FabSwingers.com forum: pics

By *uck-us-now OP Couple
over a year ago

wednesbury

why are so many couples profiles with just pics of the female???

as a couple we would like to see pics of both male and female

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"why are so many couples profiles with just pics of the female???

as a couple we would like to see pics of both male and female"

Couldnt agree more

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Agreed.

Alway make me wonder if they are actually a couple? maybe just a bellend with someone elses picture pretending. who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thing blokes get a kick from taking pics of their wifes, and ladies dont get that hot about taking the pic, thats the only reason I can see. But totaly agree, more pics of chaps should be on here, in our case it is the lady who says who we play with and if we cant see the chap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple and only have a pic of me and as we are not into bi-guys, no-one has asked for a piccy of my hubby!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well a lot of the time it's the male half taking the pics ( generally its a bloke thing) so there will be more of the female half on a profile

we have pics of Paul in our friends folder but as he works all over the south east he doesn't want just anyone to see him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a pic of mine and Donna's arse on ours if that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs Bedford555 here...

We are not into bi guys either, but if there is no pic of the male, we are not interested!!.

I need to see a pic of the male before we decide whether we are interested in meeting a couple - what the woman looks like is largely irrelevent to me!!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

If I was looking to meet couples - I would want to see both the male and female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pics of the hubby on our profile because I don't like my pic taken I have issues but more than happy to snap away at hubby Lol

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By *risboy69Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I once asked couple for a pic of the guy, just a face pic , but they got aggressive when asked!

Only wanted a pic to see Who I was meeting, safety etc

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it's insulting that people expect us to meet them but think that I won't care what the man looks like.

The only time we met a couple where we hadn't seen a clear picture of the guy it went horribly wrong so we now assume (rightly or wrongly) that if there isn't at least one clear picture of the man that they are hiding something.

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By *uck-us-now OP Couple
over a year ago

wednesbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm talking to a couple and arranging a meet then (regardless of sexuality) I would expect a picture of BOTH of them.

Are some people really of the opinion that bi-guys are intent on turning straight men bi or something? That's the feeling I get from some posts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why are so many couples profiles with just pics of the female???

as a couple we would like to see pics of both male and female

Couldnt agree more"

Yes couldn't agree more either.

Too much BS about not wanting to be identified - thats fair enough.. but then blank your faces.

Couples looking for couples should show the male so the other couple can see what both of the other couple look like, body wise at the very least.

and the "holding the camera" excuse, IS just an excuse - use the timer function with a tripod or a shelf etc.. or just use a mirror, which we normally do.

We put it down to the guy being overweight compared to the sexy girl - it's just a bait trap.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Even though I am bi I still want and need to be attracted to the man in the profile.

Lets use an example.

Desription of m and f

Personality of m and f

Verfications of m and f

All visible pics of f

......sorry but unless you can make the profile about you both and show you both it wont appeal to me x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

the not wanting to be recognised excuse is so much BS, do they think we came down the Manchester Ship Canal on a tea tray? If they know your wife they will recognise her and therefore you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the not wanting to be recognised excuse is so much BS, do they think we came down the Manchester Ship Canal on a tea tray? If they know your wife they will recognise her and therefore you!"

For Paul's work he has to be careful about who would recognise him in his job where he works noone would know me at all so I can't see how that would be bs ?

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I wouldn't meet if i didn't see both male and female..understand why people are careful with pics but if your planning on meeting can't see a problem! Or failing that go on cam x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't meet if i didn't see both male and female..understand why people are careful with pics but if your planning on meeting can't see a problem! Or failing that go on cam x"

completely agree with that like I say Paul's pics are in our friends folder and any potential meets are always shown them first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the not wanting to be recognised excuse is so much BS, do they think we came down the Manchester Ship Canal on a tea tray? If they know your wife they will recognise her and therefore you!

For Paul's work he has to be careful about who would recognise him in his job where he works noone would know me at all so I can't see how that would be bs ? "

Unless he goes around naked whilst at work or has very identifiable tattos which you cant cover up how would he be recognised with a blanked out face pic of his body - torso, legs etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a pic of both of us on friends .x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only meet str8 guys so we do hope that they aren't interested in male half of us!If they show an undue interest then perhaps they aren't as str8 as we want!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"the not wanting to be recognised excuse is so much BS, do they think we came down the Manchester Ship Canal on a tea tray? If they know your wife they will recognise her and therefore you!

