FabSwingers.com forum: Good sex or a pretty face?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was wondering, when people come onto fab are they looking for the sexual partners that can really make their bed rock or are they wanting encounters with somebody who looks good even if they are not as good in the bedroom? Hmmm

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I want both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both please x there has to be some attraction..wont just fuck any tom, dick or harry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there has to be an attraction, you can work on the good sex even if it isnt, i like to kiss someone and be able to look at them at the same time and think phwoarrrrr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When your this ugly everyone looks good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So does that mean that the chance of a guy who comes on the sight who isn't seen as 'hot' isn't very high then???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want both

That.

If you're going to be having missionary sex chances are you're going to be spending a lot of time looking at a persons fizzog so best choose a nice one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an attraction can come from a number of things, he doesnt have to be typically hot. his smile, his humour, the glint in his eye, the way he kisses you...if he has a beard....

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

There is a beauty in everyone .. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I take it your into men with beards then? Lol I don't have the biggest beard but iv got a small little stylish 1

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good sex everytime

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"So does that mean that the chance of a guy who comes on the sight who isn't seen as 'hot' isn't very high then???"

beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

what id class as attractive and others class as attractive can be vastly different things . thats the great thing ..veriety is the spice of life !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take it your into men with beards then? Lol I don't have the biggest beard but iv got a small little stylish 1

haha "

beards are good yes, i have one myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are quite a few Ive spoken to who have said the sex is paramount

Good sex - or as much as they can get is more important than having an ' attractive' face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical attraction is obviously necessary, but if I had to chose, it'd be good sex. Some of the prettiest women I have ever slept with have been very boring and unadventurous in the sack. At least when you are with someone who doesn't have perhaps the appeal of a movie star, if they really can fuck and the chemistry is there, you often see them in a new light. I'd take an average chick who was a dirty lil minx over a model with issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are quite a few Ive spoken to who have said the sex is paramount

Good sex - or as much as they can get is more important than having an ' attractive' face "

You have an attractive face sweetie so need worries for you

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So does that mean that the chance of a guy who comes on the sight who isn't seen as 'hot' isn't very high then???"

There is no one definition of hot and I would find the typically "hot" guy intimidating I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are quite a few Ive spoken to who have said the sex is paramount

Good sex - or as much as they can get is more important than having an ' attractive' face "

For me sex is a big thing, I couldn't have beyonce as a wife if we didn't click sexually if I'm honest lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are quite a few Ive spoken to who have said the sex is paramount

Good sex - or as much as they can get is more important than having an ' attractive' face

You have an attractive face sweetie so need worries for you

Very kind .. but why would I want to have sex with someone who would have sex with people they don't find attractive

No thank you

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Great connection...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Both. Can't get jiggy with someone I'm not attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both please x there has to be some attraction..wont just fuck any tom, dick or harry."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is a beauty in everyone .. x "

Not sure I agree with that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good sex. I only need to fancy then if I want to kiss them.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I want both

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Physical attraction is obviously necessary, but if I had to chose, it'd be good sex. Some of the prettiest women I have ever slept with have been very boring and unadventurous in the sack. At least when you are with someone who doesn't have perhaps the appeal of a movie star, if they really can fuck and the chemistry is there, you often see them in a new light. I'd take an average chick who was a dirty lil minx over a model with issues. "

although the model,who was also a dirty little minx,would still be your preferred choice.

only in the world of swinging,could anyone claim to be attracted,to the less attractive.

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By *essex1Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

good sex. good sex is always good sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Got to be an attraction there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me too the bigger the attraction the bigger the passion !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Combination really i think. Saying that its said i look pretty in the dark

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"So does that mean that the chance of a guy who comes on the sight who isn't seen as 'hot' isn't very high then???

beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

what id class as attractive and others class as attractive can be vastly different things . thats the great thing ..veriety is the spice of life !

So true!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

although the model,who was also a dirty little minx,would still be your preferred choice.

only in the world of swinging,could anyone claim to be attracted,to the less attractive.

