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50 is not a great age number

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By *iceChap4you OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Rugeley

So many awesome female profiles on here , but over and over again....can't message as to old as over 50....its hard enough trying to get conversation going and when you find someone that you really want to chat and meet up, you have no chance

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By *heonlycunnilinguyMan
9 weeks ago

Yeovil

Unfortunately I know this feeling well, however this is their choice and should be respected.

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
9 weeks ago

Carmarthen

I am 47 now, and over the last 12 months I have been feeling that I am entering a new demographic where I may be viewed as not as attractive as before.

Looking at it from a distance, it is quite interesting to think how such a subtle incrementation can make a big difference for some.

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By *essTTWoman
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

Plenty of over 50 women on here who prefer to meet playmates in the same age range.

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By *essTTWoman
9 weeks ago

Birmingham


"I am 47 now, and over the last 12 months I have been feeling that I am entering a new demographic where I may be viewed as not as attractive as before.

Looking at it from a distance, it is quite interesting to think how such a subtle incrementation can make a big difference for some."

Like the incremation between 64 and 65?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So many awesome female profiles on here , but over and over again....can't message as to old as over 50....its hard enough trying to get conversation going and when you find someone that you really want to chat and meet up, you have no chance"

Use the advanced search function and tick the box that says you're the age they're looking for.

It saves disappointment. People are entitled to have age preferences as much as any other.

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By *essTTWoman
9 weeks ago

Birmingham


"So many awesome female profiles on here , but over and over again....can't message as to old as over 50....its hard enough trying to get conversation going and when you find someone that you really want to chat and meet up, you have no chance

Use the advanced search function and tick the box that says you're the age they're looking for.

It saves disappointment. People are entitled to have age preferences as much as any other. "

The fact that not a day go by where this has to be explained to man on the forums is mind blowing

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
9 weeks ago

Carmarthen


"I am 47 now, and over the last 12 months I have been feeling that I am entering a new demographic where I may be viewed as not as attractive as before.

Looking at it from a distance, it is quite interesting to think how such a subtle incrementation can make a big difference for some.

Like the incremation between 64 and 65?"

Is that a thing too?

I noticed things change a little when I went 46.

Luckily I prefer older women but I do like younger guys. I still have interest but maybe not quite the same options and spread of them as I did before.

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
9 weeks ago

Carmarthen


"So many awesome female profiles on here , but over and over again....can't message as to old as over 50....its hard enough trying to get conversation going and when you find someone that you really want to chat and meet up, you have no chance

Use the advanced search function and tick the box that says you're the age they're looking for.

It saves disappointment. People are entitled to have age preferences as much as any other.

The fact that not a day go by where this has to be explained to man on the forums is mind blowing "

It’s more who you come across who catches your eye in the forums as much anything.

But yes, filters are one’s friend.

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By *atty74Man
9 weeks ago

Abergele

Hi, I’ve found this. Just 50 and seems to be a natural cutoff for some folks.

Don’t feel like I want to lie about my age. I’m quite happy at 50.

I think there should be a group for + 50s. I’m looking to meet open-minded and like-minded folks in North Wales of this age group.

It’s not all about sex but more a mindset dynamic.

Sometimes it’s not all about pumping for five hours straight But I think once you hit 50, you open up a bit more and start to explore.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Hi, I’ve found this. Just 50 and seems to be a natural cutoff for some folks.

Don’t feel like I want to lie about my age. I’m quite happy at 50.

I think there should be a group for + 50s. I’m looking to meet open-minded and like-minded folks in North Wales of this age group.

It’s not all about sex but more a mindset dynamic.

Sometimes it’s not all about pumping for five hours straight But I think once you hit 50, you open up a bit more and start to explore."

Type this into the forum search bar.

'50s and overs and those who appreciate us'

Every thread fills up.

You're welcome.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
9 weeks ago

Stoke


"So many awesome female profiles on here , but over and over again....can't message as to old as over 50....its hard enough trying to get conversation going and when you find someone that you really want to chat and meet up, you have no chance"

We've cut off at 50 because I don't want sex with someone my parents age.... The fella is pushing his luck 🤣

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

Look at people who are looking in your age range. The older you get the fewer people will want to meet you, it's a fact of life.

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By *erkshireGuyUKMan
9 weeks ago

Reading

Having just turned 51, I’ve noted my options in contacting people are a little more limited than they were a few days ago!

Still, Fab is a swings and roundabouts type of experience, as much as any online social / dating site. We’re all sifting through the shingle to find the pearls.

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
9 weeks ago

cardiff

Well I think 50 is a great age xx

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By *iceChap4you OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Rugeley

I'm not saying people shouldn't have age preference....what I'm saying is 50 seems to be much more common that people dont even want to chat with someone over that age nevermind have sex....cause you can't even msg them lol

You could be perfect in every other way but your age number just cuts you off.

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By *eabellsWoman
9 weeks ago

bristol

I remember feeling kind of the same when I read the research that shows the majority of men as they grow older still want to date 18-25 year old women as that is who they find the most attractive, whereas women, as they age tend to find people closer to their age the most attractive.

Kind of made me want to give up entirely and go full lesbian.

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By *aomilatteCouple
9 weeks ago

Midlands

What you may not realise is lots of Men in their 20s and 30s also comment how they don't get replies. Some Men over 50 do well on here, so it's not all about age.

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
9 weeks ago

rochester

Apparently, fifty is the new forty.

But unfortunately 9pm is the new midnight too.

HW

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By *ripodius WillyusMan
9 weeks ago

Here and there

I am in my 60s and doing well on here.

Put on your big boy pants and get a grip 😁

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
9 weeks ago

Middle England

We don't arrange meets per se so it might be different for us; but we go to clubs and can honestly say that age is not a major factor.

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By *entlemanFoxMan
9 weeks ago

North East / London

I have had a good experience in my fifties, plenty of new Fab friends and playmates.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I'm not saying people shouldn't have age preference....what I'm saying is 50 seems to be much more common that people dont even want to chat with someone over that age nevermind have sex....cause you can't even msg them lol

You could be perfect in every other way but your age number just cuts you off."

The problem with that is that you can't tell who just wants to chat and who thinks any response to a message means you'll meet them.

If I was at work or a social occasion I'd expect to mix with everyone regardless of their age. However fab is neither. It's primarily a site where people meet each other for sex. Therefore most of us limit people who can contact us to the ages we're interested in.

Bring perfect in every other way but one still means you're not perfect.

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By *end1Man
9 weeks ago

southend on sea

There's a lot of couples and single females who cut off around the 45+ age group here in Essex. There's a couple of regular private house parties but you can tell their very clickie.

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