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By *rtist with muse OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Eastbourne

Why oh why oh why when you are at a club looking for fun do blokes insist on waving their cocks in front of the mrs face expecting a blow job as if it is their right?

When we are in the frame and at a club we are entirely focussed on muse pleasure, and that means she wants her pussy and tits played with and to be fucked hard and fast, multiple times if we are lucky. She does not like giving blowies just for the blokes pleasure and she gets nothing in return. Oddly she doesn't mind them wanking over her tits or arse - its just the facial dick wavers she doesn't like hahaahah

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I'm much more interested in sucking a pretty dick than I am in getting fucked by strangers.

People have different wants. Make sure you communicate yours clearly when in the situation 💜

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
9 weeks ago

Norwich

Perhaps you could consider a sign hanging around her neck?

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By *ab50Man
9 weeks ago

bexhill

I'm all about pleasing the lady, I get my pleasure from knowing I'm giving her pleasure, cant nice some people actually do this..

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By *amesy6918Man
9 weeks ago

newry

She should just bite one hard and word would spread!!lol

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By *aomilatteCouple
9 weeks ago

Midlands

Could you explain to the Men what you're into and what you're not? That's what we do before playing.

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
9 weeks ago

Londontown


"Could you explain to the Men what you're into and what you're not? That's what we do before playing."

Love this . Always clears things up and everyone can have a good time together. Boundaries and communication....

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By *iss.curvyWoman
9 weeks ago

Stourbridge


"Why oh why oh why when you are at a club looking for fun do blokes insist on waving their cocks in front of the mrs face expecting a blow job as if it is their right?

When we are in the frame and at a club we are entirely focussed on muse pleasure, and that means she wants her pussy and tits played with and to be fucked hard and fast, multiple times if we are lucky. She does not like giving blowies just for the blokes pleasure and she gets nothing in return. Oddly she doesn't mind them wanking over her tits or arse - its just the facial dick wavers she doesn't like hahaahah"

Surely when you have a conversation first you make it clear that isn't on the cards. I know when I've meet in clubs both parties always talk bout yes and no's it's just common sense is it not

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"Could you explain to the Men what you're into and what you're not? That's what we do before playing."

This, it would save a lot of hassle or misunderstandings.

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By *omPPMMan
9 weeks ago

WIGAN/MANCHESTER

As a single man men should not think there guaranteed action and it’s all about being respectful. If you are then you never know but these disrespectful guys who think there get a bj give us men who show respect a bad reputation

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By *omPPMMan
9 weeks ago

WIGAN/MANCHESTER


"Could you explain to the Men what you're into and what you're not? That's what we do before playing."

100% agree

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
9 weeks ago

Norwichish

Czech Glory Holes will be your friend. Head tucked away out of reach of any cock wavers

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By *rtist with muse OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Eastbourne


"Czech Glory Holes will be your friend. Head tucked away out of reach of any cock wavers "

Yes and we have just found a club in Swindon that has one - can't wait to get in there xx

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By *rtist with muse OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Eastbourne


"Could you explain to the Men what you're into and what you're not? That's what we do before playing."

Oh we defintely do and I wrangle the cocks for her but in club situations you still get the chancers hahaha I just have to tell them "sorry mate but she doesn't do blowjobs, but you can fuck her if you can get a condom on..."

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By *rtist with muse OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Eastbourne


"Could you explain to the Men what you're into and what you're not? That's what we do before playing."

Oh we defintely do and I wrangle the cocks for her but in club situations you still get the chancers hahaha I just have to tell them "sorry mate but she doesn't do blowjobs, but you can fuck her if you can get a condom on..."

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By *ackformore100Man
9 weeks ago

Tin town


"Why oh why oh why when you are at a club looking for fun do blokes insist on waving their cocks in front of the mrs face expecting a blow job as if it is their right?

When we are in the frame and at a club we are entirely focussed on muse pleasure, and that means she wants her pussy and tits played with and to be fucked hard and fast, multiple times if we are lucky. She does not like giving blowies just for the blokes pleasure and she gets nothing in return. Oddly she doesn't mind them wanking over her tits or arse - its just the facial dick wavers she doesn't like hahaahah"

If only they were mind readers? Aside from that men get charged a small fortune to get into clubs and I guess are more motivated to see a return on their investment. Don't know though as not in your situation but I'd imagine saying no thanks would be helpful and if they keep on get the management involved. I've been to clubs and not expected anything and most men I've seen have been the same. There are of course a handful of pushy twats though

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By *oiluvfunMan
9 weeks ago

Penrith


"Why oh why oh why when you are at a club looking for fun do blokes insist on waving their cocks in front of the mrs face expecting a blow job as if it is their right?

When we are in the frame and at a club we are entirely focussed on muse pleasure, and that means she wants her pussy and tits played with and to be fucked hard and fast, multiple times if we are lucky. She does not like giving blowies just for the blokes pleasure and she gets nothing in return. Oddly she doesn't mind them wanking over her tits or arse - its just the facial dick wavers she doesn't like hahaahah

If only they were mind readers? Aside from that men get charged a small fortune to get into clubs and I guess are more motivated to see a return on their investment. Don't know though as not in your situation but I'd imagine saying no thanks would be helpful and if they keep on get the management involved. I've been to clubs and not expected anything and most men I've seen have been the same. There are of course a handful of pushy twats though "

I've paid varying amounts from mild to wild to visit swinger clubs as a solo guy, but have never expected anything more than to feel welcome inside, and potentially make a new friend or two while there. I've certainly never wandered around cock in hand, waving it in the face of any of the women there! Indeed; seldom have I even removed/loosened any of my clothes, as there really was never any need to do so....

At least the OP (as a couple) are receptive towards single guys in clubs generally, and should be treated with better regard, as so few couples (in my experience) are as friendly...

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