FabSwingers.com forum: Introducing partner to swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

Hi,

I'm really keen to introduce my partner to the swinging world. I would love to have bi mmfs with her and also watch her fuck other guys.

I am wondering if anyone can give me some advice how I can approach the subject with her

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By *ingerie lover1TV/TS
20 weeks ago

Cardiff

You need to sit her down and explain why. Then see how she reacts.

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By *nya NeesWoman
20 weeks ago

Brum

Well has she mentioned being interested? Dropped any hints? If not I wouldn't go there

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By *winging_couple300Couple
20 weeks ago

Doncaster

Very very carefully

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By *uger n Spice78Couple
20 weeks ago

South East Coast

Talk to her about her fantasies see if she's open to the idea. But if she's not then you can force it.

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By *ucks_cplCouple
20 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

Whisper in her ear if she would like another cock in her during those intimate moments when you having sex. Fantasise about different scenarios as your fucking, in time the idea may grow on her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

I think yeah maybe talking about fantasies is a good way to do it. I know she has tried to arrange a threesome before she met me so might be open to it

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By *ingerie lover1TV/TS
20 weeks ago

Cardiff

What 3 sum did she want

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"What 3 sum did she want "

Was trying to arrange it with a couple she met ok tinder

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By *anchesterGuy1Man
20 weeks ago

Manchester

"Hi,

I'm really keen to introduce my partner to the swinging world. I would love to have bi mmfs with her and also watch her fuck other guys.

I am wondering if anyone can give me some advice how I can approach the subject with her"

Well OP, funny you should ask this.......

I have recently just come out the other side of this predicament, and the outcome totally different to what I expected!

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By *andKCouple
20 weeks ago

Wrea Green

Honesty, openness and communication are really important when you're a swinging couple. So start as you mean to go on.

Ask her what her thoughts are about you both having some fun with someone else or maybe another couple and how does she feel about that.

Obviously, not quite that blunt, but you get the point!

If it's a straight no, don't force it. You both have to be all in. Vx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"Hi,

I'm really keen to introduce my partner to the swinging world. I would love to have bi mmfs with her and also watch her fuck other guys.

I am wondering if anyone can give me some advice how I can approach the subject with her

Well OP, funny you should ask this.......

I have recently just come out the other side of this predicament, and the outcome totally different to what I expected!"

How did it turn out for you?

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By *tms1xCouple
20 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Talk talk and talk some more and be open and honest with each other

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
20 weeks ago

Norwichish

Honesty definitely the best policy, maybe start by telling her you have a profile on here.

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By *olfandtazCouple
20 weeks ago

Bristol

Does she know you are on here OP?

Honesty and communication are key, listen to her, talk it through

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By *uger n Spice78Couple
20 weeks ago

South East Coast

"Talk to her about her fantasies see if she's open to the idea. But if she's not then you can force it. "

Sorry dam predictive that should be not force it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"Talk to her about her fantasies see if she's open to the idea. But if she's not then you can force it.

Sorry dam predictive that should be not force it "

I figured that's what you meant haha

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Last time I did this I just wrote a couples ad and sent him the link as a surprise while he was on the way to a work thing

Had a bit of a chat later and reworded it slightly (changed the sexes we were looking for

) and then started chatting with people.

Being weird and manipulative about it is just, erm, weird and manipulative.

Your mileage may vary ofc...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

East Sussex

If she tried to arrange a threesome before and has told you about it why can't you just ask her if she'd like to do it again?

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