Lots of disingenuous people post on these threads. We're here for fantasy so there has to be a physical attraction. What I find attractive will differ from yours, but attraction nonetheless.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Well I have to be attracted to them first. I only find out if the sex is good whilst we are playing. If it was rubbish and I did not find them hot, it really would be a lose lose situation!

For me great sex leads to multiple meets, otherwise no matter how hot they are, it remains a disappointing one off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not believe I ever said I was attracted to the less attractive. Just that in considering sex appeal and ability, I prefer ability. That is not to say I would get with someone I found undesirable, but thay skill and chemistry, for me, are paramount. If that makes me appear disengeuous, then so be it.

And you may be here for fantasy, I prefer my sex to be a reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The very first guy I met swinging looked great in his photos and we got on well chatting. When we actually met, I was

taken aback by his appearance, not as I expected at all. We had dinner and all through I felt I had made a big mistake, however, he was charming and made losing my swinging virginity a great experience. Dont be too quick to judge, I feel, you may miss out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gotta be attracted to someone before you even get to the stage of sex. good or bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both!!! But if initially I'm not attracted to them I can be swayed with good banter quick wit and great verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good sex. No point having a good looking guy in your bed if all he does is provide a cock and a pretty picture to look up at.

Attraction to me is about so much more than the look

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I would have to be attracted to them in the first place to find out if they were good in bed or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want both

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I have to be attracted in some way... it can be personality, sense of humour, or physically, but something has to click to make me feel drawn to that person, otherwise sex would just be meaningless - and thats not my thing at all.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Both! Hardly a surprising answer though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't look nice, No dice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to have sex with someone if there wasn't a mutual attraction. And looks are irrelevant to how good someone is in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A person has to look good in your eye. If theres no spark then sex will be pants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was wondering, when people come onto fab are they looking for the sexual partners that can really make their bed rock or are they wanting encounters with somebody who looks good even if they are not as good in the bedroom? Hmmm"

odd question, who's looking for bad sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a general rule: I have to like the face, because I love to exchange kisses during sex and after that. Maybe I am a bit more sensual - love cuddles, having laughs, jokes during and after... In order to do all that I need to like the picture in front of me.

Straight away I have to say that I have been pleasantly surprised by women who know how to compensate lack of pretty face/figure with sense of humour, tact, sexual approach etc.

Long live The Sexual Attraction whatever that means to you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't look at the mantel peace when poking fire do you

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"You don't look at the mantel peace when poking fire do you"

That saying,kind of puzzles me.

if the mantels not hot,I'm not poking the fire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't have sex with someone I don't fancy, due to the fact I adore kissing, not easy with a paper bag over their head lol....so for me, I'd quite like both if that's ok, a good looking bloke who knows what he's doing please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"an attraction can come from a number of things, he doesnt have to be typically hot. his smile, his humour, the glint in his eye, the way he kisses you...if he has a beard...."
everything you have said but minus the beard please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wasn't attracted to someone then I would never have them in my bed.

A pretty face is a huge part of attraction for me. I look at the face before anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't look at the mantel peace when poking fire do you"

you shag with the lights out then?

personally I love lots of eye contact during sex, I find it a real turn on to look up into the eyes of the guy im sucking, also like eye contact while kissing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You don't look at the mantel peace when poking fire do you

you shag with the lights out then?

personally I love lots of eye contact during sex, I find it a real turn on to look up into the eyes of the guy im sucking, also like eye contact while kissing"

Love you to look into my eyes whilst sucking my cock

hmmm lmao xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love you to look into my eyes whilst sucking my cock

hmmm lmao xx"

pass it here then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction comes before the sex so has to be a nice face to go for the sex....and if the sex is good then even better.

Eye contact is amazingly sexy and i wouldn't want to look at someone i didn't find attractive whilst having sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So does that mean that the chance of a guy who comes on the sight who isn't seen as 'hot' isn't very high then???"

No, it's all down to how you sell yourself. A lot of posters have mentioned the need for an attraction - for me it's always been about a 'connection', which is a different thing. You only have to go to a club to see 'who plays with who' to see that looks are quickly by-passed and how you can make someone feel matters much more. Always has to me.

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