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"I’m always intrigued when couples (or single women) put “No single guys” (usually in aggressive capitals) on their profile but then don’t block them, so you can message them? The same with “Read my age preferences”. Genuinely, why not just stop people outside your desires from messaging you? Why make yourself angry?" Because some people will have exceptions to the rule and might even have friends outside of the stated boundaries. And also it’s not really your business to problem. | |||
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"Because not wanting to fuck someone doesn't mean there's no reason at all to communicate with them. My filters are down so I get the good club updates and party invites. They can come from any demographic." This | |||
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"Half the problem with single guys it's always the same message. Hi how are you both, here's a photo of my dick. Now when your trying to find legitimate couples to play with and all you get is 150 dick picks it makes this site and the search not fun, plus alot of them think up some pretty horrendous messages and don't address the man part and presume every couples male is a cuck." Single men blocked, simple | |||
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"I’m always intrigued when couples (or single women) put “No single guys” (usually in aggressive capitals) on their profile but then don’t block them, so you can message them? The same with “Read my age preferences”. Genuinely, why not just stop people outside your desires from messaging you? Why make yourself angry?" Sometimes I’m participating on the forums and that might require taking the block off for age filters. I don’t meet single ladies but I haven’t blocked them from messaging me as there are other things to talk about other than meeting them for sex | |||
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"Because not wanting to fuck someone doesn't mean there's no reason at all to communicate with them. My filters are down so I get the good club updates and party invites. They can come from any demographic." Yet if you contact them (though apparently not you) you get abuse… | |||
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"Because not wanting to fuck someone doesn't mean there's no reason at all to communicate with them. My filters are down so I get the good club updates and party invites. They can come from any demographic. Yet if you contact them (though apparently not you) you get abuse…" Depends who you contact and what you say. If someone's profile is clear that they're not interested in meeting single men but you message them to ask question about something they've said or an event they may be interested, probably okay. If you send the usual hey how are you and or dick pics, that's exactly the single men that no-one wants to hear from. If they have a really angry all caps profile about how they don't want single men, why are you messaging them at all? | |||
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"We aren't looking to meet single guys, but we don't filter them as there have been some that have messaged for an opinion on something or advice on visiting a club.we dont mind speaking to people we're just not after anything more" Yes - but you say it politely, not repeated over and over again in aggressive capital letters…. | |||
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"I’m always intrigued when couples (or single women) put “No single guys” (usually in aggressive capitals) on their profile but then don’t block them, so you can message them? The same with “Read my age preferences”. Genuinely, why not just stop people outside your desires from messaging you? Why make yourself angry?" Because they may be people they've met on an old profile that they would happy to message them but wouldn't be able to if they had their filters on. They're not making themselves angry they're just asking people to respect their preferences  | |||
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"I’m always intrigued when couples (or single women) put “No single guys” (usually in aggressive capitals) on their profile but then don’t block them, so you can message them? The same with “Read my age preferences”. Genuinely, why not just stop people outside your desires from messaging you? Why make yourself angry? Because they may be people they've met on an old profile that they would happy to message them but wouldn't be able to if they had their filters on. They're not making themselves angry they're just asking people to respect their preferences "All of this! It sounds like a single guy problem to me...  | |||
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"If they have a really angry all caps profile about how they don't want single men, why are you messaging them at all?" This | |||
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"If they have a really angry all caps profile about how they don't want single men, why are you messaging them at all? This " I’m not, I’m just surprised they leave themselves open to be angry. It is evident in the rest of their profile usually, a list of “Don’ts” and exasperation. Believe me, they are exactly the sort of people I would want nothing to do with. I can’t bear grumpy, aggressive people. Perhaps they enjoy being like that? | |||
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"Half the problem with single guys it's always the same message. Hi how are you both, here's a photo of my dick. " We'd be quite happy if that was type of message we got... But rarely do! | |||
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"I think the couples feel uncomfortable with men fabbing the pictures of their husbands ." Most couples profiles don't have pictures of the husband. | |||
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"I think the couples feel uncomfortable with men fabbing the pictures of their husbands . Most couples profiles don't have pictures of the husband. " I am just happy to see your profile and photos bluebell it so sets me up for the day I hope you enjoyed your holiday xxx | |||
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"I think the main problem is single men don't read the profile properly. It's not hard " Exactly. But it also happens that some couples don't even read , when you ask a question that is in the profile.🤭 | |||
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"I think the main problem is single men don't read the profile properly. It's not hard " I think the problem is that it is hard, that's why they don't read the profile  | |||
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