Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
 | Back to forum list |
| Back to Swingers Chat |
| Jump to newest |  |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" To be fair plenty of good men would choose curves over less shapely. Don't be thinking women like yourself aren't attractive, because that's far from being the case. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"We all know why really. It’s all down to image and reputation. The lads don’t want to be seen in public chatting up fat girls, it would ruin their street cred. In Fab world it’s more on the down low so they will do and say anything to get their dicks wet. Now before you all pour your hate on me, I am married and madly in love with a woman who classes herself as a BBW. Mr" This is the answer. Closet chasers are vile. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"We all know why really. It’s all down to image and reputation. The lads don’t want to be seen in public chatting up fat girls, it would ruin their street cred. In Fab world it’s more on the down low so they will do and say anything to get their dicks wet. Now before you all pour your hate on me, I am married and madly in love with a woman who classes herself as a BBW. Mr" Wouldn’t ever pour hate! But surely when out you’re trying to get it in as well? Lol | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about? To be fair plenty of good men would choose curves over less shapely. Don't be thinking women like yourself aren't attractive, because that's far from being the case. " Oh I know we are an attractive bunch, the question is about those that love us on the down low but wouldn’t be open about it haha | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" I can say in my own case i struggle to go chat a woman up in person as most times i have i always blown out so then you decide not too but thats me You are sexy for sure i wont be alone say either x | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" Because us fatties should be grateful for the attention and obvs we need a sympathy fuck. Joking aside, this does happen, and it’s all based on judgement to be fair isn’t it x | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about? Because us fatties should be grateful for the attention and obvs we need a sympathy fuck. Joking aside, this does happen, and it’s all based on judgement to be fair isn’t it x" ....but at the same time it can be self-perception. I'd be proud to walk down the street with you, or someone like you. As long as someone has some personal pride in looking and dressing well for their shape and size it's a no-brainer. Give me that over some Botox princess who takes a million posed selfies a day and thinks she's better than everyone else. We all have different ways of looking at things. Both yourself and the OP are beautiful women. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about? To be fair plenty of good men would choose curves over less shapely. Don't be thinking women like yourself aren't attractive, because that's far from being the case. Oh I know we are an attractive bunch, the question is about those that love us on the down low but wouldn’t be open about it haha" .....or those who would want you to feel a million dollars in public too. Many of us would. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" You're gorgeous so I think I'd be a lil shy about approaching you in public. On here rejection is normal & doesn't hurt as much as it would in public which would hurt or knock my confidence much more | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about? Because us fatties should be grateful for the attention and obvs we need a sympathy fuck. Joking aside, this does happen, and it’s all based on judgement to be fair isn’t it x" Babe, you are absolute fire 🔥 and clearly not in need of a sympathy fuck 😂😂 It’s a shame that people will judge, but I can tell the type of men a mile off. Shame for them really, because I’m no one’s dirty secret 😜 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about? You're gorgeous so I think I'd be a lil shy about approaching you in public. On here rejection is normal & doesn't hurt as much as it would in public which would hurt or knock my confidence much more " You won’t know if you don’t try 😉 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" Id approach you at a bar I think you are lovely | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"I find it fascinating I never get approached in real life Here - the ass gets all the attention! But then I also fully realise I give off don’t talk to me vibes in person " I get approached sometimes but I have the double whammy of being both tall and curvy 😂😂 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"I find it fascinating I never get approached in real life Here - the ass gets all the attention! But then I also fully realise I give off don’t talk to me vibes in person I get approached sometimes but I have the double whammy of being both tall and curvy 😂😂" It takes all sorts! I'm a shortarse, yet I'm very happy in the company of a tall woman - in fact I joined Fab as part of a couple with one. Being open to the out of the ordinary can be something spectacularly good, as it was with her. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" Has been said their loss dont worry about it im sure there are plenty of men out there who would be more than happy to chat you up while your out. Personally i think your gorgeous from what i can see. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" you look absolutely amazing! I don't see why people wouldn't | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" Nothing sceret about it, I'm quite open about liking all sizes and shapes of women! But I wouldn't approach you in a bar or be one of those in your inbox - you have your age limits set to exclude me, so I wouldn't impose. If you were closer to my age, then yse I'd message here, but in person would probably not risk causing offence. