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By *ruiseshipGuy OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Basingstoke Hampshire England UK

I have a unique situation I have been hesitant to act on xx. My gf wants me to have a affair where she has to fight for my love. Would you do this. We normally have a open relationship but this seems different.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago


"I have a unique situation I have been hesitant to act on xx. My gf wants me to have a affair where she has to fight for my love. Would you do this. We normally have a open relationship but this seems different."

Nope sounds like a trap that mate

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By *errykezmasCouple
14 weeks ago

Telford

No way, sounds like a mess and not fair on the 3rd party either

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By *tickler2000Man
14 weeks ago

St Agnes

That's a can of worms best left unopened

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By *r PantyMan
14 weeks ago

Morpeth

I'd be looking for a new girlfriend - sounds like she's going to do you over.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

What could possibly go wrong?

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By *opinovMan
14 weeks ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"I have a unique situation I have been hesitant to act on xx. My gf wants me to have a affair where she has to fight for my love. Would you do this. We normally have a open relationship but this seems different."

Do you have a rabbit?.. and/or has she recently bought handcuffs and a sledgehammer?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Cheryl?!

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By *end1Man
14 weeks ago

southend on sea

Hmmmmm let me think for a moment. .... no no no no keep it as a fantasy it will end in disaster!!

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By *ruiseshipGuy OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Basingstoke Hampshire England UK

I think your right

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By *ucka39Man
14 weeks ago

Newcastle

Nah, if you need to fight to prove the love it's not natural love

You're not committed equally

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By *rand Central CoupleCouple
14 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *our TV fantasyTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Waterloo, Liverpool

You might as well look. She's looking for an excuse to dump you not fight for you.

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By *IXEN200Woman
14 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

Sounds like an excuse to end things to me, you need to sit her down and as what's going on and why

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By *carlettxWoman
14 weeks ago

Essex


"I have a unique situation I have been hesitant to act on xx. My gf wants me to have an affair where she has to fight for my love. Would you do this. We normally have an open relationship but this seems different."

That sounds like a recipe for disaster

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By *weetCruellaWoman
14 weeks ago

somewhere sweet and sour

Do you want an affair? Lol if not then no would be the simple answer ... if you do, go for it but don't expect the outcome to be positive

If she's never asked for it before then why now?

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By *cnugatugMan
14 weeks ago

Chatham

Can only see it ending in heartbreak and it wouldnt be hers dude if you cherish your relationship keep that as fantasy

Trust me been in that situation myself and it ended in my 5 year relationship ending and her going off with the other fella dont make the same mistake I did

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By *tticusukMan
14 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I have a unique situation I have been hesitant to act on xx. My gf wants me to have a affair where she has to fight for my love. Would you do this. We normally have a open relationship but this seems different."

Seems like this should be in the stories section filed under jackanory

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By *ruiseshipGuy OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Basingstoke Hampshire England UK

Wow didn't expect that x so we had a big chat last night. We had one rule no ex partners she has just told me that her family tell her I remind them of her ex fiancee and she's just with me because of that. She refused that was the case and 100% wants what we have. However while i was away for work she met up with him had sex and felt nothing but regret and now knows she has no feelings for him. She has begged for forgiveness. This rule was there as both of us had bad experiences with partners going back to exes and now I don't know what to do. 24 hours ago I was happy now I have no idea. If I stay with her would she think less of me and do something like this again or there's the option to leave someone I love. Swinging was her thing but didn't really meet often mainly social club nights.

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By *weetCruellaWoman
14 weeks ago

somewhere sweet and sour

Ahhh there's always a story behind a story. So she's wanting you to have an affair to even it out. In my personal opinion, she wants to feel less guilty. I'm sorry but no amount of history money or experience would lead me to go sleep with an ex.

He is an ex for a reason. No doubt you feel betrayed and rightly so.

Once a cheat, always a cheat. No exceptions... harsh sorry but I do tend to speak my mind lol

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By *hil most chillMan
14 weeks ago

South East & Europe

Fight as in fistfight? If so, I'm IN

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