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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

scenario: woman meets man on fab, has great time and many more meets so eventually they not meeting anyone else and it becomes a relationship, But the woman is 20 yrs older than the man, do you think this would ever work out to more or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why shouldn't it?

There was a big age gap between me and my hubby and it worked for us. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ah but do you think in 20 yrs he would still want the older woman??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think my missus has an age fetish. She keeps telling me to grow up

Age gaps will matter to some people and to others it wont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think to start with it will be fine but when people have a very big age gap I offen wonder if it will stay strong in later years when the older one is in their 70s and their health and sex life is deteriorating while the others 20+ years younger and still active in all ways, when you meet someone whos 20+ plus older than you you have to ralise one day you will probably become their carer, if your fine with that then all well and good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ah but do you think in 20 yrs he would still want the older woman?? "

Well mine was opposite but yes I still wanted him as he got older

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

No reason it shouldnt....

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


" when you meet someone whos 20+ plus older than you you have to ralise one day you will probably become their carer, if your fine with that then all well and good"

You could be your husbands/wifes carer regardless of age....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" when you meet someone whos 20+ plus older than you you have to ralise one day you will probably become their carer, if your fine with that then all well and good

You could be your husbands/wifes carer regardless of age...."

I know plenty of guys who do absolutely fuck all, so they have a carer as soon as the ring goes on the finger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" when you meet someone whos 20+ plus older than you you have to ralise one day you will probably become their carer, if your fine with that then all well and good

You could be your husbands/wifes carer regardless of age...."

True but if you meet and your both in your 20s you take the chance that something may happen to one of you and you'll end up looking after your partner, if you have a age gap of 20 years plus its all most a guarantee

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Id hate to think that if I was to get into a relationship with someone 20yrs younger he would be sitting there thinking of me when im old a decrepit and he gotta wipe my arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ah but do you think in 20 yrs he would still want the older woman?? "

Even if you're the same age will you still want your partner in 20 years? The reality is no one knows and trying to predict the future of your relationship will probably accelerate the termination of that relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" when you meet someone whos 20+ plus older than you you have to ralise one day you will probably become their carer, if your fine with that then all well and good

You could be your husbands/wifes carer regardless of age...."

When I was very ill with bipolar my husband who was older than me was my Carer for 12 months so totally agree doesn't matter what your age is, if your ill your hubby/ wife will become your Carer (if they want to of course)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im just wondering if it would be worth all the problems and stuff with giving a life up that im ok with for that relationship lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im just wondering if it would be worth all the problems and stuff with giving a life up that im ok with for that relationship lol "

Is it you we are talking about as says your already in a relationship lol or is this a hypothetical question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

haha sussed lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"im just wondering if it would be worth all the problems and stuff with giving a life up that im ok with for that relationship lol "

Only you can answer that....

I wouldnt be taking advice from strangers on my relationship issues.....

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

Good friends of mine had an 18 year gap, wife the oldest.

Not complete swingers, but had an open and honest marriage - discussed in advance and a blow by blow account given afterwards.

Worked very well up to a point - latterly she was finding it more difficult to pull than he was and this caused some jealousy and resentment.

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