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"I’m a 5ft 3 if I’m lucky… I’m as tall as I am round almost lol " What I’d give to be shorter- wouldn’t change my curves though 😜 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"I find it fascinating I never get approached in real life Here - the ass gets all the attention! But then I also fully realise I give off don’t talk to me vibes in person I get approached sometimes but I have the double whammy of being both tall and curvy 😂😂 It takes all sorts! I'm a shortarse, yet I'm very happy in the company of a tall woman - in fact I joined Fab as part of a couple with one. Being open to the out of the ordinary can be something spectacularly good, as it was with her. "I’m generally not bothered by height, but a lot of people hate having a height difference 😅 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" This is a very interesting topic. As someone who's preference is larger/curvy women, I find that often any such approach is bars etc is often regarded with a degree of suspicion, possibly for the very reasons alluded to above, this can in turn be viewed as rejection by the male, It's a sad state of affairs. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about? This is a very interesting topic. As someone who's preference is larger/curvy women, I find that often any such approach is bars etc is often regarded with a degree of suspicion, possibly for the very reasons alluded to above, this can in turn be viewed as rejection by the male, It's a sad state of affairs." I can absolutely understand the suspicion. I always find that unless someone is heavily flirtatious and a little bit tactile, I’ll just assume they are just making friendly small talk lol. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"As a general rule I have zero interest in engaging with someone on here who isn't willing to be seen at least approaching me in public. The idea that someone wouldn't want to ruin their reputation by being seen with me but I'd do for a quick fuck is very much a turn off 💜" Same!! | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Ive definitely missed out on approaching a very hot bbw in a bar, but simply cos she was sooooo hot she'd be out of my league. Turns out she wasn't "I love this! | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"I find it fascinating I never get approached in real life Here - the ass gets all the attention! But then I also fully realise I give off don’t talk to me vibes in person I get approached sometimes but I have the double whammy of being both tall and curvy 😂😂 It takes all sorts! I'm a shortarse, yet I'm very happy in the company of a tall woman - in fact I joined Fab as part of a couple with one. Being open to the out of the ordinary can be something spectacularly good, as it was with her.
I’m generally not bothered by height, but a lot of people hate having a height difference 😅"It never bothered her at 5'11" without heels, while I'm 5'6" (definitely small for a guy). No small man syndrome here, which she found attractive. Although curvy, her height seemed to scare some men off, especially as she was used to being powerful and intimidating in the workplace. In the swinging world she became very sub in my company, so had to be 'dom' in certain moments. Great relationship that's now a beautiful friendship. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" I remember when I was younger if you said you liked the bbw it was seen as taboo, I made no attempt to hide my attraction to them then and never have since, my only problem Is a few that i have met can be bitches and really insulting and size queens which isn't nice | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"I’m a 5ft 3 if I’m lucky… I’m as tall as I am round almost lol " Trust me, I'd notice you in a room. That being the case so would many others. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Ive definitely missed out on approaching a very hot bbw in a bar, but simply cos she was sooooo hot she'd be out of my league. Turns out she wasn't
I love this!"Honestly, bowled me over weeks later to be stood kissing her at the pub! Imagine you're most likely this girl x | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Plenty of people shallow enough not to want to take a curvy lady out in public, I get it a lot because I'm a goth too, wouldn't want their mates to find out... anyone with this attitude is the one with the problem OP, I'm always proud as punch to be with who I'm with and expect the same vibe xx " You are stunning and they are clearly not smart lol. Yeah I don’t entertain those kind of people, I’m just interested in what motivates them and if they actual care for our feelings. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Plenty of people shallow enough not to want to take a curvy lady out in public, I get it a lot because I'm a goth too, wouldn't want their mates to find out... anyone with this attitude is the one with the problem OP, I'm always proud as punch to be with who I'm with and expect the same vibe xx " Goth AND BBW! | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Plenty of people shallow enough not to want to take a curvy lady out in public, I get it a lot because I'm a goth too, wouldn't want their mates to find out... anyone with this attitude is the one with the problem OP, I'm always proud as punch to be with who I'm with and expect the same vibe xx " who the fuck do you lassies talk too  | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
 ).