For Paul's work he has to be careful about who would recognise him in his job where he works noone would know me at all so I can't see how that would be bs ? "

I'm talking about the people who refuse to show any clear pictures of the guy at all, even privately. Mr N travels all round the SE, Kent and Hamspshire and wouldn't want to be recognised that's why we only have a couple of torso shots of him in public and face pictures in private for potential meets. I doubt any of teh peopel he sees during hos working life know what he looks like under the collar and tie

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"we only meet str8 guys so we do hope that they aren't interested in male half of us!If they show an undue interest then perhaps they aren't as str8 as we want!

Showing an interest in what a woman's partner looks like does not a bisexual make!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why are so many couples profiles with just pics of the female???

Because in most cases a couple's profile is run by the male, and he knows full well that pics of his lardy-arse body are not going to improve the chances of a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile pic shows Donna's arse and the anyone can look pic shows my arse, face pics is in friends only, although we have nothing to hide i would never put our face pic as the profile, if anyone wishes to see our face pic just ask, although dont have nightmares afterwards

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"the not wanting to be recognised excuse is so much BS, do they think we came down the Manchester Ship Canal on a tea tray? If they know your wife they will recognise her and therefore you!

For Paul's work he has to be careful about who would recognise him in his job where he works noone would know me at all so I can't see how that would be bs ? "

Would they recognise his jeans and nice shirt? Him in his pants. Him in the shower...? If he has recogniseable tattoes then pics can be cropped..... see. It isnt that hard really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are a couple and only have a pic of me and as we are not into bi-guys, no-one has asked for a piccy of my hubby!

I've always thought the decision whether to contact a couple or not has a LOT to do with the fem as women are in demand way more than guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why are so many couples profiles with just pics of the female???

as a couple we would like to see pics of both male and female"

agree

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"we only meet str8 guys so we do hope that they aren't interested in male half of us!If they show an undue interest then perhaps they aren't as str8 as we want!

Surely the straight guy needs to feel comfy meeting your other half. Surely him feeling comfy is just as important too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why are so many couples profiles with just pics of the female???

as a couple we would like to see pics of both male and female

agree"
we have male ones to send when we arrange meets.have to be careful with face pics due to jobs .some male ones i friends too but no face ones due to this also.lots of friends pics some peope have no face pics at all.poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the not wanting to be recognised excuse is so much BS, do they think we came down the Manchester Ship Canal on a tea tray? If they know your wife they will recognise her and therefore you!

For Paul's work he has to be careful about who would recognise him in his job where he works noone would know me at all so I can't see how that would be bs ?

Would they recognise his jeans and nice shirt? Him in his pants. Him in the shower...? If he has recogniseable tattoes then pics can be cropped..... see. It isnt that hard really."

Lol he has easily indentifiable tats yes and it's just preferable to have his pics in our friends folder which any potential meets can see, we don't hide them from view just have chosen to place them away from public display. Although there are Afew shots of parts of him in our public folder he just prefers it that way.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I can undestand hiding recogniseable tatties. But when he is fully clothes he isnt recognisable with his face cropped out.

In general I think if a couple are a couple it makes sence to show pics of them both. Just my opinion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have pics of both of us , we think its only fair to show both, also I do get comments and messages from guys but just ignore them and don't think the ladys should miss out on a perv just cos a few bi guys look at me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my pics keep going missing does anyone know why or have the same problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pics of the both of us on our profile... There are 2 of us on the profile! And if we plan to meet other couples we would like to see pics of them both

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

"my pics keep going missing does anyone know why or have the same problem"

We see three, sometimes we see this happen, but go into any pic then show gallery and we see them all

There seems to be a prob with pics uploaded in mid fed, they have question marks instead of a image

Back to the message, we show one pic of mr new just to prove he exists, and is in the same body type and age range as mrs new

And that is not always the case on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we only meet str8 guys so we do hope that they aren't interested in male half of us!If they show an undue interest then perhaps they aren't as str8 as we want!

Showing an interest in what a woman's partner looks like does not a bisexual make!"

you should read some of emails we get!

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By *uck-us-now OP Couple
over a year ago

wednesbury

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we only meet str8 guys so we do hope that they aren't interested in male half of us!If they show an undue interest then perhaps they aren't as str8 as we want!

Surely the straight guy needs to feel comfy meeting your other half. Surely him feeling comfy is just as important too?"

Can't be that big an issue...can't actually remember any guy asking to see pic of OH...only occasional question of 'he is straight isn't he?'

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