contact me and the first meet is always a social one at a place of my choosing. Funny thing though I get nervous when going on a 'vanilla' date!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never! I never contact anyone they always contact me and the first meet is always a social one at a place of my choosing. Funny thing though I get nervous when going on a 'vanilla' date!"

Whats a vanilla date someone...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a vanilla date someone...?"

Vanilla friends = friends that are not from the swinging community.

Therefore, vanilla date = a date with a normal non-swinging person.

No doubt the others will correct me if I am wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a vanilla date someone...?

Vanilla friends = friends that are not from the swinging community.

Therefore, vanilla date = a date with a normal non-swinging person.

No doubt the others will correct me if I am wrong

You're right -

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We still do after all these years! Once we meet them we're fine though, and we never have any problem moving onto the kissing and undressing stage, lust just takes over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a vanilla date someone...?

Vanilla friends = friends that are not from the swinging community.

Therefore, vanilla date = a date with a normal non-swinging person.

No doubt the others will correct me if I am wrong

You're right -

Does that make us swingers Neoplolitan?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always nervous about how soon to move along to the play part.

That seems the hardest nut to crack!

Mmmm Hard nuts....love 'em!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Do get nervous always, it's part of the fun - the anticipation! Also get nervous when meeting someone for the second time, you wouldn't think so if met before but still do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really because we dont often play on first meet, unless of course there is chemistry. I always feel nervous making that first introduction phone call, which we always insist on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its time to stop if you dont get nervous..lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Its time to stop if you dont get nervous..lol"

Oh I don't know, I bet there are loads of people who don't get nervous but still get excited and enjoy the anticipation! Z

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Not only on a first meet! Not sure exactly what "nervous" is but that same feeling can also be excitement! So we like to think of it as just that, Excitement...

If it all became just normal, we would stop... Hence we don't meet that many times a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get nervous when meeting people, doesn't have to be just swinging. Hence why I say on my profile that I like to chat with someone first, so I feel comfortable and a bit wiser.

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By *ickedWWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I still, after yrs off swinging, get nervous on a first meet..

I think if you dont get some kind nervousness its maybe time to stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ofcourse we all get nervous its natural thing i have met loads of folk from other sites an i get shivers down my spine an she could tell of the way i speak so i grab few drinks to kill the nerves an it works after that with no ease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had my first ever meet last night and i was very nervous, but turned out great in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does that make us swingers Neoplolitan?

AHHAHAHAHA that made us chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive not met anyone off this site but have off another im a member of and im always nervous think its all part of the excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get nervous everytime, even when meeting people whe've played with before. Sarah however doesn't really... she's a very relaxed open person, where as I'm always keen to please as much as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i get nervous but we believe it's also part of the excitement of a social meet

joe

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By *ockwell DominusMan
over a year ago

Birstall

I used to get nervous but now it's more about the excitement and expectation of what is about to happen.

My first ever meet, I was so nervous I began to shake. The nerves soon faded when I got naked and down to business but i'll never forget how nervous I was and tend to bear that in mind if i'm meeting someone if they are new to swinging.

Damn watch me be nervous now for my next meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the nervous feeling I get when going for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the nervous feeling I get when going for a meet

Me too, nervous excitement I'd say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the nervous feeling I get when going for a meet

Me too, nervous excitement I'd say!

Yes thats the feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Yes!!!!

So nervous, as a woman we all have body insecurities....and you worry about the peeps you are meeting....

Will you click??? Like a first date everytime...

Easier tho I suppose as Rich is with me...

But yep always panicing like mad!!!

J xx

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

With a profile & pics like that, you've got no reason to be nervous....!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwwww Thankyou xxx

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I, on the other hand would be shitting it that i was up to the job - and i know my stuff!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More nervous excitement. I never go expecting anything and when i do its a bonus. Go with an open mind and to go and have fun and a giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves nope, but butterflies in the tummy oh yes and loved that feeling xxx Raz xxx

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/5440

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By *oyston VaseyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City

I`ll let you know if i ever get my first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, everytime. Adds to the buzz of the 1st few minutes though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get pissed lol

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

"I just get pissed lol "

hic #

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me with my beer goggles on lol

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"Me with my beer goggles on lol "

Looking at your profile pic

Goggles are certainly not required

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was hitting the vodka lastnight its got a lot to answer for you know lol i dont drink to much at clubs it affects my judgement grrrrrrrrrrr

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

is standing at the bottom of the garden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hell yeh after a few years of the dogging scene, we decided to have fun at home where you would think i would be comfortable but im always very nervous before a meet. hubby says i turn into a wee school girl giggling all the time lol

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