I don't think anyone really cares beyond what they're initially attracted to? Especially as you get older. Never had a man try and shoo me away in public whose wanted to meet though
Either from Fab or offline | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"I love a BBW i class my wife as one i love them and just added some new photos " Also she's never struggled to get any meets | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Plenty of people shallow enough not to want to take a curvy lady out in public, I get it a lot because I'm a goth too, wouldn't want their mates to find out... anyone with this attitude is the one with the problem OP, I'm always proud as punch to be with who I'm with and expect the same vibe xx who the fuck do you lassies talk too "You’d be surprised, happens more often than not! There’s men that will hide veris on here because it’s from a BBW. Or they’ll say it outright that they find me hot but not to take out lol | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"I love a BBW i class my wife as one i love them and just added some new photos Also she's never struggled to get any meets" It’s not about it being hard to get meets, I literally have hundreds of unread messages in my inbox. It’s about men being ashamed about their love of BBWs | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"I love a BBW i class my wife as one i love them and just added some new photos Also she's never struggled to get any meets It’s not about it being hard to get meets, I literally have hundreds of unread messages in my inbox. It’s about men being ashamed about their love of BBWs" How do you know this though? Has anyone literally said they'd shag you, but not meet you in public? | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Plenty of people shallow enough not to want to take a curvy lady out in public, I get it a lot because I'm a goth too, wouldn't want their mates to find out... anyone with this attitude is the one with the problem OP, I'm always proud as punch to be with who I'm with and expect the same vibe xx who the fuck do you lassies talk too
You’d be surprised, happens more often than not! There’s men that will hide veris on here because it’s from a BBW. Or they’ll say it outright that they find me hot but not to take out lol"I'd have to say that most wo.rn I know are curvy/bbw etc. Not a 'type' as such, just I happen to know women of various shapes and sizes. If I like them from the neck up then I alslime them from the neck down. It's all about the connection. Being 'seen' with ANY of them is a no-brainer. They also have to want to be seen with me - just saying! | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| Reply privately |
"I love a BBW i class my wife as one i love them and just added some new photos Also she's never struggled to get any meets It’s not about it being hard to get meets, I literally have hundreds of unread messages in my inbox. It’s about men being ashamed about their love of BBWs How do you know this though? Has anyone literally said they'd shag you, but not meet you in public? " Yes lol | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"I love a BBW i class my wife as one i love them and just added some new photos Also she's never struggled to get any meets It’s not about it being hard to get meets, I literally have hundreds of unread messages in my inbox. It’s about men being ashamed about their love of BBWs How do you know this though? Has anyone literally said they'd shag you, but not meet you in public? Yes lol" That's really crap! No woman deserves to have that said to them. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"I love a BBW i class my wife as one i love them and just added some new photos Also she's never struggled to get any meets It’s not about it being hard to get meets, I literally have hundreds of unread messages in my inbox. It’s about men being ashamed about their love of BBWs How do you know this though? Has anyone literally said they'd shag you, but not meet you in public? Yes lol" well they were pathetic cunts | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about? This is a very interesting topic. As someone who's preference is larger/curvy women, I find that often any such approach is bars etc is often regarded with a degree of suspicion, possibly for the very reasons alluded to above, this can in turn be viewed as rejection by the male, It's a sad state of affairs. I can absolutely understand the suspicion. I always find that unless someone is heavily flirtatious and a little bit tactile, I’ll just assume they are just making friendly small talk lol." I hear you, and have had this very conversation with various female friends, but from a male perspective guys are often fearful of being seen a coming coming on too strong in such a scenario. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"I’m a 5ft 3 if I’m lucky… I’m as tall as I am round almost lol " Your beautiful lovely xx | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" Some of us men just think with our penis lol. I love curves in the right places 🥰 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" I would be straight over chatting to you, your beautiful x | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Their loss, you are hot "Totally agree, just like you. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"If you hadn’t guessed by my last post, definitely not a secret bbw admirer. I admire all unless you’re an arse!" Lol! That’s a very good standard to have “don’t be an arsehole” | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Thank you hun xx" Im blocked, so cant message x | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" I adore curvy, big beautiful women and everyyhing about a woman blessed with curves. I'm very proud to be seen out with curvy women and love it when I see men checking them out! | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Why keep it secret? I’ve taken curvy girls out in public. It’s definitely my type" | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" You are one very sexy lady, id show you off to the whole world | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about? · Has been said their loss..." • How is it their loss?? | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"This does not apply to me, never chosen to be with anyone based on their dress size! Although these labels like BBW annoy me, I understand what they are for, but why is everyone so desperate to categorise and compare. I've never cared what anyone else thinks about me. People are social animals, keeping face is key to existence for many and it's an ugly part of our personality to be so shallow. Don't think it's their fault though, not everyone is blessed with a neuro-diverse way of looking at things🤷♂️" I understand your sentiment around categorising. Interestingly, any categories that alludes to race (BBC, ebony, interracial etc) make me want to vom as Black mixed woman, but BBW I’d wear with pride. That’s something for me to unpack 😂. What I never understand about the size thing is a gorgeous woman, is a gorgeous woman. Models like Ashley Graham are stunning no matter the size. I couldn’t imagine why anyone would be ashamed to be seen with a woman like her 😂 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"From another angle, I think we could all agree people will say one thing and fundamentally think something completely different. This is often used to manipulate and deceive, gain trust for then to obtain something. I am pretty sure people in this thread will post similarly to that, just to make people think they're a good kind hearted soul. "Dark, but true | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Too many are worried their friends will take the piss out of them I suppose " I couldnt give two s###s ps love your body and ink very nice | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"From another angle, I think we could all agree people will say one thing and fundamentally think something completely different. This is often used to manipulate and deceive, gain trust for then to obtain something. I am pretty sure people in this thread will post similarly to that, just to make people think they're a good kind hearted soul.
Dark, but true"Most definitely. The worst for me are the guys who pile in on another guy every time a man asks a question in the forums. True colours in a heartbeat. Often gets nasty and personal very unnecessarily. Always appears to be an opportunistic attempt to look better than they are in front of a woman. I'm willing to bet those guys have very little in the way of anything other than their own word for how 'nice' they are themselves. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Plenty of people shallow enough not to want to take a curvy lady out in public, I get it a lot because I'm a goth too, wouldn't want their mates to find out... anyone with this attitude is the one with the problem OP, I'm always proud as punch to be with who I'm with and expect the same vibe xx who the fuck do you lassies talk too
You’d be surprised, happens more often than not! There’s men that will hide veris on here because it’s from a BBW. Or they’ll say it outright that they find me hot but not to take out lol"I've had similar attitudes from people too babe, I don't entertain them xx | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Plenty of people shallow enough not to want to take a curvy lady out in public, I get it a lot because I'm a goth too, wouldn't want their mates to find out... anyone with this attitude is the one with the problem OP, I'm always proud as punch to be with who I'm with and expect the same vibe xx Goth AND BBW! "Ha ha I am indeed | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"I find it fascinating I never get approached in real life Here - the ass gets all the attention! But then I also fully realise I give off don’t talk to me vibes in person " Head to toe should get appreciation your gorgeous xx | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Plenty of people shallow enough not to want to take a curvy lady out in public, I get it a lot because I'm a goth too, wouldn't want their mates to find out... anyone with this attitude is the one with the problem OP, I'm always proud as punch to be with who I'm with and expect the same vibe xx who the fuck do you lassies talk too
You’d be surprised, happens more often than not! There’s men that will hide veris on here because it’s from a BBW. Or they’ll say it outright that they find me hot but not to take out lol
I've had similar attitudes from people too babe, I don't entertain them xx"Oh I absolutely will not entertain them, I have dignity 😂 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"If they wouldn’t be willing to see me in public, they sure as hell won’t be seeing me in private " THIS!!! | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"If they wouldn’t be willing to see me in public, they sure as hell won’t be seeing me in private THIS!!!" 100%! | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"It is really refreshing to just admit that the gorgeous person is gorgeous. I remember saying how hot I thought Rebel Wilson was on social media (and this was back when she was bigger than she is now) and there was clearly a palpable sense of relief from people somehow suddenly "having permission" to agree that she's hot. So silly and such a shame that attraction is so socially policed. Just fancy who you fancy! - Lucky" Damned right! So many beautiful women of all shapes. Very narrow thinking to discount on that basis! Privileged to know so many. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" I love a friendly big girl and was married and swung with one. She got so much attention at meets. Met baby other sexy big ladies too. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" I think the same daily. Lots of fit sexy hot guys in my inbox wanting to meet and I always ask why | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"From another angle, I think we could all agree people will say one thing and fundamentally think something completely different. This is often used to manipulate and deceive, gain trust for then to obtain something. I am pretty sure people in this thread will post similarly to that, just to make people think they're a good kind hearted soul.
Dark, but true
Most definitely. The worst for me are the guys who pile in on another guy every time a man asks a question in the forums. True colours in a heartbeat. Often gets nasty and personal very unnecessarily. Always appears to be an opportunistic attempt to look better than they are in front of a woman. I'm willing to bet those guys have very little in the way of anything other than their own word for how 'nice' they are themselves. "I mean, yes, but also no. This isn't a black and white issue, for me. While so called "white knighting" and performative peacocking is certainly a thing, I think there's a risk of that being used to dismiss or villify everyday common decency, too. I've seen some absolutely shocking stuff on these forums; barely concealed racism, aggressive homophobia, and some really unpleasant misogyny. As a "tofu-eating guardian-reading woke liberati" type I think it's important to push back against hatred, to challenge those spouting that sort of vile rhetoric. "I'm only saying what everyone else thinks but are too scared to say" is a sentiment trotted out regularly by these types, I feel it's incumbent on reasonable people to make it clear WE DO NOT FUCKING THINK THAT. As such, I've ended up on the forum naughty step on more than one occasion because I haven't been able to bite my tongue and let it wash over me.
The point I'm making is that yes, there's definitely an element of white knighting or "simping" or whatever you want to call it, but if someone is being a fucking prick one - or indeed all - should be free to tell them to shut the fuck up. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about? I think the same daily. Lots of fit sexy hot guys in my inbox wanting to meet and I always ask why " Off topic- but where do you buy your lingerie from? We share the same taste 😜 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"This is something I've heard blokes talking fairly openly about, and honestly it puzzles me. I mean, I understand the socio-political aspect, the desire to conform to socially driven expectations of "acceptable" beauty standards and fear of ridicule from one's peers, but... If you meet an attractive woman, the fact that you find her attractive is confirmation that she is, indeed, an attractive woman. So why be "ashamed" of that? If she's hot enough that you fancy her, why on earth wouldn't you want to "show her off" (if you'll excuse the objectifying language) OP, if you don't mind me using you specifically as an example: From what we can see in your public photos you appear to be extremely pretty indeed. The idea that -given how pretty you are- you might be considered, I don't know, not beautiful "ENOUGH" because of the size of your body, seems completely ludicrous to me." Thank you hun xx I wasn’t posting this for compliments, just asking a genuine question 😅 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" I love curvy ladies, skinny does nothing for me, rather be able to hug, cuddle and play | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Their loss, you are hot "Absolutely this | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Their loss, you are hot "Dead right. She really is. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"We all know why really. It’s all down to image and reputation. The lads don’t want to be seen in public chatting up fat girls, it would ruin their street cred. In Fab world it’s more on the down low so they will do and say anything to get their dicks wet. Now before you all pour your hate on me, I am married and madly in love with a woman who classes herself as a BBW. Mr" As sar as I can tell, this is am the opinion of some people who were teenagers from the 60-90s most people after that just own their tastes and have no reason to hide them ir feel ashamed. also OP you are hot | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"This is something I've heard blokes talking fairly openly about, and honestly it puzzles me. I mean, I understand the socio-political aspect, the desire to conform to socially driven expectations of "acceptable" beauty standards and fear of ridicule from one's peers, but... If you meet an attractive woman, the fact that you find her attractive is confirmation that she is, indeed, an attractive woman. So why be "ashamed" of that? If she's hot enough that you fancy her, why on earth wouldn't you want to "show her off" (if you'll excuse the objectifying language) OP, if you don't mind me using you specifically as an example: From what we can see in your public photos you appear to be extremely pretty indeed. The idea that -given how pretty you are- you might be considered, I don't know, not beautiful "ENOUGH" because of the size of your body, seems completely ludicrous to me. Thank you hun xx I wasn’t posting this for compliments, just asking a genuine question 😅" Haha no, I get that. Sorry to drag you into my rambling essay, its just that you're the perfect example of what I'm - very badly - trying to say. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
Ain't no body shaming or embarrasment around us whether is a small dick or yummy tummy - let's all get nekkid and parteeeeeee xx | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"All we can say is - fat bottomed girls make the rockin' world go round - for both of us Ain't no body shaming or embarrasment around us whether is a small dick or yummy tummy - let's all get nekkid and parteeeeeee xx"Yeesssss!! Life is too short | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about? I think the same daily. Lots of fit sexy hot guys in my inbox wanting to meet and I always ask why Off topic- but where do you buy your lingerie from? We share the same taste 😜" Shein, love honey, Ann summers and Amazon lol | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"I think what it is is guys who meet in a regular setting are also looking for a relationship of some kind and don't really want to be with a larger lady as they care what others think, they all want that trophy GF whatever they say. On here they know that there's a possibility it may lead to sex so they say what you want to hear. However there are the guys who see beyond the body and do actually want to get with you, in reality and on here, it's just working out who the genuine ones are. that's the hard part. "That makes a whole lot of sense. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about? I think the same daily. Lots of fit sexy hot guys in my inbox wanting to meet and I always ask why Off topic- but where do you buy your lingerie from? We share the same taste 😜 Shein, love honey, Ann summers and Amazon lol " I’ve never tried Shein and Amazon for lingerie, I always assumed they wouldn’t fit my boobs lol. Thanks hun 😘 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"This!! Frustrates me to no end when people message you and you know for a fact in the real world they would never even look at you but on here go on like you should grateful they are giving you attention because you are bigger! People still have feelings even in a place like this. Or guys that say they love bbw but they like the ones with the flat stomach and perfect curves with small waists. " Omg yes, there’s definitely a difference between BBWs and curvy (you can be BBW and curvy and slim and curvy in my opinion). Neither of us need a charity shag, we have options 😜 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"This!! Frustrates me to no end when people message you and you know for a fact in the real world they would never even look at you but on here go on like you should grateful they are giving you attention because you are bigger! People still have feelings even in a place like this. Or guys that say they love bbw but they like the ones with the flat stomach and perfect curves with small waists. Omg yes, there’s definitely a difference between BBWs and curvy (you can be BBW and curvy and slim and curvy in my opinion). Neither of us need a charity shag, we have options 😜 " No requirement for pigeonholing either - everyone on their own merit. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"This!! Frustrates me to no end when people message you and you know for a fact in the real world they would never even look at you but on here go on like you should grateful they are giving you attention because you are bigger! People still have feelings even in a place like this. Or guys that say they love bbw but they like the ones with the flat stomach and perfect curves with small waists. " You look absolutely incredible. Not sure I’d have the balls to approach you in person | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" I think you look beautiful, I know you didn't ask that but I'm telling you anyway 💞 I think in kink world we have different connections for what we are looking for and exploring. I do agree with you in this though I get contacted by gents that in know in other surroundings it just wouldn't happen. Xx | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about? I think you look beautiful, I know you didn't ask that but I'm telling you anyway 💞 I think in kink world we have different connections for what we are looking for and exploring. I do agree with you in this though I get contacted by gents that in know in other surroundings it just wouldn't happen. Xx" Thank you gorgeous, as are you 🥵🥵 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"It's a really interesting one. I remember when I was younger there was me and a friend who would always be chatted up first. Opposing body types completely and I definitely put that down to my self confidence. I think now you have a lot more openly accepting of their sexual preferences and desires. BBW was so underground at one point and seemed to me to go through a period of being almost a fetish before becoming more accepted. Still have a small crush on April Flores haha However as much as ideas changed it still takes people to grow themselves. There is so much immaturity around..." April Flores! Bloody hell, that's unlocked a core memory. I used to read Bizarre magazine when I was a youngster (not because I was into kink, I just liked all the articles about the weird shit) and when they put April Flores on the cover it was like a pivotal moment. That was the first time I'd seen any sort of media present a woman of such Rubenesque proportions as beautiful, glamorous, desirable, and downright sexually alluring. (It was Bizarre, after all.) It was the era of Maxim, Loaded, of "lads mags" with slender blondes with big boobs all over them. Seeing a bigger woman presented in the same manner was unheard of, and frankly life changing! 😁 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"It's a really interesting one. I remember when I was younger there was me and a friend who would always be chatted up first. Opposing body types completely and I definitely put that down to my self confidence. I think now you have a lot more openly accepting of their sexual preferences and desires. BBW was so underground at one point and seemed to me to go through a period of being almost a fetish before becoming more accepted. Still have a small crush on April Flores haha However as much as ideas changed it still takes people to grow themselves. There is so much immaturity around... April Flores! Bloody hell, that's unlocked a core memory. I used to read Bizarre magazine when I was a youngster (not because I was into kink, I just liked all the articles about the weird shit) and when they put April Flores on the cover it was like a pivotal moment. That was the first time I'd seen any sort of media present a woman of such Rubenesque proportions as beautiful, glamorous, desirable, and downright sexually alluring. (It was Bizarre, after all.) It was the era of Maxim, Loaded, of "lads mags" with slender blondes with big boobs all over them. Seeing a bigger woman presented in the same manner was unheard of, and frankly life changing! 😁" Yeah, I (mr) can remember her, as a teenager I was mesmerised. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Why should it be a secret..?? Mrs.." agreed | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Why should it be a secret..?? Mrs.." That’s exactly my question 😂 | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Why should it be a secret..?? Mrs.. That’s exactly my question 😂" This was a good thread in my view OP, good in that it's a wholehearted attempt to highlight one of many blatant issues with not just fab or being a "BBW", but in general, of what is a true disrespect shown to other human beings. Usually just because it's not the fashionable thing to think or act in a certain way, so it's better to bash someone publicly than tell everyone you're 'bashing into them' behind closed doors... What it all boils down to is that everyone is racing and comparing themselves to each other for a popularity contest, it taints their view and/or how they behave. That influences is no different on fab. | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" They just want an anon fuck / can’t find women they usually opt for etc. Any holes a goal ultimately with those types .. Pretty common practise on sex based sites like fab . | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
"Asking here because I’m genuinely curious! I’m always amazed by the number of men in my inbox who I know wouldn’t approach me in public or at a bar or anything but on Fab it’s fair game, what’s that about?" Nothing secret here I prefer bbw always have since I was a kid and would be making a beeline for you treacle | |||
(closed, thread got too big) | |||
| Reply privately |
| back to top |  |
